Why men say one thing and do another? (305)
PolicepatrolClifton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 37 PostsWhy do guys say one thing and do another? I always tell a prospective date to be honest on wither they feel attraction on the first date or not. However, the guy will go out his way to show interest in me on the first date. After the first date, he calls a couple of times. Then, ignore my return call or text message. Why couldn't he just say there's no further interest? If a he describes himself as an honest person but fail to show courtesy in being honest about not being interested, doesn't this show lack of honesty on their part?
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Policepatrol: Why do guys say one thing and do another? I always tell a prospective date to be honest on wither they feel attraction on the first date or not. However, the guy will go out his way to show interest in me on the first date. After the first date, he calls a couple of times. Then, ignore my return call or text message. Why couldn't he just say there's no further interest? If a he describes himself as an honest person but fail to show courtesy in being honest about not being interested, doesn't this show lack of honesty on their part?
Dont you mean 'some' men?
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Don't ask if they are interested, if they are they will tell you or call you and ask for another date.
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First , dont tell them on the first date anything what got to do with feelings...That kind of talk should happen much much later.
if its a date because of the Internet, you soon will realise that 1000 written words can mean nothing when the moment arrives when you look in someones Eyes.
After your date...... let him call you.......but even so he might have told you want you wanted to hear.....keep still the distance.
That way you dont get so dissapointed when it doesnt work out....and to be fair to all Men or Women. sometimes , after a date, when you thought about it for a few days... you realise it wouldnt have worked out.
you know what I m trying to say?
if its a date because of the Internet, you soon will realise that 1000 written words can mean nothing when the moment arrives when you look in someones Eyes.
After your date...... let him call you.......but even so he might have told you want you wanted to hear.....keep still the distance.
That way you dont get so dissapointed when it doesnt work out....and to be fair to all Men or Women. sometimes , after a date, when you thought about it for a few days... you realise it wouldnt have worked out.
you know what I m trying to say?
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Allegria46: First , dont tell them on the first date anything what got to do with feelings...That kind of talk should happen much much later.
if its a date because of the Internet, you soon will realise that 1000 written words can mean nothing when the moment arrives when you look in someones Eyes.
After your date...... let him call you.......but even so he might have told you want you wanted to hear.....keep still the distance.
That way you dont get so dissapointed when it doesnt work out....and to be fair to all Men or Women. sometimes , after a date, when you thought about it for a few days... you realise it wouldnt have worked out.
you know what I m trying to say?
You mean Hedge your bets if its a date because of the Internet, you soon will realise that 1000 written words can mean nothing when the moment arrives when you look in someones Eyes.
After your date...... let him call you.......but even so he might have told you want you wanted to hear.....keep still the distance.
That way you dont get so dissapointed when it doesnt work out....and to be fair to all Men or Women. sometimes , after a date, when you thought about it for a few days... you realise it wouldnt have worked out.
you know what I m trying to say?
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patmac: You mean Hedge your bets
say that in plain english please, i dont understand that sentence... never heard it
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Internet or real life dateing..some work out..most dont..better luck next time!
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Policepatrol: Why do guys say one thing and do another? I always tell a prospective date to be honest on wither they feel attraction on the first date or not. However, the guy will go out his way to show interest in me on the first date. After the first date, he calls a couple of times. Then, ignore my return call or text message. Why couldn't he just say there's no further interest? If a he describes himself as an honest person but fail to show courtesy in being honest about not being interested, doesn't this show lack of honesty on their part?
Some women often do exactly the same. Perhaps the man simply lost interest in you and does not feel compelled to tell you why. Does not make a person dishonest.
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patmac: You mean Hedge your bets
You best change your profile Pat to reflect your new occupation as "Fund Manager"!
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In response to: Why do guys say one thing and do another? I always tell a prospective date to be honest on wither they feel attraction on the first date or not. However, the guy will go out his way to show interest in me on the first date. After the first date, he calls a couple of times. Then, ignore my return call or text message. Why couldn't he just say there's no further interest? If a he describes himself as an honest person but fail to show courtesy in being honest about not being interested, doesn't this show lack of honesty on their part?
Both genders do it.
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Veritaas: You best change your profile Pat to reflect your new occupation as "Fund Manager"!
Don't swear at me Madam....Hedge fund indeed ... Wouldn't mind their bonuses though ....only folk I know who can gamble and never PERSONALLY lose....Allegria To hedge your bet means you play more than one angle at a time.... that is the polite version...
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Policepatrol: Why do guys say one thing and do another? I always tell a prospective date to be honest on wither they feel attraction on the first date or not. However, the guy will go out his way to show interest in me on the first date. After the first date, he calls a couple of times. Then, ignore my return call or text message. Why couldn't he just say there's no further interest? If a he describes himself as an honest person but fail to show courtesy in being honest about not being interested, doesn't this show lack of honesty on their part?
NO DARLING HE'S A FREAKING COWARD
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Yes,ain't they Stinkers?
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todger: NO DARLING HE'S A FREAKING COWARD
I see someone had their big bowl of feisty for breakfast today I love it ------ This thread is Archived ------
Allegria46: First , dont tell them on the first date anything what got to do with feelings...That kind of talk should happen much much later.
if its a date because of the Internet, you soon will realise that 1000 written words can mean nothing when the moment arrives when you look in someones Eyes.
After your date...... let him call you.......but even so he might have told you want you wanted to hear.....keep still the distance.
That way you dont get so dissapointed when it doesnt work out....and to be fair to all Men or Women. sometimes , after a date, when you thought about it for a few days... you realise it wouldnt have worked out.
you know what I m trying to say?
if its a date because of the Internet, you soon will realise that 1000 written words can mean nothing when the moment arrives when you look in someones Eyes.
After your date...... let him call you.......but even so he might have told you want you wanted to hear.....keep still the distance.
That way you dont get so dissapointed when it doesnt work out....and to be fair to all Men or Women. sometimes , after a date, when you thought about it for a few days... you realise it wouldnt have worked out.
you know what I m trying to say?
i'd also add,i find it excruciatingly embarrassing,to be asked to asses my date,before,during,or even after the date.be cool and watch his actions,they will speak louder than words.
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Allegria46: say that in plain english please, i dont understand that sentence... never heard it
Its called backing both sides and as a BRIT I wouldn't know it
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denmcintyre: I see someone had their big bowl of feisty for breakfast today I love it
No not at all Darling just had my share of negative tish today
I feel love
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todger: No not at all Darling just had my share of negative tish today
I feel love
well here is a bit of positive TISH ( i think i know what that word means lol) I feel love
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denmcintyre: well here is a bit of positive TISH ( i think i know what that word means lol)
I hear ya hun
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todger: I hear ya hun
I am staying as far from this discussion as I can now lol... I will only speak when spoken to.. I know my place ------ This thread is Archived ------
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