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Apr 3, 2010 4:40 PM CST chemistry
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
I'm wondering if chemistry is instantaneous in any great relationship or if in can build over time. My last gf and I had INSANE chemistry from the first moment. The relationship was great in a lot of ways although, ultimatly, it failed. I have dated a little (very little) since then, Nothing. Craving that feeling, have to admit, but I wonder if it's necessary (great chemistry from the start) for a relationship to develop? dunno confused
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Apr 3, 2010 4:44 PM CST chemistry
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
i dont see why it cant be either,i was good friends with my husband first,then it turned into more over time.wine hug
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Apr 3, 2010 4:45 PM CST chemistry
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
bob1959: I'm wondering if chemistry is instantaneous in any great relationship or if in can build over time. My last gf and I had INSANE chemistry from the first moment. The relationship was great in a lot of ways although, ultimatly, it failed. I have dated a little (very little) since then, Nothing. Craving that feeling, have to admit, but I wonder if it's necessary (great chemistry from the start) for a relationship to develop?

Good question: Hmmmm? I had that LUST in a couple of relationships. I know what you mean. HMOG. Couldn't get enough of him. That other thread..not going there. ohhh! scary people over there. Anyways, would be nice if a great long relationship would develop. But that was many years ago. Still looking for that, but with much more. teddybear
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Apr 3, 2010 4:47 PM CST chemistry
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
Christmas1: Good question: Hmmmm? I had that LUST in a couple of relationships. I know what you mean. HMOG. Couldn't get enough of him. That other thread..not going there. ohhh! scary people over there. Anyways, would be nice if a great long relationship would develop. But that was many years ago. Still looking for that, but with much more.
Ah well that blows me out then!!
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Apr 3, 2010 4:48 PM CST chemistry
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
trurorob: Ah well that blows me out then!!

Hey baby...where you been? Blows? LOL...don't nobody else read this. LOLrolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2010 4:49 PM CST chemistry
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Christmas1: Good question: Hmmmm? I had that LUST in a couple of relationships. I know what you mean. HMOG. Couldn't get enough of him. That other thread..not going there. ohhh! scary people over there. Anyways, would be nice if a great long relationship would develop. But that was many years ago. Still looking for that, but with much more.
Yeh, that was the first time anything like that happened to me. I LIKE it!dancing
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Apr 3, 2010 4:52 PM CST chemistry
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ive always known my lovers as soon as I met them (sometimes much to my surprise) Ahhhh that elusive wonderful chemistry. They have all grown into relationships...I couldnt imagine one without the other wine
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Apr 3, 2010 4:59 PM CST chemistry
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
venusenvy: Ive always known my lovers as soon as I met them (sometimes much to my surprise) Ahhhh that elusive wonderful chemistry. They have all grown into relationships...I couldnt imagine one without the other
Good answer. Elusive IS the operative word.cheers
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Apr 3, 2010 5:14 PM CST chemistry
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
bob1959: I'm wondering if chemistry is instantaneous in any great relationship or if in can build over time. My last gf and I had INSANE chemistry from the first moment. The relationship was great in a lot of ways although, ultimatly, it failed. I have dated a little (very little) since then, Nothing. Craving that feeling, have to admit, but I wonder if it's necessary (great chemistry from the start) for a relationship to develop?


Not for me; I failed chemistry. laugh
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Apr 3, 2010 5:16 PM CST chemistry
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
navygirl1: Not for me; I failed chemistry.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2010 5:16 PM CST chemistry
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
Christmas1: Hey baby...where you been? Blows? LOL...don't nobody else read this. LOL
Family business!!, but I have that much chemistry I am changing my name to Merlin!!
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Apr 3, 2010 5:17 PM CST chemistry
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
navygirl1: Not for me; I failed chemistry.
What about Alchemy?, we could mix it up a little?
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Apr 3, 2010 5:18 PM CST chemistry
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
"Insane" or instantaneous chemistry is the best, and I know immediately if someone is going to be attractive to me...not here, I mean in real life with sight, sound and perhaps touch. laugh

A relationship can go from moderate to better without that chemistry, but who wants moderate to better? laugh
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Apr 3, 2010 5:21 PM CST chemistry
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
JAN_is: "Insane" or instantaneous chemistry is the best, and I know immediately if someone is going to be attractive to me...not here, I mean in real life with sight, sound and perhaps touch.

A relationship can go from moderate to better without that chemistry, but who wants moderate to better?
My ex told me as time went on I got moderately better!!
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Apr 3, 2010 5:21 PM CST chemistry
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
navygirl1: Not for me; I failed chemistry.


rolling on the floor laughing Nice one. I aced chemistry but failed psychology dunno
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Apr 3, 2010 5:22 PM CST chemistry
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
trurorob: What about Alchemy?, we could mix it up a little?


Nope; but I did pass recess. rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2010 5:23 PM CST chemistry
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
trurorob: My ex told me as time went on I got moderately better!!


Well that´s not something to be proud of. rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2010 5:26 PM CST chemistry
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
JAN_is: Well that´s not something to be proud of.
I dont think I remember saying I was Jan!, but everything in moderation is my motto!!
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Apr 3, 2010 5:27 PM CST chemistry
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
Fraya: Nice one. I aced chemistry but failed psychology
You couldnt mess around with hes mind then??
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Apr 3, 2010 5:32 PM CST chemistry
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
trurorob: I dont think I remember saying I was Jan!, but everything in moderation is my motto!!


Joke doh

Moderation is a good motto....sometimes. grin
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