All what counts is that chemistry.. (42)
claudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 PostsSo,I realized all what counts is that chemistry between 2 persons when they meet face to face,to feel something to be attracted by each other and communication,is so easy in internet and to the phone to say I like u ,I love u,and all is ok but in real is so hard ,and if is not that chemistry and not attraction,you remain with a feeling by dissapointing ,specially when in real you discover is other personality.So what do u think about those meetings in real after chatting in net and speaking to phone?Is same like in net?
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Chemistry sure, but slow it down.....when you meet someone it's weird to just blurt out "I love you" unless your've been talking a while, which you didnt' state how long..could be...never have done it ....meeting someone for real....I think if you're hot for each other and the flame is a burnin, well, I think it'll be pretty hot...but don't throw love into all of it, that evolves I think ove a bit of time...even 2 hours,lol....
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claudya: So,I realized all what counts is that chemistry between 2 persons when they meet face to face,to feel something to be attracted by each other and communication,is so easy in internet and to the phone to say I like u ,I love u,and all is ok but in real is so hard ,and if is not that chemistry and not attraction,you remain with a feeling by dissapointing ,specially when in real you discover is other personality.So what do u think about those meetings in real after chatting in net and speaking to phone?Is same like in net?
what you are talking about is infatuation; not chemistry. you said it yourself; to feel attracted to eachother; that is shallow and isn't chemistry. Chemistry is about communication and vibes; not being hot for someone.
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mjames: what you are talking about is infatuation; not chemistry. you said it yourself; to feel attracted to eachother; that is shallow and isn't chemistry. Chemistry is about communication and vibes; not being hot for someone.
give me hot & shallow
deep and talkative can happen over time
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The in person chemistry counts for a lot; sometimes it just isn't there...and you can't fabricate it either.
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totally need chemsisty, major ingredient, or the cake doesnt rise....
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Pictures, emails, texts, phone calls, profiles........ tell you ZERO about someone. It is not until you meet in the flesh that you can ascertain if there is any chemistry and you will usually know in the first five minutes...............
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Smitten: totally need chemsisty, major ingredient, or the cake doesnt rise....
S it isnt the only thing that doesnt rise either
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cookies? buns? bread?....ohhhhhhhh.....no i gotch ya..
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claudya: So,I realized all what counts is that chemistry between 2 persons when they meet face to face,to feel something to be attracted by each other and communication,is so easy in internet and to the phone to say I like u ,I love u,and all is ok but in real is so hard ,and if is not that chemistry and not attraction,you remain with a feeling by dissapointing ,specially when in real you discover is other personality.So what do u think about those meetings in real after chatting in net and speaking to phone?Is same like in net?
Hey this is "Internet Dating". You can be out socially and meet someone from your area. Here you have a lot of people from different parts of the world. You need to take a step back and chat a while with ladies, its not as easy as you think my friend!
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claudya: So,I realized all what counts is that chemistry between 2 persons when they meet face to face,to feel something to be attracted by each other and communication,is so easy in internet and to the phone to say I like u ,I love u,and all is ok but in real is so hard ,and if is not that chemistry and not attraction,you remain with a feeling by dissapointing ,specially when in real you discover is other personality.So what do u think about those meetings in real after chatting in net and speaking to phone?Is same like in net?
Sorry men!!!! Oooops
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magsx: Pictures, emails, texts, phone calls, profiles........ tell you ZERO about someone. It is not until you meet in the flesh that you can ascertain if there is any chemistry and you will usually know in the first five minutes...............
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Meeting in person is far more exciting than meeting on net 
Hiding behind the keyboard and the virtual world is somewhat comforting and easy, but it can never be compared to live meeting. I believe in nonverbal communication, a lot more than I believe in words on my computer screen 
Even though I am skeptical about internet dating, I do like the concept of actually getting to know each other better via net which makes it a lot easier in terms of loosing the mask we all wear in RL
Afterwords if things click, you are much better off with that person that with someone you just met at a local bar
Hiding behind the keyboard and the virtual world is somewhat comforting and easy, but it can never be compared to live meeting. I believe in nonverbal communication, a lot more than I believe in words on my computer screen Even though I am skeptical about internet dating, I do like the concept of actually getting to know each other better via net which makes it a lot easier in terms of loosing the mask we all wear in RL
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laura139: Chemistry sure, but slow it down.....when you meet someone it's weird to just blurt out "I love you" unless your've been talking a while,
I wouldn't even let myself imagine "love" with somebody on the basis of online communication alone.
"Interest" and "friendship" is about as far as I'd ever go before meeting someone face to face.
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RayfromUSA: I wouldn't even let myself imagine "love" with somebody on the basis of online communication alone.
"Interest" and "friendship" is about as far as I'd ever go before meeting someone face to face.
"Interest" and "friendship" is about as far as I'd ever go before meeting someone face to face.
Of course if I had a 4D digital-somatic interface it might be different.
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mjames: what you are talking about is infatuation; not chemistry. you said it yourself; to feel attracted to eachother; that is shallow and isn't chemistry. Chemistry is about communication and vibes; not being hot for someone.
Rubbish..........chemistry is about instant attraction , eye contact and the immediate feeling of wanting to get down and dirty with someone..I can "communicate" with the damn postman..doesnt mean I feel that sizzling feeling!
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claudya: So,I realized all what counts is that chemistry between 2 persons when they meet face to face,to feel something to be attracted by each other and communication,is so easy in internet and to the phone to say I like u ,I love u,and all is ok but in real is so hard ,and if is not that chemistry and not attraction,you remain with a feeling by dissapointing ,specially when in real you discover is other personality.So what do u think about those meetings in real after chatting in net and speaking to phone?Is same like in net?
IT WAS GREAT she spent the night we hit it off ,until her boy friend started calling me everyday crying saying they were getting married lol its true
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solsticemoon: Rubbish..........chemistry is about instant attraction , eye contact and the immediate feeling of wanting to get down and dirty with someone..I can "communicate" with the damn postman..doesnt mean I feel that sizzling feeling!
benidorm 2010Hi Sol
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Smitten: totally need chemsisty, major ingredient, or the cake doesnt rise....
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magsx: Pictures, emails, texts, phone calls, profiles........ tell you ZERO about someone. It is not until you meet in the flesh that you can ascertain if there is any chemistry and you will usually know in the first five minutes...............
I do agree with you Mag mostly.
Having info about that person will give me an idea of who he is but to decide to have a ROMANCE with him depends mostly on the first meeting and to see IF there is click or not.
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