When to draw the line? ( Archived) (17)

Apr 27, 2010 11:02 PM CST When to draw the line?
so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
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Apr 27, 2010 11:06 PM CST When to draw the line?
missbliss
missblissmissblissdublin, Dublin Ireland205 Posts
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?

Hum , I don't dole out many second chances , if I have been a decent person who treated my specific other with respect and love and he craps on me , why would I ? Cheating and fibbing are deal breakers .
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Apr 27, 2010 11:07 PM CST When to draw the line?
justadawg
justadawgjustadawgsomewhere, Texas USA2 Threads 328 Posts
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?
not putting out enough ,,is a sure DEAL breakerbanana drinking drinking
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Apr 27, 2010 11:11 PM CST When to draw the line?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
hello my friend

i would have to say i dont know anymore

i am different than i used to be and i have done some wrong stuff

i can rarely listen to someones story of what someone did to them
and not identify with both parties

its a very personal choice and only those 2 are in the relationship

i mean who i am today

i can say i would likely muddle theu pretty much anything

if he killed someone if he cheated if he was drunk if if if

i dunno we all screw up. i have to take these situations on a case by case basis but of course it is usually the sum of many events that can bring it all crashing down-

and that can happen.

i never seem to know what my tipping point is in so many situations lately

blues dunno
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Apr 27, 2010 11:13 PM CST When to draw the line?
KAIN111
KAIN111KAIN111melbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 32 Posts
be true to yourself
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Apr 27, 2010 11:18 PM CST When to draw the line?
mindfful: hello my friend

i would have to say i dont know anymore

i am different than i used to be and i have done some wrong stuff

i can rarely listen to someones story of what someone did to them
and not identify with both parties

its a very personal choice and only those 2 are in the relationship

i mean who i am today

i can say i would likely muddle theu pretty much anything

if he killed someone if he cheated if he was drunk if if if

i dunno we all screw up. i have to take these situations on a case by case basis but of course it is usually the sum of many events that can bring it all crashing down-

and that can happen.

i never seem to know what my tipping point is in so many situations lately


Yeah stay away from the blame game...wave
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Apr 27, 2010 11:21 PM CST When to draw the line?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
SatelliteServer: Yeah stay away from the blame game...
seems i gave no answer at all


sorrydoh
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Apr 27, 2010 11:24 PM CST When to draw the line?
mindfful: seems i gave no answer at allsorry


was a good answer,
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Apr 28, 2010 1:47 AM CST When to draw the line?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
mindfful:
i never seem to know what my tipping point is in so many situations lately


You put it well, and quite wisely, I think. Since each relationship (and each situation) is unique, one ought not have a firm, fixed "tipping point." One size may not fit all.
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Apr 28, 2010 1:50 AM CST When to draw the line?
CrosstownTraffic
CrosstownTrafficCrosstownTrafficMalaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 732 Posts
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?



Infidelity! I can put up with alsorts but i think that would be the real deal breaker for me.
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Apr 28, 2010 2:13 AM CST When to draw the line?
Angelo9
Angelo9Angelo9Dublin, Ireland8 Threads 688 Posts
CrosstownTraffic: Infidelity! I can put up with alsorts but i think that would be the real deal breaker for me.


Yep, that and being taken for granted sigh

never ever again frustrated

but that ain't gonna happen grin

I just know smitten
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Apr 28, 2010 2:30 AM CST When to draw the line?
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?


Cheating; not respecting me; not wanting the same things; not having the same religion; not having anything in common
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Apr 28, 2010 2:31 AM CST When to draw the line?
JRT61
JRT61JRT61Taunton, Somerset, England UK149 Posts
Basically, if it makes you unhappy, and you cannot resolve it though conversation and action, I don't see how you can put up with it, whatever it is.

I think a person knows when the time has come to stop putting up with something.

On the bigger scale.. Cheating is the big killer blow I think... and the fisrt time is enough.

Hard to answer in a way I feel will be satisfactory, but every persons tolerance level is different.

You put up with what YOU can comfortably tolerate, without it affecting you in a bad way.

Regards
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Apr 28, 2010 11:01 AM CST When to draw the line?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
SatelliteServer: so as a positive outlook futuristic person I believe myself to be, I like to give my gf as many chances as I can take, somethings though is the absolute end of a relationship, what are the things in your relationship you just would not put up with...?


My Partner flirting in front of me. I see guys doing this whilst out with their lady and i think it is an insult to her.
thumbs down scold
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Apr 28, 2010 11:02 AM CST When to draw the line?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
And big no no is Cheating . . . ugh!! (Bad guys)scold
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Apr 28, 2010 11:15 AM CST When to draw the line?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
I mean to be more clear in future with what i will and wont except from a partner.i would have to say,disrespectful behaviour.
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Apr 28, 2010 11:46 AM CST When to draw the line?
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
KatLady: or maybe because you keep pointing other men out to your partner .. she gets the idea you trying to get rid of her. And if you talking about other females then she is off .. I would be gone


hahah - nah - you KNOW what I mean. You're walking down the street and she points out a nice butt that you missed, or you tell her to 'check out the bronzed Adonis' at 9 o'clock'. Nothing wrong with that. It's security in the relationship. The rest was me just joking...
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