I found someone on FB few months ago.We were going at primary school together and hanged around a lot in that time.We chat since than and seems that there is more than friendship,some kind of chemistry that cant explain. We havent meet yet because i moved form that town and dont really have time to go there for weekends.WE try to arrange meeting but nothing yet. This weekend im going there so we will meet at Sunday.He invited me over to his place for a lunch he said that he will cook for me and im skeptical as always and do really think is it smart to do that(go to his place)? Its nothing final tough but that was his proposal....
There r few reasons that its not smart to go in public with him but still made me think....
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
markizamkd25: I found someone on FB few months ago.We were going at primary school together and hanged around a lot in that time.We chat since than and seems that there is more than friendship,some kind of chemistry that cant explain. We havent meet yet because i moved form that town and dont really have time to go there for weekends.WE try to arrange meeting but nothing yet. This weekend im going there so we will meet at Sunday.He invited me over to his place for a lunch he said that he will cook for me and im skeptical as always and do really think is it smart to do that(go to his place)? Its nothing final tough but that was his proposal....
There r few reasons that its not smart to go in public with him but still made me think....
Why is it not smart to be seen in public with him..... is he married ?
You need to follow your feelings Marki and be right to be cautious, but also take a small risk, otherwise you will never know.
markizamkd25: I found someone on FB few months ago.We were going at primary school together and hanged around a lot in that time.We chat since than and seems that there is more than friendship,some kind of chemistry that cant explain. We havent meet yet because i moved form that town and dont really have time to go there for weekends.WE try to arrange meeting but nothing yet. This weekend im going there so we will meet at Sunday.He invited me over to his place for a lunch he said that he will cook for me and im skeptical as always and do really think is it smart to do that(go to his place)? Its nothing final tough but that was his proposal....
There r few reasons that its not smart to go in public with him but still made me think....
It is ur personal life and u have spent time wth him so u should be familair wth his reality and now u have to decide urself what to do,But i think if u are satisfied wth him nothing bad to go wth him in public
markizamkd25: I found someone on FB few months ago.We were going at primary school together and hanged around a lot in that time.We chat since than and seems that there is more than friendship,some kind of chemistry that cant explain. We havent meet yet because i moved form that town and dont really have time to go there for weekends.WE try to arrange meeting but nothing yet. This weekend im going there so we will meet at Sunday.He invited me over to his place for a lunch he said that he will cook for me and im skeptical as always and do really think is it smart to do that(go to his place)? Its nothing final tough but that was his proposal....
There r few reasons that its not smart to go in public with him but still made me think....
Take a hamburger in your back-pack .... just in case....
Legend3: Gorget that and meet him if u r intrested in him ,i sure it will not be an issue for both of u if u like each other . I like to say that he is a lucky guy to find a beautiful girl and that is you ..
Marki...listen to your instincts and be careful. You do what you feel is right. Myself I would never go to some strange mans house for a first date, it sounds dangerous to me.
Marki, Don't go to a strange man,s house for a first date. As guy, I can tell you, although I have wanted to many times (invite a women over n the first date), I know how inappropriate it is. He should be thinking of putting you at ease with him FIRST! He shouldn't even ask you to do that. I understand the problems with meeting him in public, but there HAS to be a better solution than his place. How about a little out of the way restaurant? Won't you be uncomfortable at his place? How could that be any fun? Think it though. Your gut feelings are almost never wrong.
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
I cant not understand your posting, and dont know what u like us to advice you, if u love him, then just directly learn more about him, his life, his friends, colleagues & family,... but someone said to me that if you is always doubtful about your lover, then that mean your lover dont make you feel confortable & safely, and this love will just harm your spirit & health, then just try to stop. But if u still feel like him, then just follow him for a period and try to understand your lover, then definitely u will hv a final decision by yourself whether will should continue or stop with him.
kcuc0574: I cant not understand your posting, and dont know what u like us to advice you, if u love him, then just directly learn more about him, his life, his friends, colleagues & family,... but someone said to me that if you is always doubtful about your lover, then that mean your lover dont make you feel confortable & safely, and this love will just harm your spirit & health, then just try to stop. But if u still feel like him, then just follow him for a period and try to understand your lover, then definitely u will hv a final decision by yourself whether will should continue or stop with him.
We havent even met yet i cant say i love him but yes i do like him...thats why i meet him just not sure his place or not
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We havent meet yet because i moved form that town and dont really have time to go there for weekends.WE try to arrange meeting but nothing yet.
This weekend im going there so we will meet at Sunday.He invited me over to his place for a lunch he said that he will cook for me and im skeptical as always and do really think is it smart to do that(go to his place)? Its nothing final tough but that was his proposal....
There r few reasons that its not smart to go in public with him but still made me think....