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May 4, 2010 6:54 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
I have to admit, I don't think I'm as bold or outgoing in real life. I have my moments but.....you know.conversing anybody?conversing
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May 4, 2010 6:58 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
bob1959: I have to admit, I don't think I'm as bold or outgoing in real life. I have my moments but.....you know. anybody?


Why can´t you be bold in real life, I find it easier than here, despite the fact that it´s not so difficult hiding behind a computer and with access to private mail for those less assured. dunno

I´m the opposite, much bolder in the real world than here.
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May 4, 2010 7:01 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
JAN_is: Why can´t you be bold in real life, I find it easier than here, despite the fact that it´s not so difficult hiding behind a computer and with access to private mail for those less assured.

I´m the opposite, much bolder in the real world than here.
No fair, That was question mam.conversing
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May 4, 2010 7:01 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
JAN_is: Why can´t you be bold in real life, I find it easier than here, despite the fact that it´s not so difficult hiding behind a computer and with access to private mail for those less assured.

I´m the opposite, much bolder in the real world than here.


same as you jan

thumbs up

this place is a frickin mine field

people i know in real life can have heated discussions and not ever take offense

as to the question bob i dunno

i mean people here that make any effort at all end up 'getting' me

those that wanna keep me in the box of their presumption-well thats where i stay i guess- and its fine with mebeer
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May 4, 2010 7:03 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
JAN_is: Why can´t you be bold in real life, I find it easier than here, despite the fact that it´s not so difficult hiding behind a computer and with access to private mail for those less assured.

I´m the opposite, much bolder in the real world than here.


Oh sorry I didn´t answer your question. I know I´m a much nicer person than what I seem to portray here, or what people perceive me to be based on my posts.

I laugh everyday and I enjoy being silly with friends. I don´t put that across here I know. Most people think I´m overly serious...not true. laugh
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May 4, 2010 7:07 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
JAN_is: Oh sorry I didn´t answer your question. I know I´m a much nicer person than what I seem to portray here, or what people perceive me to be based on my posts.

I laugh everyday and I enjoy being silly with friends. I don´t put that across here I know. Most people think I´m overly serious...not true.
You may be softening. I don't see you as stiff or cool at all.
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May 4, 2010 7:13 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
bob1959: You may be softening. I don't see you as stiff or cool at all.


No, not softening, it´s the real me. I just don´t come across the same way here as I do in real life. Maybe because I write in a certain way, you know, grammar and such like. laugh

I´m a big softie really and my few friends here know that.

MF, back me up here. rolling on the floor laughing
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May 4, 2010 7:18 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
JAN_is: No, not softening, it´s the real me. I just don´t come across the same way here as I do in real life. Maybe because I write in a certain way, you know, grammar and such like.

I´m a big softie really and my few friends here know that.

MF, back me up here.
Hey Jan. I'm off to bed. I guess I'm like that date of yours that goes to bed early. (read something about people that did not match their profiles.) I'm like one of the seven dwarfs. (hi ho, hi ho...) Dopey i guess, according to you.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing yawn sleep
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May 4, 2010 7:20 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
JAN_is: No, not softening, it´s the real me. I just don´t come across the same way here as I do in real life. Maybe because I write in a certain way, you know, grammar and such like.

I´m a big softie really and my few friends here know that.

MF, back me up here.


me too me too jan

people think i have a stick up my butt because i am serious and respectful of certain things

and then they call me fake because i can be irreverent about things and they accuse me of being insincere and worse because they cannot compute how all that paradox fits inside me and can be real so surely im false on some front


gets old

i wonder, the people that are spo damn accusatory in here are really that way

i say no

they wouldnt have the balls to act that way in public because it is madly inappropriatedoh
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May 4, 2010 7:25 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
bob1959: Hey Jan. I'm off to bed. I guess I'm like that date of yours that goes to bed early. (read something about people that did not match their profiles.) I'm like one of the seven dwarfs. (hi ho, hi ho...) Dopey i guess, according to you.


You´re not dopey at all and you know that. teddybear

Night night. lips
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May 4, 2010 7:42 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
Kattsrose
KattsroseKattsroseKind of near Portsmouth, NH, New Hampshire USA52 Threads 4 Polls 911 Posts
bob1959: I have to admit, I don't think I'm as bold or outgoing in real life. I have my moments but.....you know. anybody?


I think everyone protects parts of themselves in public, even if it is just on line public.
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May 5, 2010 12:07 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
bob1959: I have to admit, I don't think I'm as bold or outgoing in real life. I have my moments but.....you know. anybody?


Im pretty much the same here as in real life. Yeah, I know we all say that, but its really true!!laugh

Thats why I have rubbed some up the wrong way in the past, because I cannot change the person I am, and if I disagree with someone, I will say. Id rather be true to myself, and take the consequences than be a fake.

If there was any change AT ALL, I would say maybeeeee Im more able to pass upon an insult on here than I would in RL, purely because if I want to continue to be a member here, I will no doubt meet said Insulter on the forum again, and therefore its best to ignore - for the sake of future peace.

In real life, however, I would be able to just tell that person what I thought of them, and then avoid said person in the future and stay out of their area of town.

beer
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May 5, 2010 12:14 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
bob1959: I have to admit, I don't think I'm as bold or outgoing in real life. I have my moments but.....you know. anybody?

I guess I would have to say that I can at times be quite serious and a deep thinker, which never comes across on the forums.
Don't laugh !!!

I am also very sensitive, especially to the feelings of others, which also may not come across.

I guess there is quite a long list for me, but if I said anymore then you would definately think I'm joking.
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May 5, 2010 12:17 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
JRT61
JRT61JRT61Taunton, Somerset, England UK149 Posts
I think it would have to be that I'm a nice guy... sounds very obvious I guess, but half the time I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall because there are so many players around.
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May 5, 2010 12:52 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
JAN_is: Oh sorry I didn´t answer your question. I know I´m a much nicer person than what I seem to portray here, or what people perceive me to be based on my posts.

I laugh everyday and I enjoy being silly with friends. I don´t put that across here I know. Most people think I´m overly serious...not true.
ya took the words right outa my mouth!!
roll eyes grin
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May 5, 2010 6:25 PM CST What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
My sparkly eyes grin
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