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Apr 25, 2010 12:59 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
chattymary
chattymarychattymarydublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 12 Posts
i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????confused confused
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Apr 25, 2010 1:01 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
niall69
niall69niall69dublin, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 33 Posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
i believe its quite possible to have feelings for some1 u have never met...ud b suprised...and it also means that you both know each other very well bfore you meet...so yes..it can happen
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Apr 25, 2010 1:03 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????



I never saw god... but I believe that he exists ...grin
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Apr 25, 2010 1:03 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????


I think you can be very attracted to a person youv'e never met, but no i don't think you can fall in love without meeting and really getting to know the person first.wave
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Apr 25, 2010 1:03 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????


Sure ya can.................bouquet
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Apr 25, 2010 1:04 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
niall69: i believe its quite possible to have feelings for some1 u have never met...ud b suprised...and it also means that you both know each other very well bfore you meet...so yes..it can happen


I agree but meeting sort of seals the deal.

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Apr 25, 2010 1:07 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
mollymo
mollymomollymoDublin, Ireland2 Threads 326 Posts
To answer your question, you cant.

You can like what you know of a person online but you have to meet and spend time with a person to fall in love with them.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:08 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????


I think you can develop a deep infatuation, meeting just confirms the infatuation and can then lead to something deeper. However, how many have thought it was 'love' only to be disappointed when the meeting finally occurred.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:09 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
nataliemkd
nataliemkdnataliemkdPrilep, Macedonia4 Threads 182 Posts
You can find out a lot about each other and possibly develop some feelings, but I think it takes an actual meeting before you can confirm whether those feelings are real or not.

The illusion of internet is grand wine
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Apr 25, 2010 1:10 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Boban1: I never saw god... but I believe that he exists ...


thanks boban that has learnt me thatthumbs up
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Apr 25, 2010 1:11 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Boban1: I never saw god... but I believe that he exists ...
laugh good one
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Apr 25, 2010 1:12 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
markizamkd25: good one

Hey lill sister...long time no see....wave
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Apr 25, 2010 1:13 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Ladybee42
Ladybee42Ladybee42East Liverpool, Ohio USA4 Threads 1,316 Posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????


explain love first..dunno dunno

it's as inexplicable i think...confused bouquet bouquet
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Apr 25, 2010 1:14 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Boban1: Hey lill sister...long time no see....
Had some movements here...everything comes to its place now so ill be around beer
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Apr 25, 2010 1:16 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
I dont think you can fall in love.... yes get very fond of someone.. and develop feelings.. but love.. well its a strong word..

The internet is not the same as real life, and when you do meet, then those feelings can develop, or you could meet and have no spark at all.. (has happened to me)

and arranging to get married before you meet..dunno now that I cant understand..
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Apr 25, 2010 2:05 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Yes you can and I have more than once. If it's never happened to someone than naturally they would think it's impossible, but anybody who has fallen in love online knows it can happen as opposed to someone who never has with nothing more than an opinion.

Knowledge trumps opinion every time.

The second point I must agree with is, all too often when online lovers meet in RL there is a good possibility that the love will totally disolve either by one or both. For this reason I think it's important that the couple meet face to face ASAP, before an erroneous image has a chance to form and turn to concrete.
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Apr 25, 2010 2:12 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
mollymo: To answer your question, you cant.

You can like what you know of a person online but you have to meet and spend time with a person to fall in love with them.
thumbs up Lust Lust Lust is all it is ONLINE :-)

Ahhhhhhhhh the Magic of the Net can be grand but then reality sets in grin grin wave
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Apr 25, 2010 2:13 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
mollymo
mollymomollymoDublin, Ireland2 Threads 326 Posts
ooby_dooby: Yes you can and I have more than once. If it's never happened to someone than naturally they would think it's impossible, but anybody who has fallen in love online knows it can happen as opposed to someone who never has with nothing more than an opinion.

Knowledge trumps opinion every time.

The second point I must agree with is, all too often when online lovers meet in RL there is a good possibility that the love will totally disolve either by one or both. For this reason I think it's important that the couple meet face to face ASAP, before an erroneous image has a chance to form and turn to concrete.



Does this not prove the point that it wasnt actually love in the first place but rather infatutation.
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Apr 25, 2010 2:19 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
I wouldn't agree that it's ALL lust. But lust, wishes and the rapidity of how things can happen online CAN all lead to some confusion, which CAN, in turn, be misinterperated as love.

Certainly, with emails, chat and webcams you can find out if someone is your 'type' of person, and create a strong bond. For some that IS love, for others, they need a little more...

I have certainly found one or two proper friends on this site. People that I will cherish for a long time. Even if I never meet them, they are dear to me. I 'love' them as friends - of that I have NO doubt. So I would say, that if I had gotten 'more intimate' with them, if that's the way things had progressed - yes, it COULD have been possible to get those first 'feelings' of love.
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Apr 25, 2010 2:25 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
soundartist
soundartistsoundartistAnnapolis Royal, Nova Scotia Canada5 Threads 4 Polls 61 Posts
how can ya fall in love if ya never met

easy!!!!

love, like every other emotion, happens between one's ears, not legs like some want to believe. if you think you're in love you are in love. It could be even more convoluted, some people are in love with the idea of being in love and they don't even need to know the other person as she/he exists in their imagination. After the wedding the only thing to do is to make the real person to fit the preexisting idea - well, this is a different topic.heart wings
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