baggage-experience? (89)
bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 PostsWhats the difference? Both can make you cautious. Many examples. cheating for one. Whats the difference between being trusting and burying you head in the sand. Please don't focus too much on cheating. Lets have a general discussion please. anyone? 
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bob1959: Whats the difference? Both can make you cautious. Many examples. cheating for one. Whats the difference between being trusting and burying you head in the sand. Please don't focus too much on cheating. Lets have a general discussion please. anyone?
Hiya Bob
My take is that baggage turns into experience once issues have been dealt with
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bob1959: Whats the difference? Both can make you cautious. Many examples. cheating for one. Whats the difference between being trusting and burying you head in the sand. Please don't focus too much on cheating. Lets have a general discussion please. anyone?
all I can say is burying your your hate in sand will do nothing for your self-esteem why be with someone that doesn't want to be with you life is far too Short
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woohoo128: all I can say is burying your your hate head in sand will do nothing for your self-esteem why be with someone that doesn't want to be with you life is far too Short
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This stuff is just to easy for you!
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Life experience tells me that children are not baggage in a relationship, they are part of it.
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Baggage is when something from a former relationship is still bothering you and you carry it into your current relationship.
Experience is when you've finally taken the time to process it all and learn from whatever it was by letting go and move on.
Experience is when you've finally taken the time to process it all and learn from whatever it was by letting go and move on.
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I'm still good friends with most of my exes
Cannot see the point of making enemies just because the relationship didn't work
Just my opinion
Cannot see the point of making enemies just because the relationship didn't work
Just my opinion
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Veritaas: Life experience tells me that children are not baggage in a relationship, they are part of it.
oops btw------ This thread is Archived ------
somechick: Baggage is when something from a former relationship is still bothering you and you carry it into your current relationship.
Experience is when you've finally taken the time to process it all and learn from whatever it was by letting go and move on.
Do the lessons you've learned or the actions you take as a result constitute baggage?Experience is when you've finally taken the time to process it all and learn from whatever it was by letting go and move on.
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woohoo128: I'm still good friends with most of my exesCannot see the point of making enemies just because the relationship didn't work
Just my opinion
HOW DO YOU DO THAT!! All my ex's have nothing but contempt for me, and I try to do things right (except once)Just my opinion
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bob1959: HOW DO YOU DO THAT!! All my ex's have nothing but contempt for me, and I try to do things right (except once)
I have absolutely no idea I think it's just the way they can't live with me
But they still want to be friends and I'm cool with that
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woohoo128: I have absolutely no idea I think it's just the way they can't live with me But they still want to be friends and I'm cool with that
Oh boy, mine can defiantly live without me. I think they could live without me living!!------ This thread is Archived ------
bob1959: This stuff is just to easy for you!
haha, I wish! that was just a fluke
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trish123: haha, I wish! that was just a flukSorry that dog don't hunt. You come up with too many "flukes"e
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bob1959: Oh boy, mine can defiantly live without me. I think they could live without me living!!
I think the problem in all my relationships is that they wanted me to grow up they still loved the kid in me but wanted someone more responsible
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Sometimes the baggage is seen by your partner that you don't see in yourself. Living older doesn't give you experience unless you are aware what is happening and learn from it.
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woohoo128: I think the problem in all my relationships is that they wanted me to grow up they still loved the kid in me but wanted someone more responsible
I don't know. They call me immature but then again, they call me....well everything in the book.------ This thread is Archived ------
Big_John: Sometimes the baggage is seen by your partner that you don't see in yourself. Living older doesn't give you experience unless you are aware what is happening and learn from it.
Thank you John. Your one of the few on here who didn't fail in your relationship. We should all listen to you I think. (humble emot goes here)------ This thread is Archived ------
bob1959: Do the lessons you've learned or the actions you take as a result constitute baggage?
I think if strong emotions are still there you're carrying baggage.I guess fresh baggage.
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