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I couldn't answer as to what action you should take, that has to be your decision. I just find it incredibly crappy that someone can treat not only you but also their own wife and family as such. Kinda destroys your trust and faith in others doesn't it.
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justpeachie: but I met the most amazing guy here on CS in 2008...and have been dating ever since.
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
absolutely, yes
but she will not like you & prob refuse to believe you at 1st - this I can speak to
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Desertguy49: I couldn't answer as to what action you should take, that has to be your decision. I just find it incredibly crappy that someone can treat not only you but also their own wife and family as such. Kinda destroys your trust and faith in others doesn't it.
yes it has...i have never felt more naive and stupid
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felixis99: absolutely, yes
but she will not like you & prob refuse to believe you at 1st - this I can speak to
but she will not like you & prob refuse to believe you at 1st - this I can speak to
ty for your insight
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Desertguy49: I couldn't answer as to what action you should take, that has to be your decision. I just find it incredibly crappy that someone can treat not only you but also their own wife and family as such. Kinda destroys your trust and faith in others doesn't it.
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justpeachie: but I met the most amazing guy here on CS in 2008...and have been dating ever since.
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
Its a tough one, she doesnt deserve to be hurt shes done nothing wrong but on the other hand sould she be kept in the dark.
Then again she may already know and hide from it.
Sorry not much help.
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justpeachie: ty for your insight
ur welcome my
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Costapacket: Its a tough one, she doesnt deserve to be hurt shes done nothing wrong but on the other hand sould she be kept in the dark.
Then again she may already know and hide from it.
Sorry not much help.
Then again she may already know and hide from it.
Sorry not much help.
Yes, I've considered both sides of this. Thank you for sharing your opinion with me.
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im so sorry for your pain
this is terrible and wrong but i urge you to think it though
your family is hurt but you wont feel better hurting another
this is terrible and wrong but i urge you to think it though
your family is hurt but you wont feel better hurting another
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think it thRough
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Oh Ohh You poor sweet women,
My heart is just aching for you right now, gosh its such a tough call.....but I THINK she needs to know for HER own good as well as your peace of mind.
He the lying cheating A hole dosent deserve HER or YOU or any happiness, YES you will hurt his wife, but by the sounds of it, if not with you this will happend again at some stage, so you might as well let the cat out of the bag now.....and enlighten this poor women, who probably thinks as you did, she has the MOST wonderful and devoted husband......PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it makes me sick...
My hugs to your shattered heart peachy, as mine has and is in a similar situation.....but minus the wife factor...but promises made and years spent, to end so suddenly.
Take Care and peace to your heart
Deb
My heart is just aching for you right now, gosh its such a tough call.....but I THINK she needs to know for HER own good as well as your peace of mind.
He the lying cheating A hole dosent deserve HER or YOU or any happiness, YES you will hurt his wife, but by the sounds of it, if not with you this will happend again at some stage, so you might as well let the cat out of the bag now.....and enlighten this poor women, who probably thinks as you did, she has the MOST wonderful and devoted husband......PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it makes me sick...
My hugs to your shattered heart peachy, as mine has and is in a similar situation.....but minus the wife factor...but promises made and years spent, to end so suddenly.
Take Care and peace to your heart
Deb
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mindfful: im so sorry for your pain
this is terrible and wrong but i urge you to think it though
your family is hurt but you wont feel better hurting another
this is terrible and wrong but i urge you to think it though
your family is hurt but you wont feel better hurting another
deep down i know you are right...i cant bear the thought of hurting them. ty
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justpeachie: but I met the most amazing guy here on CS in 2008...and have been dating ever since.
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
How old is the picture? Maybe all's not as it appears?
Have you confronted him on this?
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mindfful: im so sorry for your pain
this is terrible and wrong but i urge you to think it though
your family is hurt but you wont feel better hurting another
this is terrible and wrong but i urge you to think it though
your family is hurt but you wont feel better hurting another
I agree with the CS sage...
I too, am sorry for your pain....
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kidatheart: How old is the picture? Maybe all's not as it appears?
Have you confronted him on this?
Have you confronted him on this?
Good point...
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kidatheart: How old is the picture? Maybe all's not as it appears?
Have you confronted him on this?
that was the first thing that came to mind, with me too...Have you confronted him on this?
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kidatheart: How old is the picture? Maybe all's not as it appears?
Have you confronted him on this?
Have you confronted him on this?
she posted the picture in January...so yep its pretty current and during the time he was in town visiting his kids. That photo was the starting of some research that revealed a page full of lies...so far. Im done looking for more to hurt myself with and its definitely over for me. Just tried to put myself in her shoes. Would I want to know? Part of me thinks yes?
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Sorry to hear about your pain and sorry that you got hurt.
It seems that he lead you on,sorry to be so harsh.
It's hard to give advice on matters such as this,
let alone an opinion.My suggestion is she needs to know;
who knows how many others he's been with and,who knows
how many he'll hurt too.
It seems that he lead you on,sorry to be so harsh.
It's hard to give advice on matters such as this,
let alone an opinion.My suggestion is she needs to know;
who knows how many others he's been with and,who knows
how many he'll hurt too.
In response to: but I met the most amazing guy here on CS in 2008...and have been dating ever since.
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?
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In the military, hardworking and displayed impeccable morals and character. His voice, his kiss made me melt. He had to relocate to TX this month...or so I thought. He begged me to try long-distance...just for awhile until he settled into his new job. Turns out I find his son's webpage with a link to his mother's whom I have never met. Open the link and there is a picture of her with MY boyfriend...Status?: Married.
I believed every word that came out of his filthy lying mouth...he invaded my heart, my life, my world...promises and relationships with my children and family and friends. I want to hop on a plane and deliver her 2 yrs worth of photos, emails, letters and gifts....stop me! What would you do? Does she deserve to know?