Jaded and Cynical (144)
solsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 PostsSo ..certain posters lately have said nice and romantic things, only to be slated by both men and women,,so what do we really want??
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Honesty to individuals. Do you like being grouped into a hurd and thinking ah, I fit that criteria so it must be meant for me
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elsson: Honesty to individuals. Do you like being grouped into a hurd and thinking ah, I fit that criteria so it must be meant for me
no the herd aspect is not whats in question!!..women say they want romance the someone comes along and offers it, then we say they are false??? get real im asking whats what here?
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elsson: Honesty to individuals. Do you like being grouped into a hurd and thinking ah, I fit that criteria so it must be meant for me
well, life teaches that one can run with the pack and still be an individual. In fact, it is essential to maintain one's individuality or else life becomes nothing but one regurgitation after another
jmho
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solsticemoon: no the herd aspect is not whats in question!!..women say they want romance the someone comes along and offers it, then we say they are false??? get real im asking whats what here?
can the proffered romance be trusted sweets? It is the issue.
jmho
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solsticemoon: no the herd aspect is not whats in question!!..women say they want romance the someone comes along and offers it, then we say they are false??? get real im asking whats what here?
Well personally if I am going to compliment a woman I will do it on her individual merits not make a sweeping all inclusive statement to encompass all fitting into a very narrow criteria
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solsticemoon: So ..certain posters lately have said nice and romantic things, only to be slated by both men and women,,so what do we really want??
It all depends on the indiviudal
It depends on what floats your boat. Personally speaking, the thread you are referring to, just doesnt do it for me. I am neither a cynic or a rose tinted glass wearer..just in between
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felixis99: can the proffered romance be trusted sweets? It is the issue.jmho
noooo..I live for the moment..i take everyone on face value.even when past experience says i shouldnt..but..if a guy appear to be genuine..shouldnt we believe him?
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In response to: So ..certain posters lately have said nice and romantic things, only to be slated by both men and women,,so what do we really want??
People respond to various posts based on their own perspective moulded by their own individual collection of experiences. Some truly make my eyes pop (yes, Robert, moreso than usual
). But I feel that generalisations are bandied about recklessly and they can be quite harmful. Just because in X's past, Y behaved in a similar fashion doesn't necessarily mean that Q is of a similar personality. If that makes any sense. Always hated Algebra.------ This thread is Archived ------
felixis99: well, life teaches that one can run with the pack and still be an individual. In fact, it is essential to maintain one's individuality or else life becomes nothing but one regurgitation after another jmho
I agree!!
It's important to maintain one's individuality and remain just as you are.
I am who I am, and I am happy with who I am!!!!
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solsticemoon: noooo..I live for the moment..i take everyone on face value.even when past experience says i shouldnt..but..if a guy appear to be genuine..shouldnt we believe him?
i think everyone deserves the benifit of the doubt, until they prove otherwise...------ This thread is Archived ------
solsticemoon: noooo..I live for the moment..i take everyone on face value.even when past experience says i shouldnt..but..if a guy appear to be genuine..shouldnt we believe him?
yes, I think I basically agree. I mean no one ca nread the future so it migh tbe there and it might not be
if we sit around waiting for it......we sit around IMO
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jlw45: i think everyone deserves the benifit of the doubt, until they prove otherwise...
ya even 45
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TurkishDelight: It all depends on the indiviudal
It depends on what floats your boat. Personally speaking, the thread you are referring to, just doesnt do it for me. I am neither a cynic or a rose tinted glass wearer..just in between
It depends on what floats your boat. Personally speaking, the thread you are referring to, just doesnt do it for me. I am neither a cynic or a rose tinted glass wearer..just in between
yeh and we all keep our emotions close to our chest..but really does anyone deserve to be slated so much?...
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Oksata: I agree!!
It's important to maintain one's individuality and remain just as you are.
I am who I am, and I am happy with who I am!!!!
aces It's important to maintain one's individuality and remain just as you are.
I am who I am, and I am happy with who I am!!!!
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felixis99: ya even 45
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solsticemoon: So ..certain posters lately have said nice and romantic things, only to be slated by both men and women,,so what do we really want??
I agree with you on this one Solsticemoon. I see many times someone new comes into the Threads and post something and the general mood of the Thread gets attacked. I don't know why! I think so many people are not used to someone expressing their emotions in public so they believe it couldn't be real. Sometimes they probably are real and just different then the majority of us.
Just because it is different shouldn't make it wrong.
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solsticemoon: yeh and we all keep our emotions close to our chest..but really does anyone deserve to be slated so much?...
I am not slating anybody just offering an opinion to your question and my answers are not directed at any individual just offering a general opinion.
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Big_John: I agree with you on this one Solsticemoon. I see many times someone new comes into the Threads and post something and the general mood of the Thread gets attacked. I don't know why! I think so many people are not used to someone expressing their emotions in public so they believe it couldn't be real. Sometimes they probably are real and just different then the majority of us.
Just because it is different shouldn't make it wrong.
Just because it is different shouldn't make it wrong.
Oh Bj..( that seems kinda wrong somehow
)..yet again you make perfect sense!
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solsticemoon: noooo..I live for the moment..i take everyone on face value.even when past experience says i shouldnt..but..if a guy appear to be genuine..shouldnt we believe him?
well sweets there's a little more to it - not necessarily trusted in the sense of monogamous - tho that would be good tooI also mean trusted as in keeping the bouche firme
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