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Apr 27, 2010 5:50 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
p1259
p1259p1259smiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda12 Threads 3 Polls 191 Posts
how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..
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Apr 27, 2010 5:53 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
LoveMovies
LoveMoviesLoveMoviesBellevue, Washington USA21 Threads 3 Polls 536 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..
I would say it depends on how long you've been married.
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Apr 27, 2010 5:54 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..


Well that all depends on how you feel yourself. There is no set time with regards to when you should or shouldn't.
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Apr 27, 2010 5:55 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
I would say its down to the individual..what may seem long to you could be a short time for me..wine
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Apr 27, 2010 5:56 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..

About 10 minutes......

If you are at the divorced complete stage it means the end of the relationship, so why wait...... move on and forget the past.
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Apr 27, 2010 5:58 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
It's different for everybody i think. I'm going to say if you start dating less than six months after your divorce, try to be honest with yourself about where you are emotionally. Not easy to do sometimes, and then be honest with the person your dating.
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Apr 27, 2010 5:59 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Englishman55: About 10 minutes......

If you are at the divorced complete stage it means the end of the relationship, so why wait...... move on and forget the past.
10 minutes!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 27, 2010 6:01 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Veritaas: Well that all depends on how you feel yourself. There is no set time with regards to when you should or shouldn't.
You have mail btw (sheepishly)
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Apr 27, 2010 6:03 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
I´d say asap, but that wouldn´t be "serious" dating. Just having fun, regaining lost confidence perhaps, and discovering a new world.

When you become your old self again without any hang ups, or a broken heart perhaps, then it´s time to think about dating seriously with a view to the future.
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Apr 27, 2010 6:05 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Whrn you feel your are ready.
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Apr 27, 2010 6:07 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
JAN_is: I´d say asap, but that wouldn´t be "serious" dating. Just having fun, regaining lost confidence perhaps, and discovering a new world.

When you become your old self again without any hang ups, or a broken heart perhaps, then it´s time to think about dating seriously with a view to the future.

Wow wow .... we agree on something Jan.

That's why I said 10 minutes wine
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Apr 27, 2010 6:07 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
JAN_is: I´d say asap, but that wouldn´t be "serious" dating. Just having fun, regaining lost confidence perhaps, and discovering a new world.

When you become your old self again without any hang ups, or a broken heart perhaps, then it´s time to think about dating seriously with a view to the future.


I agree...it depends on what you want out of the dating experience. At first it's just to get back out there but as your heart mends it may be ready to love again.

thumbs up handshake
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Apr 27, 2010 6:11 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
justadawg
justadawgjustadawgsomewhere, Texas USA2 Threads 328 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..
i had my eyes open and looking in divorce courtdoh drinking drinking drinking
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Apr 27, 2010 6:17 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..
what ever you feel comfortable with,only you will no when you are ready.comfort bouquet
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Apr 27, 2010 6:17 PM CST wish i did,ant do it.
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
I started a few months after I separated so I know I am not waiting until the final process of the divorce that can take months it is up to the person and are they really ready to move on but it is nice if you can find someone to date and maybe share through the process of it all sigh
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Apr 28, 2010 2:03 AM CST wish i did,ant do it.
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..


After? laugh
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Apr 28, 2010 2:06 AM CST wish i did,ant do it.
CrosstownTraffic
CrosstownTrafficCrosstownTrafficMalaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 732 Posts
p1259: how long should you wait to start seriously dating again after a divorce..


I think if someone is wondering how long they need to wait they are not ready. conversing
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Apr 28, 2010 2:16 AM CST wish i did,ant do it.
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
JAN_is: I´d say asap, but that wouldn´t be "serious" dating. Just having fun, regaining lost confidence perhaps, and discovering a new world.

When you become your old self again without any hang ups, or a broken heart perhaps, then it´s time to think about dating seriously with a view to the future.


thumbs up i agree..but i guess it would depend how emotionally vulnerable you feel too.It may be easier to heal,without any kind of involvement stirring up dormant emotions.
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Apr 28, 2010 2:19 AM CST wish i did,ant do it.
JRT61
JRT61JRT61Taunton, Somerset, England UK149 Posts
tomboygirl: i agree..but i guess it would depend how emotionally vulnerable you feel too.It may be easier to heal,without any kind of involvement stirring up dormant emotions.


I agree also.. but every person is different, and for some people, moving on is part of that healing process.

I'm not stalking you by the way tomboygirl wave
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Apr 28, 2010 2:46 AM CST wish i did,ant do it.
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
JRT61: I agree also.. but every person is different, and for some people, moving on is part of that healing process.

I'm not stalking you by the way tomboygirl


dunno ahh go ahead-i already got 3 stalkers,i think there's a tomboy's stalkers social club on here somewherewink

grin
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