Have you evolved as a single person over time? (79)
bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 PostsThat is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
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bob1959: That is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
I have always been single, never married and I like being single!
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equiya: I have always been single, never married and I like being single!
Thank for your candor. But you've never met ME!
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bob1959: That is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
Yes i am very differnt , The past 8 yrs has opened up so many new things to me that I feel if i was still married i would never have seen OR become who i am, be it good or bad .I personaly have come "into MY own "
I can now speak for myself and i dont feel the need to worry on >>
What if my x will get annoyed by not informing him of someting etc etc
Just a personal thing
Bob i have not read ur profile so i dont know your story as such but same question back to u ,,,,
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I would hope I evolved 
Now other then chemistry, I look for similar interests, direction in life, goals, personality traits that are compatible with mine, etc.
I became more tolerant to differences, and started to believe that there are no good or bad people, just good and bad matches
Now other then chemistry, I look for similar interests, direction in life, goals, personality traits that are compatible with mine, etc.
I became more tolerant to differences, and started to believe that there are no good or bad people, just good and bad matches
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In response to: That is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
Different yes I'm different.I'm lonely alot and cry alot when I think of what used to be.I'd give up everything that I own just to have what I lost back again.
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Nuliiiiiii: Yes i am very differnt , The past 8 yrs has opened up so many new things to me that I feel if i was still married i would never have seen OR become who i am, be it good or bad .
I personaly have come "into MY own "
I can now speak for myself and i dont feel the need to worry on >>
What if my x will get annoyed by not informing him of someting etc etc
Just a personal thing
Bob i have not read ur profile so i dont know your story as such but same question back to u ,,,,
I was afraid someone was going to ask me. I'm still sorting it out but it's not all positive. I'm hoping to identify some patterns that make me feel like i'm sort of in a normal progression. 3 years for me (officially) since the gavel came down anyway.I personaly have come "into MY own "
I can now speak for myself and i dont feel the need to worry on >>
What if my x will get annoyed by not informing him of someting etc etc
Just a personal thing
Bob i have not read ur profile so i dont know your story as such but same question back to u ,,,,
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bob1959: That is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
yes of course - regardless of my relationship status I have "evolved"
In some ways i am very different - more confident maybe, definitely more discerning, less concious about what others think about my life , my decisions, my person
but in some ways I am still the same as I always was. It's just that these tendencies I have described ^ here are more pronounced now, I think
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nataliemkd: I would hope I evolved
Now other then chemistry, I look for similar interests, direction in life, goals, personality traits that are compatible with mine, etc.
I became more tolerant to differences, and started to believe that there are no good or bad people, just good and bad matches
How long have you been single nat?Now other then chemistry, I look for similar interests, direction in life, goals, personality traits that are compatible with mine, etc.
I became more tolerant to differences, and started to believe that there are no good or bad people, just good and bad matches
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bob1959: That is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
yes ive become more piccy and realised how cruel people that are in a relationship can be towards each other
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somechick: Different yes I'm different.I'm lonely alot and cry alot when I think of what used to be.I'd give up everything that I own just to have what I lost back again.
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somechick: Different yes I'm different.I'm lonely alot and cry alot when I think of what used to be.I'd give up everything that I own just to have what I lost back again.
Yours so honest. You break my heart sometimes, you know that?
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bob1959: That is to say, Are you different now then when you first became single? If so, How?
Yes i think i have grown more,i have learned alot just by reading profiles!
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felixis99: yes of course - regardless of my relationship status I have "evolved"
In some ways i am very different - more confident maybe, definitely more discerning, less concious about what others think about my life , my decisions, my person
but in some ways I am still the same as I always was. It's just that these tendencies I have described ^ here are more pronounced now, I think
You strike me as someone who had those qualities to begin with and independence has magnified them?In some ways i am very different - more confident maybe, definitely more discerning, less concious about what others think about my life , my decisions, my person
but in some ways I am still the same as I always was. It's just that these tendencies I have described ^ here are more pronounced now, I think
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somechick: Different yes I'm different.I'm lonely alot and cry alot when I think of what used to be.I'd give up everything that I own just to have what I lost back again.
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somechick: Different yes I'm different.I'm lonely alot and cry alot when I think of what used to be.I'd give up everything that I own just to have what I lost back again.
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bozzyy: yes ive become more piccy and realised how cruel people that are in a relationship can be towards each other
That hits VERY close to home boz. Have you become hardened or jaded? More careful?------ This thread is Archived ------
demonfairy: Yes i think i have grown more,i have learned alot just by reading profiles!
Now Now fairy do u think the Profiles always TRUTH???
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bob1959: You strike me as someone who had those qualities to begin with and independence has magnified them?
IDK, Bob, that it's magnified them, but allowed me to express them with more confidence. I am happy with who the person is who is ME now
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felixis99: IDK, Bob, that it's magnified them, but allowed me to express them with more confidence. I am happy with who the person is who is ME now
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