I feel somewhat used!!.... (113)
This is a first....usually it's the other way around.
Equal rights.
Equal rights.
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SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
Oh come on man.....you seriously need to tell this experience just to get others ideas on your life? Be a man and deal with it and stop acting like this is something new to society. Are you going to share also if you cut your toenails too short?
These types of threads are pointless and gain nothing...except for sympathy seekers.
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Well it sounds like you enjoyed yourself, she on the face of what you say here was honest with you. Can't expect more than that.
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I3estman4u: Oh come on man.....you seriously need to tell this experience just to get others ideas on your life? Be a man and deal with it and stop acting like this is something new to society. Are you going to share also if you cut your toenails too short?
These types of threads are pointless and gain nothing...except for sympathy seekers.
These types of threads are pointless and gain nothing...except for sympathy seekers.
I was just wondering if it has happened to anybody else... its obviously an offending post to you.... I was surprised as I didnt expect a girl to do that...
But if its a thread that offends your delicate feelings... "Deal with it"!!!!
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SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
She could be married and just want's a fling of passion from time to time....so keep your phone line open and be on call....
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SusanBoyle: I was just wondering if it has happened to anybody else... its obviously an offending post to you.... I was surprised as I didnt expect a girl to do that...
But if its a thread that offends your delicate feelings... "Deal with it"!!!!
But if its a thread that offends your delicate feelings... "Deal with it"!!!!
So you are saying....that you wanted to develop something more meaning full with this Lady....
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SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
Let's see... She has her own car and drove to see you.. I am guessing "SHE" paid for her own hotel room... She does not want to be attached at the hip..
And the problem is??????
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HJFinAZ: Let's see... She has her own car and drove to see you.. I am guessing "SHE" paid for her own hotel room... She does not want to be attached at the hip..
And the problem is??????
And the problem is??????
and he got laid and liked it
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demonfairy: and he got laid and liked it
Sry back to the thread,you felt used for your body,wow,sry for that but its been happening to men and woman since time begain,chalk it up to and adventure,plus you enjoyed yourself
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SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
As her if whe fancies travelling to Italy !
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demonfairy: and he got laid and liked it
DAMN!!!!!!! Al some can do is whine....
You wanna get lucky???????
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HJFinAZ: DAMN!!!!!!! Al some can do is whine....
You wanna get lucky???????
You wanna get lucky???????
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SusanBoyle: True...and you're right, there's nothing wrong with it.
I just wasn't aware that was going to be the arrangment when we met for the original date...
I just wasn't aware that was going to be the arrangment when we met for the original date...
You had better get used to it and take it like a man...
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Englishman55: As her if whe fancies travelling to Italy !
ooops.... typo..... ASK
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you're a hottie,you will get over it.Next time don't hop into bed with her on the first date!Build a relationship first,then hop into bed 
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SusanBoyle: True...and you're right, there's nothing wrong with it.
I just wasn't aware that was going to be the arrangment when we met for the original date...
I just wasn't aware that was going to be the arrangment when we met for the original date...
I dare say it happens quite alot, from meeting on a dating site to meeting in real life. Well given that it was your first date one cannot expect a blossoming relationship to arise from it. Maybe just keep in touch, you never know these days.
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Maybe you should have had an understanding from the gitgo that this was going to just be for funsies.
Anyway, people take advantage of each other all of the time.
Maybe we all should start a club so that we can whine on each other's shoulders.
Anyway, people take advantage of each other all of the time.
Maybe we all should start a club so that we can whine on each other's shoulders.
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Well this actually is quite interesting.. and the responses so far have left me slightly irked.
The fact that she made the comment about 'just physical' AFTER returning is, for me, where the issue lies. This should have been made clear upfront.
Its easy for people to berate the OP for this post, but I cant help feeling, were the tables turned, and it was a male who had done this, he would be getting hammered for his actions by now.
I would also be interested in knowing if the profile of the lady in question made any point about looking for this kind of activity.
I think the core of this tread is quite important actually, as I do believe MANY users of this site would be quite put off by this behaviour.
Seriously, I don't think it's a good advert for the site, and I don't think the responses here are either.
I'm not saying it was wrong, but I don't think it should be endorsed either, and I certainly don't think the OP deserved to be told to grow up.
Just my personal opinion.
The fact that she made the comment about 'just physical' AFTER returning is, for me, where the issue lies. This should have been made clear upfront.
Its easy for people to berate the OP for this post, but I cant help feeling, were the tables turned, and it was a male who had done this, he would be getting hammered for his actions by now.
I would also be interested in knowing if the profile of the lady in question made any point about looking for this kind of activity.
I think the core of this tread is quite important actually, as I do believe MANY users of this site would be quite put off by this behaviour.
Seriously, I don't think it's a good advert for the site, and I don't think the responses here are either.
I'm not saying it was wrong, but I don't think it should be endorsed either, and I certainly don't think the OP deserved to be told to grow up.
Just my personal opinion.
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Susan Boyle...... great makeover
and by the way, don't see what you're complaining about
and by the way, don't see what you're complaining about
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I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...