Should you watch how you act in the forums! ( Archived) (162)

Apr 19, 2010 10:11 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.confused doh
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Apr 19, 2010 10:13 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
It did with me,this guy i was talking to kept throwing up things i said in the forums,we are no longer speaking because of itdunno doh
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Apr 19, 2010 10:14 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
demonfairy: Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.


What does cutting up mean??
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Apr 19, 2010 10:14 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
raphael118
raphael118raphael118arlington, Virginia USA8 Threads 2 Polls 1,074 Posts
No dont worry- i'll forgive you for flirting and begging with me
demonfairy: Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.
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Apr 19, 2010 10:14 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
I don't worry about that as much as your possible future employers seeing it. A lot of the employers are starting to check the Facebook, Myspace networks to see about their potential employees. If they don't like what they see online, it could very well cut you out of a job.
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Apr 19, 2010 10:14 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
no - flirting is fun and there's nothing wrong with it - if you find someone later - its probably the flirting that got some of his attention rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 19, 2010 10:15 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
elsson: What does cutting up mean??
Just answering someone back,picking with them
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Apr 19, 2010 10:15 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
In response to: Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.
Naaaa..they will know what I'm like and realize it's all in fun. Wait..you think you can really find someone you like on hererolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing What a novel idea!!
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Apr 19, 2010 10:15 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy: It did with me,this guy i was talking to kept throwing up things i said in the forums,we are no longer speaking because of it
well then he definately wasnt worth it in my opinioncheers
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Apr 19, 2010 10:17 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I have had someone quote my words back to me also. It never worked out between us. I figured out I am who I am and if someone doesn't like me for what I say here, then they are probably not the right person for me.

The people who have met in real life know I am the person you read. I have quite a few friends that I have met from CS and they understand me. If a lady doesn't like what she see's, then so be it. I am better off without her.
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Apr 19, 2010 10:17 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
gemeh22: well then he definately wasnt worth it in my opinion
Thanks thats what i though tohug
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Apr 19, 2010 10:17 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
MovinFWD
MovinFWDMovinFWDDaytona Beach, Florida USA36 Threads 3,234 Posts
woodzchick: I don't worry about that as much as your possible future employers seeing it. A lot of the employers are starting to check the Facebook, Myspace networks to see about their potential employees. If they don't like what they see online, it could very well cut you out of a job.
That's interestinghmmm Hadn't thought about that, thankshandshake
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Apr 19, 2010 10:19 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
Big_John: I have had someone quote my words back to me also. It never worked out between us. I figured out I am who I am and if someone doesn't like me for what I say here, then they are probably not the right person for me.

The people who have met in real life know I am the person you read. I have quite a few friends that I have met from CS and they understand me. If a lady doesn't like what she see's, then so be it. I am better off without her.


You took the words right out of my mouth...Of course, I couldn't have said it better laugh
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Apr 19, 2010 10:20 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
MovinFWD: That's interesting Hadn't thought about that, thanks


I had a potential employer tell our class this one day. He said it is the first thing that they check while doing a background check. If they see people cutting up, showing wild pictures, things of that nature online, then that is a big turnoff for them to hire the person.
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Apr 19, 2010 10:20 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
woodzchick: I don't worry about that as much as your possible future employers seeing it. A lot of the employers are starting to check the Facebook, Myspace networks to see about their potential employees. If they don't like what they see online, it could very well cut you out of a job.


How can anyone access/view your account on either site, unless you allow them to?

I don't think employers have any right to do that, nor should they be "checking up" on what people do in their time away from work.


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Apr 19, 2010 10:20 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
so you meet some1 on here..we all know what its about..hence the reason you met or began to talk...
so why he go all weird?confused
did he not talk or e mail others before you?confused
sounds possesive!very mad
never a good thing!dunno
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Apr 19, 2010 10:20 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
nanners2863: Naaaa..they will know what I'm like and realize it's all in fun. Wait..you think you can really find someone you like on here What a novel idea!!


rolling on the floor laughing ain't it? rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 19, 2010 10:21 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
woodzchick: I don't worry about that as much as your possible future employers seeing it. A lot of the employers are starting to check the Facebook, Myspace networks to see about their potential employees. If they don't like what they see online, it could very well cut you out of a job.
Wow what you do on your own time should not affect your job,unless its some thing bad ,like robbing a bank loldoh
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Apr 19, 2010 10:21 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
demonfairy: Just answering someone back,picking with them


Ah in that case he was too insecure.
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Apr 19, 2010 10:21 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
AngelinBali
AngelinBaliAngelinBaliBali, Indonesia270 Posts
demonfairy: It did with me,this guy i was talking to kept throwing up things i said in the forums,we are no longer speaking because of it


I assume that is what has happened to me too.
Well, if others can't or wont accept me for who I'm than I give thanks that I'm not going to waste my time professor

Don't let it drag you down!
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