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Aug 30, 2006 5:25 AM CST What if..
ephedric
ephedricephedricamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands2 Threads 13 Posts
You totally fall for someone special, who´s life totally differs from yours. You both feel passionate about each other, but don't share much common grounds. Will this relationship ever hold? What do you think?
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Aug 30, 2006 5:38 AM CST What if..
WindRider
WindRiderWindRiderPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA11 Threads 602 Posts
Well, if you had respect for each others differences then it would work.. If you tried to convince them your way is better then.. no chance

cheers
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Aug 30, 2006 5:39 AM CST What if..
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
My vote would be ABSOLUTELY! yay

Differences are what can make a relationship interesting and exciting. Be open minded, accepting and willing to accept change. Before long you WILL share common ground.
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Aug 30, 2006 5:45 AM CST What if..
kentuckygirlge
kentuckygirlgekentuckygirlge35 Threads 3,603 Posts
wink well i did but distance won out,hi im kygirl by the wayhug hug yay
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Aug 30, 2006 5:45 AM CST What if..
damion1
damion1damion1123 Posts
what ...cheers
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Aug 30, 2006 5:47 AM CST What if..
kentuckygirlge
kentuckygirlgekentuckygirlge35 Threads 3,603 Posts
tongue not you im talking about someone inscold im not telling that so d,darlin how are youdoh
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Aug 30, 2006 5:47 AM CST What if..
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I agree. If you both respect one anothers differences and can compromise that is great but if one were to try to change the other that can create problems.
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Aug 30, 2006 5:48 AM CST What if..
damion1
damion1damion1123 Posts
who ..cheers
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Aug 30, 2006 5:53 AM CST What if..
kentuckygirlge
kentuckygirlgekentuckygirlge35 Threads 3,603 Posts
ok,i see no help for mine on complete different places in the country,its going to take a miracle,well no hold up on that,i said im not thinking of thatroll eyes
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Aug 30, 2006 5:54 AM CST What if..
damion1
damion1damion1123 Posts
who ...cheers
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Aug 30, 2006 5:55 AM CST What if..
kentuckygirlge
kentuckygirlgekentuckygirlge35 Threads 3,603 Posts
not to worry D we both agreed,things keep us apartwink blushing
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Aug 30, 2006 6:11 AM CST What if..
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
Depends if the differences were complimentary. If they were not then I'd say No....Might be fun ride but bount to end up derailed.
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Aug 30, 2006 6:13 AM CST What if..
kentuckygirlge
kentuckygirlgekentuckygirlge35 Threads 3,603 Posts
wink talk about a trainwreck,not even what i look for so i was thinking maybe aliens abducted me or somethingwow wow
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Aug 30, 2006 8:25 AM CST What if..
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
If the differences are too much, It will work for a while but at the end everybody will get tire, bored and will put a end to it, for a while yes, long term no.



El Diablo
devil
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Aug 30, 2006 8:37 AM CST What if..
Missy51970
Missy51970Missy51970Goodland, Kansas USA21 Threads 1,457 Posts
Definately will last...Differences arent necessarily a bad thing. It brings adventure into your life or can...Lead you to do things you normally wouldnt do because its not your thing.. What about distance? Do you think a relationship full of passion and love can last long distance? When neither person is willing or ready to move to where the other is for good reasons tho keep that in mind...
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Aug 30, 2006 9:48 AM CST What if..
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Is there not a saying "opposites attract"?

I think it can and has worked.
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Aug 30, 2006 11:41 AM CST What if..
slicktrix
slicktrixslicktrixHagerstown, Maryland USA3 Threads 84 Posts
I want to point out that those differences might be
financial, lifestyle, religion, chilren, etc.
These are not small issues to be overlooked!
I mean a person can SAY it doesn't matter to them,
but it might end it it matters much more than they think.
Same with finances...I dated a guy once that had a
much bigger income than I did at that time. He
said money wasn't an issue for him...and then promptly
threw it in my face everytime he paid for ANYTHING!
professor
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Aug 30, 2006 2:00 PM CST What if..
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
dunno i guness you never heard that opposite attract help

here is the thing about true love,if both of you want it to work.you will both find a way to make it work.no matter if you are a like or not.if it is true love you will find a way to make it work



if it didn't work it was not because of your differents,it was because you was not able to overcome it.you kept letting it get in the way of your love for each other to grow.if you let it love can overcome anything.


only you and them can let love grow between you,only you and them can stop love from growing in between you and them.love can only work if we let it work cheers
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Aug 30, 2006 2:04 PM CST What if..
kentuckygirlge
kentuckygirlgekentuckygirlge35 Threads 3,603 Posts
blushing AWWW Z,making me blushblushing
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Aug 30, 2006 2:10 PM CST What if..
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
kiss they call it unconditional love for a reason,there is no conditions on it.true love is made up of compromises.


if you let your differts stand in your way,than you will not let your love grow.if you put conditions on love,than it is not unconditional love,than it is not true love.but a love that you or them want it to be.


when it is want to be love than it will not last,cause once the want to be's run out,than the love will run out.if it is true love both of you will work togther so it will last forever
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