I STILL NEED ADVICE ( Archived) (7)

Aug 30, 2006 2:46 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
chevy4x4gurl84
chevy4x4gurl84chevy4x4gurl84crawfordville, Florida USA37 Threads 109 Posts
For some reason i can find a ok guy and ask him out but then while we are dating i can only find flaws in our relation ship and i dump him i meen i have dumped guys for telling me they loved me after dating only 3 days so can ya'll help me figure out why i do this



just some info on me
* im 21 and live at home
* im unemplyed @ the moment but i start my job on 9-18-06
* im plesently plump
* i love animals
* i love taking care of children ages 0-10



so if you can give me some GOOD advice write back


help help help help help help help help help
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Aug 30, 2006 3:07 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
This sounds like a job for Waveprofessor
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Aug 30, 2006 3:15 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
xfahctor
xfahctorxfahctorlancaster, New Hampshire USA44 Threads 1,643 Posts
well.....your gonna find flaws in EVERY relationship,
its all a matter of what you willing to deal with for
what you get....perfect=boring...and besides it doesnt
exist.
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Aug 30, 2006 3:18 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
If you can only find the negatives in a relationship, perhaps you are not emotionally ready to handle one.

Being 21...loving animals...being pleasantly plump...love to take care of children, and having a job, does not make you emotionally mature for a relationship...all it says, is that you are still young and in the mental growing process.

Give it time, and think more positive...and remember, no relationship can be perfect...it can be great, but it takes two to get a comfort zone and accomplish the happiness that two people look for.


....angel Angel...
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Aug 30, 2006 4:03 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
Somethingsexy
SomethingsexySomethingsexy4 Threads 122 Posts
If your dating someone there should be something already between the two of you like friendship or have known the person already right.?


I think you you should give it more time to develop.

It seems to me you don't want to be the one getting hurt in the end so you cut it off.

It's rough to really know how a person feels about you,you got to look at more how he makes you feel then what he says.I thinkroll eyes confused
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Aug 30, 2006 4:06 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
bluitexan20000
bluitexan20000bluitexan20000marshalltown, Iowa USA19 Threads 440 Posts
seemd yr tryin to avoid responsibilities u want yr parents top support u for the rest of yr life get on yr own u will enjoy it then maybe when u grow uo u will know how to keep the men!!yr still young u have alot to learn dear
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Aug 30, 2006 4:48 PM CST I STILL NEED ADVICE
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
here's what you do always remember no on is perfect,which means you too.we all have our flaws and we all make mistakes.we live in a perfect world where nothing is perfect.life is what we make of it.


stop looking at the bad in someone and look for the good.anyone has good in them,it does not matter how long it takes you to find it.for you to date someone you had to have a reason.what was about that person that made you to go out with them.


until you can figure out why you are like this,do you will not have a lasting relationship.even when true love comes knocking at your door,you will just toss it aside like everyone else.than one day you will realize what you done and wish you could go back to that day.


but it is sad once today has pass and turns into tomorrow,you cannot go back and change things you have done today.all you can do is learn from your past,so you will not repeat the same thing today.



you can ask everyone you want to, what do i do? but the only answer can come from you,you have to look deep inside of yourself.ask yourself why am i doing the things i am doing.


if you see something you want to change,you are the only one that can change it.you are the only person who can say i want to be a better person today,than i was yesterday.


the thing about true love it accepts the person as they are and for who they are.true love knows no one is person and we all have our flaws.true love knows people are going to make mistakes and when they do we forgive them of it.


there is some reason why you keep doing what you are doing,only you know the reason why,once you know the reason why,than you can stop yourself from doing it over and over again.


sooner or later true love will come knocking at your door,most likely you will kick it to the curb.
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