my ex i dont know whether he still loves me, i need help? (91)
lubos1Bolzano, Trentino-Alto Adige Italy1 Threads 4 PostsI was married to this guy for 3 months we had a slight misunderstanding because i was pregnant for him.His family wasnt happy(me being black, he is white, and i wasnt working)he applied for separation which we did.i wanted to still stay with him because i love him but he told me he doesnt need me, i gave up on him but not really, no matter i get another man, i break the relationship very fast.over the weekends we go out with our baby, we have fun.recently, he was checking me on internet then another he reads newspapers from my country.when together we just play with the baby we never talk about our relationship(on phone we talk and laugh). i still love him but i dont know whether he loves me, but he tells me to keep away from men.am confused, i need help.i told him my feelings but told me we should be friends.
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lubos1: I was married to this guy for 3 months we had a slight misunderstanding because i was pregnant for him.His family wasnt happy(me being black, he is white, and i wasnt working)he applied for separation which we did.i wanted to still stay with him because i love him but he told me he doesnt need me, i gave up on him but not really, no matter i get another man, i break the relationship very fast.over the weekends we go out with our baby, we have fun.recently, he was checking me on internet then another he reads newspapers from my country.when together we just play with the baby we never talk about our relationship(on phone we talk and laugh). i still love him but i dont know whether he loves me, but he tells me to keep away from men.am confused, i need help.i told him my feelings but told me we should be friends.
He sounds to me like a very immature loser. He doesn't want you and doesn't want anyone else to have you. 3 months of marriage and a slight misunderstanding broke you up? No, he just doesn't want to man up to his responsibilites. JMO.
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Arlene101: He sounds to me like a very immature loser. He doesn't want you and doesn't want anyone else to have you. 3 months of marriage and a slight misunderstanding broke you up? No, he just doesn't want to man up to his responsibilites. JMO.
Yeah, you're right 
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wow i am so sorry
when you dont love him anymore or are ready to be loved back
do not listen to him- find someone that is your choice
he should be the father but cannot make demands on you
im sorry this is very sad for you i know
hello ladies
when you dont love him anymore or are ready to be loved back
do not listen to him- find someone that is your choice
he should be the father but cannot make demands on you
im sorry this is very sad for you i know
hello ladies
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Arlene101: He sounds to me like a very immature loser. He doesn't want you and doesn't want anyone else to have you. 3 months of marriage and a slight misunderstanding broke you up? No, he just doesn't want to man up to his responsibilites. JMO.
wow okay keep it simple he does not love you that putting the loser tag on him is man hater crap , he is not leading you on , he didnt even bring up you and him its over move on , i have been there it didnt work out but she is not a loser we like you 2 get along for the sake of the kids do i love her yes is it over yes !!!!!!!!cool i like your self will find that one , ladys get at me !!!!!!!!!
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wordking: wow okay keep it simple he does not love you that putting the loser tag on him is man hater crap , he is not leading you on , he didnt even bring up you and him its over move on , i have been there it didnt work out but she is not a loser we like you 2 get along for the sake of the kids do i love her yes is it over yes !!!!!!!!cool i like your self will find that one , ladys get at me !!!!!!!!!
Pay attention to the original post 
He doesn't want her to move on. He doesn't want her, nor wants her to have any chance of happiness with another man 'cos he's told her to keep away from them.------ This thread is Archived ------
Zellarrone1: Pay attention to the original post He doesn't want her to move on. He doesn't want her, nor wants her to have any chance of happiness with another man 'cos he's told her to keep away from them.
no your not reading it , he is saying in every way move on with all of his actions , pay attention to his action he is saying i dont want you but do not be happy , again read between the lines its right there move on .
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lubos1: I was married to this guy for 3 months we had a slight misunderstanding because i was pregnant for him.His family wasnt happy(me being black, he is white, and i wasnt working)he applied for separation which we did.i wanted to still stay with him because i love him but he told me he doesnt need me, i gave up on him but not really, no matter i get another man, i break the relationship very fast.over the weekends we go out with our baby, we have fun.recently, he was checking me on internet then another he reads newspapers from my country.when together we just play with the baby we never talk about our relationship(on phone we talk and laugh). i still love him but i dont know whether he loves me, but he tells me to keep away from men.am confused, i need help.i told him my feelings but told me we should be friends.
Seems like you both tried very hard to make this work...
Yes, I'm being sarcastic...
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wordking: no your not reading it , he is saying in every way move on with all of his actions , pay attention to his action he is saying i dont want you but do not be happy , again read between the lines its right there move on .
We'll have to agree to disagree on this one ... 
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Olsojente: Seems like you both tried very hard to make this work... Yes, I'm being sarcastic...
I know what you mean Oslo, when I read it I thought it had to be a joke thread.
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wordking: wow okay keep it simple he does not love you that putting the loser tag on him is man hater crap , he is not leading you on , he didnt even bring up you and him its over move on , i have been there it didnt work out but she is not a loser we like you 2 get along for the sake of the kids do i love her yes is it over yes !!!!!!!!cool i like your self will find that one , ladys get at me !!!!!!!!!
King Of Words?Man you need to read OP again,then write so we can understand!
Don't write in Riddles when you're giving advice,Man!
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he is an avoidable man. an irresponsible father. an untrustworthy partner.
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ItsColdinPitts: he is an avoidable man. an irresponsible father. an untrustworthy partner.
nah just a useless bummer
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Ya poor baby. Ur in a tough place with your emotions. Believe me this guy is so unaware. build up your self assurance and don't worry about another relationship at all... learn to love what u now have which is u and ur beautiful tiny precious human being of a baby. You will see in time when you are so involved in your own life and living the reality of it, all other doors will open up for u...It's time , patience an love of urself that will allow this to happen...so come on girl "DO IT"!!! Have a good look in da mirror and tell urself I am great, my life is great I am going thro stuff thats challenging,how exciting and I need to manage at the moment, but this will pass and hold that thought.. U do not have to share what u are doing in ur life with him. keep it about your child and train yourself for a while not to tell him everything. He's ended it, so do not give your energy into that. Keep it and share those things with neighbours, friends other family members.
Mary
Mary
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lubos1: I was married to this guy for 3 months we had a slight misunderstanding because i was pregnant for him.His family wasnt happy(me being black, he is white, and i wasnt working)he applied for separation which we did.i wanted to still stay with him because i love him but he told me he doesnt need me, i gave up on him but not really, no matter i get another man, i break the relationship very fast.over the weekends we go out with our baby, we have fun.recently, he was checking me on internet then another he reads newspapers from my country.when together we just play with the baby we never talk about our relationship(on phone we talk and laugh). i still love him but i dont know whether he loves me, but he tells me to keep away from men.am confused, i need help.i told him my feelings but told me we should be friends.
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This is what I call a toxic relationship. You can only be used if you allow it. The only victim I see here is the child
You know what you should do. And you know this is not love. Now get up and take control over your life. Sorry to say it like this but if it will get you up and moving in the right direction will say it . No one ever said life was going to be fair or easy.
You know what you should do. And you know this is not love. Now get up and take control over your life. Sorry to say it like this but if it will get you up and moving in the right direction will say it . No one ever said life was going to be fair or easy.------ This thread is Archived ------
Good luck, and take care of the baby,sounds like he could be listening to his family also,he has to be the man and do the right thing, maybe this whole thing took off too fast, confusion? JMO
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