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ElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts....a few years ago there was a certain female who worked for me,very attractive and we got on like a house on fire,but I have always kept in mind a piece of good advice given to me many years ago by a very good friend who I have long since lost touch with. The advice was " don,t screw around with the payroll" for all sorts of good reasons.Well she started to have a few relationship/life problems connected with her ex to such an extent that her performance was putting the business at risk and I very reluctantly had to sack her.She was not best pleased to say the least and in fact would not even respond to my hello,s socially on the rare ocassions that we met. Then quite recently I was in a bar,drinking tila
(not tequila,ok?)and she followed me all around the bar with her eyes.So I went over to ask how she was and she was quite civilised.The thing is a)I still feel a bit bad about sacking her and b)I still quite fancy her.Here,s the rub,do I ask her out for a date (and risk being told where to get off,or even worse she agrees but only to exact some sort of revenge)Oh what webs we weave when first we practice to believe,or summat like that.also,my female business partner,who was in agreement to the sacking and who herself is a truly wonderful person to whom I owe my life,may or may not be best pleased.Please advise
(not tequila,ok?)and she followed me all around the bar with her eyes.So I went over to ask how she was and she was quite civilised.The thing is a)I still feel a bit bad about sacking her and b)I still quite fancy her.Here,s the rub,do I ask her out for a date (and risk being told where to get off,or even worse she agrees but only to exact some sort of revenge)Oh what webs we weave when first we practice to believe,or summat like that.also,my female business partner,who was in agreement to the sacking and who herself is a truly wonderful person to whom I owe my life,may or may not be best pleased.Please adviseElley: ....a few years ago there was a certain female who worked for me,very attractive and we got on like a house on fire,but I have always kept in mind a piece of good advice given to me many years ago by a very good friend who I have long since lost touch with. The advice was " don,t screw around with the payroll" for all sorts of good reasons.Well she started to have a few relationship/life problems connected with her ex to such an extent that her performance was putting the business at risk and I very reluctantly had to sack her.She was not best pleased to say the least and in fact would not even respond to my hello,s socially on the rare ocassions that we met. Then quite recently I was in a bar,drinking tila (not tequila,ok?)and she followed me all around the bar with her eyes.So I went over to ask how she was and she was quite civilised.The thing is a)I still feel a bit bad about sacking her and b)I still quite fancy her.Here,s the rub,do I ask her out for a date (and risk being told where to get off,or even worse she agrees but only to exact some sort of revenge)Oh what webs we weave when first we practice to believe,or summat like that.also,my female business partner,who was in agreement to the sacking and who herself is a truly wonderful person to whom I owe my life,may or may not be best pleased.Please advise
Any chance of even once, doin' a post no longer than 4 lines.....it's 23.22CET. Do you realise how much Sarko's finest I've had......
Elley: ....a few years ago there was a certain female who worked for me,very attractive and we got on like a house on fire,but I have always kept in mind a piece of good advice given to me many years ago by a very good friend who I have long since lost touch with. The advice was " don,t screw around with the payroll" for all sorts of good reasons.Well she started to have a few relationship/life problems connected with her ex to such an extent that her performance was putting the business at risk and I very reluctantly had to sack her.She was not best pleased to say the least and in fact would not even respond to my hello,s socially on the rare ocassions that we met. Then quite recently I was in a bar,drinking tila (not tequila,ok?)and she followed me all around the bar with her eyes.So I went over to ask how she was and she was quite civilised.The thing is a)I still feel a bit bad about sacking her and b)I still quite fancy her.Here,s the rub,do I ask her out for a date (and risk being told where to get off,or even worse she agrees but only to exact some sort of revenge)Oh what webs we weave when first we practice to believe,or summat like that.also,my female business partner,who was in agreement to the sacking and who herself is a truly wonderful person to whom I owe my life,may or may not be best pleased.Please advise
You're getting ahead of yourself. Life is simple. Just suggest a casual meet for coffee on Sat afternoon or a quick apero after work one day and see how it goes... Your colleague can have nothing to say about such a simple straightforward thing. Why should your ex-employee say no to such an invitation? If you amuse her over coffee, she might even go see a flick with you another time... and time will tell whether you have anything in common.
wordsmith99: You're getting ahead of yourself. Life is simple. Just suggest a casual meet for coffee on Sat afternoon or a quick apero after work one day and see how it goes... Your colleague can have nothing to say about such a simple straightforward thing. Why should your ex-employee say no to such an invitation? If you amuse her over coffee, she might even go see a flick with you another time... and time will tell whether you have anything in common.
Wordy please...4 line's no more. Emoctions are good...
Phoenix: Wordy please...4 line's no more. Emoctions are good...
But I'm wordy, not emoty... see the prob?
wordsmith99: But I'm wordy, not emoty... see the prob?
At least that was one line...
I agree - a big one isn't necessarily better because it's quality that counts, not quantity. But if you can get your hands on a big one which is also good quality! Well, that's worth grabbing, non?
Here, have a glass of rosie. I'm orf to beddy byes.
Here, have a glass of rosie. I'm orf to beddy byes.
Elley: ....a few years ago there was a certain female who worked for me,very attractive and we got on like a house on fire,but I have always kept in mind a piece of good advice given to me many years ago by a very good friend who I have long since lost touch with. The advice was " don,t screw around with the payroll" for all sorts of good reasons.Well she started to have a few relationship/life problems connected with her ex to such an extent that her performance was putting the business at risk and I very reluctantly had to sack her.She was not best pleased to say the least and in fact would not even respond to my hello,s socially on the rare ocassions that we met. Then quite recently I was in a bar,drinking tila (not tequila,ok?)and she followed me all around the bar with her eyes.So I went over to ask how she was and she was quite civilised.The thing is a)I still feel a bit bad about sacking her and b)I still quite fancy her.Here,s the rub,do I ask her out for a date (and risk being told where to get off,or even worse she agrees but only to exact some sort of revenge)Oh what webs we weave when first we practice to believe,or summat like that.also,my female business partner,who was in agreement to the sacking and who herself is a truly wonderful person to whom I owe my life,may or may not be best pleased.Please advise
Elley ... Try to begin each day new. So what about what a colleague thinks of what you do in your private life?Guys thanks,Feenix,love your post,bang on.
Tulefel: I have even googled it. And still I don’t know what it is. I gave up.
Tule, girl ... a RASTA is short for RASTAFARIAN. They have their own religion called Rastafarians ........ they wear hats and jerseys knitted (or crocheted) in the colours of Red/Green/Yellow. The Red is for the colour of their eyes, the Yellow is for the colour of their hands .........cause they been mashing out the seeds from the Green grass that they smoke.
Get the story now....?
Bob Marley, Peter Tosh ..... Google them, and see what a Rasta is.
Oh yes, they don`t comb their hair .. its against their religion .... and they dont cut it ......so it grows into Dreadlocks.........
Tulefel: I have even googled it. And still I don’t know what it is. I gave up.
Simple...Have you a friend of a friend who has dreadlock's..who normally has Peter Tosh or Bob Marley blastin' out of his ears? Because my friend of a friend who know a bloke who stands in dark alley's (who also blasts out Petey and Bobby) is takin' a vaction..(for 6mths)
So do you have a friend???
No. But what for do you need such a person? To chase lice in his dreads?
Chimpanzees help each other with that, if you can trust TV.
Chimpanzees help each other with that, if you can trust TV.
Tulefel: No. But what for do you need such a person? To chase lice in his dreads?
Chimpanzees help each other with that, if you can trust TV.
Nein! ... To sell him a Hand, or a Finger, or a Foot.....Chimpanzees help each other with that, if you can trust TV.
smoky: Nein! ... To sell him a Hand, or a Finger, or a Foot.....
My hands, fingers and feet I need myself, haven’t got any excess for sale… Perhaps, It’s not cool not to know slang, or jargon, of fenya... Then well, I’ll remain uncool.
Elley: ....a few years ago there was a certain female who worked for me,very attractive and we got on like a house on fire,but I have always kept in mind a piece of good advice given to me many years ago by a very good friend who I have long since lost touch with. The advice was " don,t screw around with the payroll" for all sorts of good reasons.Well she started to have a few relationship/life problems connected with her ex to such an extent that her performance was putting the business at risk and I very reluctantly had to sack her.She was not best pleased to say the least and in fact would not even respond to my hello,s socially on the rare ocassions that we met. Then quite recently I was in a bar,drinking tila (not tequila,ok?)and she followed me all around the bar with her eyes.So I went over to ask how she was and she was quite civilised.The thing is a)I still feel a bit bad about sacking her and b)I still quite fancy her.Here,s the rub,do I ask her out for a date (and risk being told where to get off,or even worse she agrees but only to exact some sort of revenge)Oh what webs we weave when first we practice to believe,or summat like that.also,my female business partner,who was in agreement to the sacking and who herself is a truly wonderful person to whom I owe my life,may or may not be best pleased.Please advise
So what happened??? Spill the beans...
Oh Elley makes mountains out of molehills.
JAN_is: Oh Elley makes mountains out of molehills.
Ja! Thank goodness he wasn`t one of my ex-husbands! Actually, nah ..never mind..... I think I`ll just stay single, or maybe not, depends how I feel when the moment arrives......I think I`ll marry a Lawyer next time.....
.. or maybe a Judge .....smoky: Ja! Thank goodness he wasn`t one of my ex-husbands! Actually, nah ..never mind..... I think I`ll just stay single, or maybe not, depends how I feel when the moment arrives......
I think I`ll marry a Lawyer next time..... .. or maybe a Judge .....
I think I`ll marry a Lawyer next time..... .. or maybe a Judge .....
Nothing to report,twas just a thought that didn,t really amount to a hill of beans.No intention of revisiting that place or thing.
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