so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
Hum , I don't dole out many second chances , if I have been a decent person who treated my specific other with respect and love and he craps on me , why would I ? Cheating and fibbing are deal breakers .
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
i am different than i used to be and i have done some wrong stuff
i can rarely listen to someones story of what someone did to them and not identify with both parties
its a very personal choice and only those 2 are in the relationship
i mean who i am today
i can say i would likely muddle theu pretty much anything
if he killed someone if he cheated if he was drunk if if if
i dunno we all screw up. i have to take these situations on a case by case basis but of course it is usually the sum of many events that can bring it all crashing down-
and that can happen.
i never seem to know what my tipping point is in so many situations lately
i am different than i used to be and i have done some wrong stuff
i can rarely listen to someones story of what someone did to them and not identify with both parties
its a very personal choice and only those 2 are in the relationship
i mean who i am today
i can say i would likely muddle theu pretty much anything
if he killed someone if he cheated if he was drunk if if if
i dunno we all screw up. i have to take these situations on a case by case basis but of course it is usually the sum of many events that can bring it all crashing down-
and that can happen.
i never seem to know what my tipping point is in so many situations lately
mindfful: i never seem to know what my tipping point is in so many situations lately
You put it well, and quite wisely, I think. Since each relationship (and each situation) is unique, one ought not have a firm, fixed "tipping point." One size may not fit all.
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
Infidelity! I can put up with alsorts but i think that would be the real deal breaker for me.
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
Cheating; not respecting me; not wanting the same things; not having the same religion; not having anything in common
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SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
My Partner flirting in front of me. I see guys doing this whilst out with their lady and i think it is an insult to her.
KatLady: or maybe because you keep pointing other men out to your partner .. she gets the idea you trying to get rid of her. And if you talking about other females then she is off .. I would be gone
hahah - nah - you KNOW what I mean. You're walking down the street and she points out a nice butt that you missed, or you tell her to 'check out the bronzed Adonis' at 9 o'clock'. Nothing wrong with that. It's security in the relationship. The rest was me just joking...
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