Why people two-timing? (9)

Apr 26, 2010 7:02 AM CST Why people two-timing?
Kamsiah
KamsiahKamsiahEdmonton, Alberta Canada2 Threads 3 Posts
I met a wonderful man in July last year but he stopped seeing me after 3 months. He came back into my life recently. I asked him why he left. He said that I am too young for him and he didn't see any future together. I am 46 and he is 57.

He asked me out again and I agreed. I found recently that he is seeing a 57-year old woman for 5 months now. I don't feel right and asked him if he is in a relationship with her. He said he is not. I am confused because he spends every Saturday nights and went to a vacation in Jamaica together. How can a man is seeing a woman for 5 months but doesan't consider is in a relationship with her?.

Another question - why why does people two-timing?.

Thanks
Apr 26, 2010 7:43 AM CST Why people two-timing?
gemery
gemerygemeryWilliams Lake, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 509 Posts
Kamsiah: I met a wonderful man in July last year but he stopped seeing me after 3 months. He came back into my life recently. I asked him why he left. He said that I am too young for him and he didn't see any future together. I am 46 and he is 57.

He asked me out again and I agreed. I found recently that he is seeing a 57-year old woman for 5 months now. I don't feel right and asked him if he is in a relationship with her. He said he is not. I am confused because he spends every Saturday nights and went to a vacation in Jamaica together. How can a man is seeing a woman for 5 months but doesan't consider is in a relationship with her?.

Another question - why why does people two-timing?.

Thanks


Sounds to me like he wants his cake, the bakery and the sugar factory and to get to eat it all too. He is using you for sure. You don't date people like this, you avoid them.

Why do they two-time? Easy, they are so insecure with themselves and have such low-self esteem that they need to jump from bed to bed in order to feel good about themselves and give a boost to their ego. They are also people who are committed to one thing, themselves.

It's early morning, I hope I expressed myself in a coherent manner that is understandable. Coffee hasn't quite kicked in yet.

geo
Apr 26, 2010 8:19 AM CST Why people two-timing?
Kamsiah: I met a wonderful man in July last year but he stopped seeing me after 3 months. He came back into my life recently. I asked him why he left. He said that I am too young for him and he didn't see any future together. I am 46 and he is 57.

He asked me out again and I agreed. I found recently that he is seeing a 57-year old woman for 5 months now. I don't feel right and asked him if he is in a relationship with her. He said he is not. I am confused because he spends every Saturday nights and went to a vacation in Jamaica together. How can a man is seeing a woman for 5 months but doesan't consider is in a relationship with her?.

Another question - why why does people two-timing?.

Thanks



Based on what you’re saying he’s probably using you, the other woman also and he’s probably what you suspect, a two timing man. I'd recommend that you steer away from him.
Apr 26, 2010 8:14 PM CST Why people two-timing?
Kamsiah
KamsiahKamsiahEdmonton, Alberta Canada2 Threads 3 Posts
Thanks for your opinion. He is certainly a greedy person who want to have not just the cake but the bakery and the sugar factory.
May 11, 2010 6:33 PM CST Why people two-timing?
He is in a relationship, perhaps not the one you expected him to be in, but he can get way with it if you allow him to. Run as fast as you can in the opposite direction away from this man.
May 12, 2010 6:17 AM CST Why people two-timing?
gemery
gemerygemeryWilliams Lake, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 509 Posts
Kamsiah: Thanks for your opinion. He is certainly a greedy person who want to have not just the cake but the bakery and the sugar factory.


yeah...and the delivery truck, sugar cane field, the baker, the bakers friend the butcher, and his friend the candlestick maker....some freaking guys eh? dunno


geo
May 12, 2010 6:18 AM CST Why people two-timing?
gemery
gemerygemeryWilliams Lake, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 509 Posts
mychelle: He is in a relationship, perhaps not the one you expected him to be in, but he can get way with it if you allow him to. Run as fast as you can in the opposite direction away from this man.



This lady says run...and run fast. This lady is wise...listen to her.professor


geo
Jan 29, 2011 1:38 PM CST Why people two-timing?
cuddles4862
cuddles4862cuddles4862Manhattan, New York USA2 Threads 13 Posts
well if u don't speak up and nail him with it right now he will continue to do it as u are allowing him to get away with it. he is also getting away with it with the other woman with you and she is probably questioning the same thing as you and he deserves to lose the both of you. nail him with it now and be sure not to date ones like this again as u deserve much better and don;t compromise on what u want either, run run run and run the other way from guys like this as they have done it to others already besides you. you aren;t the only one he has obviously dont it to so don;t feel too badly about it, pick yourself back up and get back in the game as it won't be long before the right one comes along.
Jan 29, 2011 2:00 PM CST Why people two-timing?
bdrmeyes
bdrmeyesbdrmeyesHalifax, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 44 Posts
cuddles4862: well if u don't speak up and nail him with it right now he will continue to do it as u are allowing him to get away with it. he is also getting away with it with the other woman with you and she is probably questioning the same thing as you and he deserves to lose the both of you. nail him with it now and be sure not to date ones like this again as u deserve much better and don;t compromise on what u want either, run run run and run the other way from guys like this as they have done it to others already besides you. you aren;t the only one he has obviously dont it to so don;t feel too badly about it, pick yourself back up and get back in the game as it won't be long before the right one comes along.


I agree with you cuddles thumbs up

You deserve better.
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