How come so many people think their words conceal their actions? (16)

Apr 23, 2010 4:54 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Zellarrone1: I think it's half % half

They do sorta believe they're "nice"..on the other hand they do enjoy playing their little games

The good news is, you and your friends can turn gay

The bad news is, women can behave just as bad, if not worse


Tilly they are convinced they are nice and gentlemanly. and what the female side is concerned it is the same as the males today, it all starts in the family home. if the parents arent any better then dont expect the kids to be.

head banger wave
Apr 23, 2010 4:56 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
stardrops
stardropsstardropswest midlands, West Midlands, England UK2 Threads 248 Posts
gussi: Tilly they are convinced they are nice and gentlemanly. and what the female side is concerned it is the same as the males today, it all starts in the family home. if the parents arent any better then dont expect the kids to be.



DAMN RIGHT!!!thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up So agree
Apr 23, 2010 4:57 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
gussi: someone you is nice and is a gentleman doesnt need to thnk about holding doors open etc, it comes natural and therefore constant. Those that claim to be nice and gentlemen, soon loose interest or cant keep it up. Thats what sorts the men from the boys.
but but...conversing
Apr 23, 2010 5:04 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
gussi: Tilly they are convinced they are nice and gentlemanly. and what the female side is concerned it is the same as the males today, it all starts in the family home. if the parents arent any better then dont expect the kids to be.
I'm not on about kids though. laugh wave
Apr 23, 2010 5:07 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Zellarrone1: I'm not on about kids though.


I know but those socalled nice gentlemen were kids once. Just need to look at my brothers kids.
Apr 24, 2010 7:07 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Peacocke
PeacockePeacockeGlasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 85 Posts
someone you is nice and is a gentleman doesnt need to thnk about holding doors open etc, it comes natural and therefore constant. Those that claim to be nice and gentlemen, soon loose interest or cant keep it up. Thats what sorts the men from the boys.

Haha. Spot on. Common decency should be a reflex, not deliberated. I agree with you there also.
Apr 24, 2010 7:10 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Peacocke
PeacockePeacockeGlasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 85 Posts
I think it's half % half

They do sorta believe they're "nice"..on the other hand they do enjoy playing their little games

The good news is, you and your friends can turn gay

The bad news is, women can behave just as bad, if not worse


Yeah everything you have said is true. I'm not sure though that they can 'sorta' believe they are nice though. I think eveerything with those types is deliberated and they know what they're up to.
May 22, 2011 7:28 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
flans
flansflansglasgow, Central, Scotland UK40 Posts
maybe if girls stopped demanding that a man be this..or that...this is 2011 girls,,there are no princesses...stop acting like one,,its a turn off
May 23, 2011 2:40 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
gussi: someone you is nice and is a gentleman doesnt need to thnk about holding doors open etc, it comes natural and therefore constant. Those that claim to be nice and gentlemen, soon loose interest or cant keep it up. Thats what sorts the men from the boys.

thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up Yes Mr. G. it does come naturally and if they have to think then they are no Gentlemen in my books.
Its how they were raised! To respect the females, do the right thing. Not bring shame on the Parents!
There are still some left thank God in this sorry excuse for a world we live in.
Defo thumbs up for the Gentlemen.
May 23, 2011 2:42 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
flans: maybe if girls stopped demanding that a man be this..or that...this is 2011 girls,,there are no princesses...stop acting like one,,its a turn off
Please step back!!
Do not tar all females with the same brush!!
Very disappointed to read this post.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Us females give the guys a chance and hope that some of them are indeed Gentlemen!
Which I have found some are indeed just that. professor
May 23, 2011 8:50 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
flans: maybe if girls stopped demanding that a man be this..or that...this is 2011 girls,,there are no princesses...stop acting like one,,its a turn off
You kill me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 23, 2011 10:22 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
And I should add that these people are looking for their self-esteems to be bolstered by being loved and accepted, but don't know, or can't face finding out, how to get that love and acceptance any other way.

It's rather cyclical, the way I see it, probably stems from cognitive pathways and behaviours learned in childhood and difficult to break out of.
May 23, 2011 11:11 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
jac379: And I should add that these people are looking for their self-esteems to be bolstered by being loved and accepted, but don't know, or can't face finding out, how to get that love and acceptance any other way.

It's rather cyclical, the way I see it, probably stems from cognitive pathways and behaviours learned in childhood and difficult to break out of.


Well said Jac wave
That is what i said a year ago laugh laugh
May 24, 2011 5:06 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
gussi: Well said Jac
That is what i said a year ago
thumbs up thumbs up

Society gone mad!!conversing mumbling
May 24, 2011 11:25 AM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
bump
May 24, 2011 4:59 PM CST How come so many people think their words conceal their actions?
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
leisure07: bump
Up we go again Mr.L. thumbs up
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