i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
i believe its quite possible to have feelings for some1 u have never met...ud b suprised...and it also means that you both know each other very well bfore you meet...so yes..it can happen
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
I never saw god... but I believe that he exists ...
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
I think you can be very attracted to a person youv'e never met, but no i don't think you can fall in love without meeting and really getting to know the person first.
PollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands3,889 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
niall69: i believe its quite possible to have feelings for some1 u have never met...ud b suprised...and it also means that you both know each other very well bfore you meet...so yes..it can happen
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
I think you can develop a deep infatuation, meeting just confirms the infatuation and can then lead to something deeper. However, how many have thought it was 'love' only to be disappointed when the meeting finally occurred.
You can find out a lot about each other and possibly develop some feelings, but I think it takes an actual meeting before you can confirm whether those feelings are real or not.
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
xxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain1,568 posts
I dont think you can fall in love.... yes get very fond of someone.. and develop feelings.. but love.. well its a strong word..
The internet is not the same as real life, and when you do meet, then those feelings can develop, or you could meet and have no spark at all.. (has happened to me)
and arranging to get married before you meet.. now that I cant understand..
Yes you can and I have more than once. If it's never happened to someone than naturally they would think it's impossible, but anybody who has fallen in love online knows it can happen as opposed to someone who never has with nothing more than an opinion.
Knowledge trumps opinion every time.
The second point I must agree with is, all too often when online lovers meet in RL there is a good possibility that the love will totally disolve either by one or both. For this reason I think it's important that the couple meet face to face ASAP, before an erroneous image has a chance to form and turn to concrete.
ooby_dooby: Yes you can and I have more than once. If it's never happened to someone than naturally they would think it's impossible, but anybody who has fallen in love online knows it can happen as opposed to someone who never has with nothing more than an opinion.
Knowledge trumps opinion every time.
The second point I must agree with is, all too often when online lovers meet in RL there is a good possibility that the love will totally disolve either by one or both. For this reason I think it's important that the couple meet face to face ASAP, before an erroneous image has a chance to form and turn to concrete.
Does this not prove the point that it wasnt actually love in the first place but rather infatutation.
I wouldn't agree that it's ALL lust. But lust, wishes and the rapidity of how things can happen online CAN all lead to some confusion, which CAN, in turn, be misinterperated as love.
Certainly, with emails, chat and webcams you can find out if someone is your 'type' of person, and create a strong bond. For some that IS love, for others, they need a little more...
I have certainly found one or two proper friends on this site. People that I will cherish for a long time. Even if I never meet them, they are dear to me. I 'love' them as friends - of that I have NO doubt. So I would say, that if I had gotten 'more intimate' with them, if that's the way things had progressed - yes, it COULD have been possible to get those first 'feelings' of love.
soundartistAnnapolis Royal, Nova Scotia Canada61 posts
how can ya fall in love if ya never met
easy!!!!
love, like every other emotion, happens between one's ears, not legs like some want to believe. if you think you're in love you are in love. It could be even more convoluted, some people are in love with the idea of being in love and they don't even need to know the other person as she/he exists in their imagination. After the wedding the only thing to do is to make the real person to fit the preexisting idea - well, this is a different topic.
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wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????