First days of your broken heart ( Archived) (57)

Mar 19, 2010 9:02 AM CST First days of your broken heart
chocolateflavour
chocolateflavourchocolateflavourAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium27 Threads 13 Polls 155 Posts
It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
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Mar 19, 2010 9:21 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Zellarrone1online today!
Zellarrone1online today!Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
dunno about the first days of being broke being the hardest.. I find the middle days and also the final days of being broke a nitemare too uh oh
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Mar 19, 2010 9:29 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?


Oh God don't remind me of that horrible black place. That terrible inner emptyness. The knowledge that your life will never be the same again. Waking up alone in the morning and realising that it's not a dream and trying to find the willingness and energy to face the day.

When yesterday you were sure what direction your life was heading, today it feels like someone has thrown in a hand grenade and even if you could find the pieces, you couldn't put it back together.

All your dreams are gone in the blink of an eye.

Nope. Never experienced that!
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Mar 19, 2010 9:32 AM CST First days of your broken heart
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Godsgift: Oh God don't remind me of that horrible black place. That terrible inner emptyness. The knowledge that your life will never be the same again. Waking up alone in the morning and realising that it's not a dream and trying to find the willingness and energy to face the day.

When yesterday you were sure what direction your life was heading, today it feels like someone has thrown in a hand grenade and even if you could find the pieces, you couldn't put it back together.

All your dreams are gone in the blink of an eye.

Nope. Never experienced that!


Very well-put!! Maybe that's why I find myself running from anything that could/might be a serious relationship anymore. That is such a horrible feeling & my track record is lousy. sigh
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Mar 19, 2010 9:34 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
sweetowen: Very well-put!! Maybe that's why I find myself running from anything that could/might be a serious relationship anymore. That is such a horrible feeling & my track record is lousy.


I just realised that about myself as I was typing it.hug
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Mar 19, 2010 9:53 AM CST First days of your broken heart
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
sweetowen: Very well-put!! Maybe that's why I find myself running from anything that could/might be a serious relationship anymore. That is such a horrible feeling & my track record is lousy.


hug And because of our histories and experiences of past failures and pain we can start to question the chances of succeeding again in the future and question the effort required versus the rewards to be gained. This is a very negative attitude of course and not one that should be dwelled on too much .....grin

But hopefully it will just happen one day .... PING...!! ... cupid's arrow will strike, you are suddenly in love and all that other crap you have just been worrying about goes away. And we all live happily ever after.....Tahraaa .....cheering grin
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Mar 19, 2010 9:58 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Zellarrone1online today!
Zellarrone1online today!Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
RDM59: And because of our histories and experiences of past failures and pain we can start to question the chances of succeeding again in the future and question the effort required versus the rewards to be gained. This is a very negative attitude of course and not one that should be dwelled on too much .....

But hopefully it will just happen one day .... PING...!! ... cupid's arrow will strike, you are suddenly in love and all that other crap you have just been worrying about goes away. And we all live happily ever after.....Tahraaa .....
.... "and we all live happily ever after" until doomsday strikes again and once more we are in the first stage stage rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 19, 2010 9:59 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Zellarrone1online today!
Zellarrone1online today!Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Zellarrone1: .... "and we all live happily ever after" until doomsday strikes again and once more we are in the first stage stage
Sorry, first days stage. I was laughing so much I wrote it wrong laugh laugh
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Mar 19, 2010 10:05 AM CST First days of your broken heart
chocolateflavour
chocolateflavourchocolateflavourAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium27 Threads 13 Polls 155 Posts
Say we learnt from the previous experience regardless how painful it is. Let's hope that the cupid's arrow will strike me. But hey, why the cupid has to be ugly fat boy ... nevertheless happily ever after like cinderella ... heart wings
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Mar 19, 2010 10:07 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Pixels1
Pixels1Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 755 Posts
chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?


Well if I had a nice doggie like you I wouldn't worry at all.........wink
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Mar 19, 2010 10:10 AM CST First days of your broken heart
chocolateflavour
chocolateflavourchocolateflavourAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium27 Threads 13 Polls 155 Posts
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Mar 19, 2010 10:12 AM CST First days of your broken heart
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Yes i spring cleaned for days,then sat down and cryed.Then one morning when i woke up i felt alive again and went on with my life!dancing cheers
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Mar 19, 2010 10:15 AM CST First days of your broken heart
bittersweet28467
bittersweet28467bittersweet28467Calabash, North Carolina USA18 Threads 2 Polls 467 Posts
Nothing is more painful than a broken heart. I think the key is to learn how to stop destroying yourself, at least for me, I go into self destruct mode and slowly become me again not the old me, but a new me because you are forever changed. Just trying not to become jaded in the process...wink
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Mar 19, 2010 10:25 AM CST First days of your broken heart
lonedancer
lonedancerlonedancerBelmont, Ontario Canada49 Posts
Cried a lot....Its always sad when you find out the person you trust the most is a player...
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Mar 19, 2010 10:28 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Khaderb
KhaderbKhaderbAmman, Jordan14 Threads 150 Posts
chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?



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Mar 19, 2010 10:35 AM CST First days of your broken heart
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Bottle of Vodka and telling to my self its not fist time its not last time...go trough this and you'll be fine tomorrow and usually i'm bouquet
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Mar 19, 2010 10:56 AM CST First days of your broken heart
Readybake101
Readybake101Readybake101Dundurn, Saskatchewan Canada12 Threads 2 Polls 162 Posts
chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.

Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?



That is a cute Hush Puppy basset hound. Yeah, I went into the Connecting Singles and meandered. Then I started to miss the clonazapam -- and then i started to think about the poor again and how they live without my money --

In all honesty get a punching bag -- hang some nuts on it and kick it til the cows come home.



typing
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Mar 19, 2010 10:58 AM CST First days of your broken heart
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Readybake101: In all honesty get a punching bag -- hang some nuts on it and kick it til the cows come home.


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Mar 19, 2010 11:01 AM CST First days of your broken heart
chocolateflavour
chocolateflavourchocolateflavourAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium27 Threads 13 Polls 155 Posts
Readybake101: That is a cute Hush Puppy basset hound. Yeah, I went into the Connecting Singles and meandered. Then I started to miss the clonazapam -- and then i started to think about the poor again and how they live without my money --

In all honesty get a punching bag -- hang some nuts on it and kick it til the cows come home.


peace I will choose the best hush puppy for me
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Mar 19, 2010 11:07 AM CST First days of your broken heart
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
i watched the entire lord of the rings saga .




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