How important is the physical? ( Archived) (99)

May 13, 2010 2:15 PM CST How important is the physical?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
illu_66: Sarcasm does NOT suit you young lady. You would NEVER see ME stooping so low......!


hey i wasnt being sarcastic!hug besides your hardly ugly lol!

Looks can mean more at certain stages of life,like when we are looking for a relationship that we know will not be permanent.

i know i didn't marry my husband for his looks.i don't believe you are affected by a persons looks once familiarity sets in.ok its a nice status to have a good looking guy by ones side,but you would have to be extremely insecure to place value on this above emotional/mental connection.
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May 13, 2010 2:17 PM CST How important is the physical?
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
tomboygirl: hey i wasnt being sarcastic! besides your hardly ugly lol!

Looks can mean more at certain stages of life,like when we are looking for a relationship that we know will not be permanent.

i know i didn't marry my husband for his looks.i don't believe you are affected by a persons looks once familiarity sets in.ok its a nice status to have a good looking guy by ones side,but you would have to be extremely insecure to place value on this above emotional/mental connection.

There is my point. An average looking guy struggles GETTING that familiarity, because of his looks.
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May 13, 2010 2:18 PM CST How important is the physical?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
illu_66: There is my point. An average looking guy struggles GETTING that familiarity, because of his looks.


Personal opinion..i wouldnt say you are average.
Id say you where an attractive man.....but your personality sucks bananas rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 13, 2010 2:21 PM CST How important is the physical?
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
Amity: Personal opinion..i wouldnt say you are average.
Id say you where an attractive man.....but your personality sucks bananas


what she said. stop mopping around talking about how avg u r and sell your good points! laugh grin cheers
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May 13, 2010 2:22 PM CST How important is the physical?
mollymo
mollymomollymoDublin, Ireland2 Threads 326 Posts
I married a man who was beautiful on the outside and charming in the extreme at first.

Then his ugly nature came out and he transformed before my eyes, when I looked at him I no longer saw the beauty but the ugliness.


So yes I have learnt to look past the physical and try see the person underneath.
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May 13, 2010 2:24 PM CST How important is the physical?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
illu_66: There is my point. An average looking guy struggles GETTING that familiarity, because of his looks.


OK for all its a struggle though-imagine a good looking guy/girl will have girls/guys dating him/her for his/her looks only to let that person down when someone better comes along.

You work with what you have-course if your average and brain-deaddoh
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May 13, 2010 2:32 PM CST How important is the physical?
AMT17
AMT17AMT17Exmouth, Devon, England UK23 Posts
tomboygirl: OK for all its a struggle though-imagine a good looking guy/girl will have girls/guys dating him/her for his/her looks only to let that person down when someone better comes along.

You work with what you have-course if your average and brain-dead



It's always depressing getting traded in for a younger, prettier model crying

Attraction isn't always physical and my mother was one for saying "that beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and I sure hope she was right kiss
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May 13, 2010 3:46 PM CST How important is the physical?
oldsoul475
oldsoul475oldsoul475central, New Jersey USA1 Threads 29 Posts
AMT17: It's always depressing getting traded in for a younger, prettier model

Attraction isn't always physical and my mother was one for saying "that beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and I sure hope she was right
my be she just dont drive like newdunno
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May 13, 2010 3:50 PM CST How important is the physical?
telgordo
telgordotelgordoalicante/murcia, Murcia Spain19 Threads 1 Polls 476 Posts
AMT17: It's always depressing getting traded in for a younger, prettier model

Attraction isn't always physical and my mother was one for saying "that beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and I sure hope she was right


I think half the trouble with people in the 21st century is that they have become lazy
People wont work hard enough to maintain a relationship

Its too easy now to just walk away , we are a throw away society,as we do with food and packaging we do with relationships


Looks have become predominent over a persons good nature and loving disposition

I would rather have someone with fire in their soul that really cares for me than someone with model looks,who is just superficial
I suppose in my younger days i might have been that type of person, but i think age brings maturity and realisation of what is more important
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May 13, 2010 4:03 PM CST How important is the physical?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
tomboygirl: OK for all its a struggle though-imagine a good looking guy/girl will have girls/guys dating him/her for his/her looks only to let that person down when someone better comes along.

You work with what you have-course if your average and brain-dead


Uh, oh.... I retired three years ago cause I was brain dead then at 55. Guess that explains everything. Sad to be SOL. confused help
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May 13, 2010 4:07 PM CST How important is the physical?
oldsoul475
oldsoul475oldsoul475central, New Jersey USA1 Threads 29 Posts
telgordo: I think half the trouble with people in the 21st century is that they have become lazy
People wont work hard enough to maintain a relationship

Its too easy now to just walk away , we are a throw away society,as we do with food and packaging we do with relationshipsLooks have become predominent over a persons good nature and loving disposition

I would rather have someone with fire in their soul that really cares for me than someone with model looks,who is just superficial
I suppose in my younger days i might have been that type of person, but i think age brings maturity and realisation of what is more important
Hold on professor im scrolling that one down typing thumbs up
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May 13, 2010 4:31 PM CST How important is the physical?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Its all about chemistry cause beauty is in the eye of the beholder wine
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May 13, 2010 4:49 PM CST How important is the physical?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
venusenvy: Its all about chemistry cause beauty is in the eye of the beholder
hey prettywave
BTW,i want to be your friend,not because of your looksteddybear
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May 13, 2010 6:28 PM CST How important is the physical?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
nicki_love: Ok.. generally speaking. You meet someone who is not normally what you would look for physically. He/She is NOT ugly but has some features that you usually bypass.. However, you begin chatting with this person by a fluke and realise that they are really wonderful.. can you put aside your feelings about their physical appearance or will you allow that to get in the way of a possible meaningful relationship?? All opinions welcomed!

Btw.. I am not speaking about myself here ok.. so please dont say "well if the man doesnt like what you look like then blah blah blah".. lol.. This is a hypothetical question! So please answer based on your opinion as if you were in the situation...


I don't get judged pysically..

why would I...

WITH A BABY FACE LIKE THIS.


pointing
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May 13, 2010 6:34 PM CST How important is the physical?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Give me honesty,give me trust;
the physical features always change,
a genuine heart doesn't.applause
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May 13, 2010 6:37 PM CST How important is the physical?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
cherrybrandy: hey pretty
BTW,i want to be your friend,not because of your looks


Hi beauty...well thats good cause I look scary in the morning lips hug
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May 13, 2010 11:07 PM CST How important is the physical?
nicki_love
nicki_lovenicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads 374 Posts
thewall2: I don't get judged pysically..

why would I...

WITH A BABY FACE LIKE THIS.




grin heart beating
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May 13, 2010 11:09 PM CST How important is the physical?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
To most it is important enough to pass a good person for, but not important enough not to lie about how important it is to them.
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May 14, 2010 6:39 PM CST How important is the physical?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
I want a woman with the looks of Pammy Anderson, the drive and determination of Maggie Thatcher, the heart of Mother Teresa, the love of an angel and the intelligence of a strong and thoughtful woman, who's name I can't think of right now.

I am not asking much doh but I know that if I had to drop any one trait it would definately be the Pammy Anderson looks.

grin
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May 14, 2010 10:28 PM CST How important is the physical?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Englishman55: I want a woman with the looks of Pammy Anderson, the drive and determination of Maggie Thatcher, the heart of Mother Teresa, the love of an angel and the intelligence of a strong and thoughtful woman, who's name I can't think of right now.

I am not asking much but I know that if I had to drop any one trait it would definately be the Pammy Anderson looks.


Sarah Palin?
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