Surviving a Broken Heart (62)
thedove: WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
Live and learn, they say, and I'm certain they are right about the first part. Dunno about the second. I liked heartbreak so much the first time I tried it again! Somehow after that I kinda lost my taste for it though.
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THAT WAS FUNNY! 
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thedove: I'm sure many of you have suffered a broken heart at least once in your life. I have many times and it is painful it is true. But the aftermath has brought me more insight in the subject of love. It may be a bummer when it happens, but after the tears, my mind is clear and I know what to watch for in the next relationship. I will be a better judge of character know what kind of partner I want and how to handle things with new found knowledge and wisdom.
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
The upside of things is just that, what you have said, live, experience, and learn.
The things that aren't so visible to the naked eye are the scars, the insecurities, the baggage, which everyone says they are free of, but I am mature enough to know better.
I am not so sure that heartbreak is a good thing, failure after failure.....
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thedove: I'm sure many of you have suffered a broken heart at least once in your life. I have many times and it is painful it is true. But the aftermath has brought me more insight in the subject of love. It may be a bummer when it happens, but after the tears, my mind is clear and I know what to watch for in the next relationship. I will be a better judge of character know what kind of partner I want and how to handle things with new found knowledge and wisdom.
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
Im guessing only.... It wasn`t much of a heartbreak
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In response to: I'm sure many of you have suffered a broken heart at least once in your life. I have many times and it is painful it is true. But the aftermath has brought me more insight in the subject of love. It may be a bummer when it happens, but after the tears, my mind is clear and I know what to watch for in the next relationship. I will be a better judge of character know what kind of partner I want and how to handle things with new found knowledge and wisdom.
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
Maybe, but it's not a good idea to use an old relationship as a tool to prejudge or evaluate a new one, although you can be cautious as not to repeat your own old mistakes, no two relationships are exactly alike and there will always be unforseen varibles.
Damn, I gotta quit watching Dr. Phil
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Boban1: Im guessing only.... It wasn`t much of a heartbreak
Boban Boban Boban
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thedove: I'm sure many of you have suffered a broken heart at least once in your life. I have many times and it is painful it is true. But the aftermath has brought me more insight in the subject of love. It may be a bummer when it happens, but after the tears, my mind is clear and I know what to watch for in the next relationship. I will be a better judge of character know what kind of partner I want and how to handle things with new found knowledge and wisdom.
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK; HEARTBREAK CAN BE A GOOD THING RIGHT?
Heartbreak can be a positive thing if you learn about yourself in the aftermath just dont make the mistake of thinking that it is always broken or that another can fix it as only you can do that.And yes be very clear about what it is you want and are willing to contribute to your next relationship.
I hope your new found knowledge and wisdom guide you well.
And may I suggest that you start each day with a positive affirmation.
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CherryBlossom73: Boban Boban Boban
Sounds like the beginning of a song I heard before....
Boban Boban Boban Banana Pana Poe Pan
Fe Fi Mo Man............... Bobaaan
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Desertguy49: Maybe, but it's not a good idea to use an old relationship as a tool to prejudge or evaluate a new one, although you can be cautious as not to repeat your own old mistakes, no two relationships are exactly alike and there will always be unforseen varibles.
Damn, I gotta quit watching Dr. Phil
Damn, I gotta quit watching Dr. Phil
Thats very good advice and I agree.
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CherryBlossom73: Boban Boban Boban
what...what...what...
my point was....every time ,someone breaks our heart ,a part of us dies .... at least,thats how I feel
It ain`t so easy to heal it with a new relationship
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annie_nsw: Thats very good advice and I agree.
Thanks annie, actually I don't watch much Dr. Phil
I'm speaking from my own experiences
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annie_nsw: Thats even better and very honest of you to say so
You can't be totally serious all the time, especially on here, ya
gotta throw some tongue in cheek in there once in a while
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Yes, I guess it has to be..I will learn to find someone who is a good communicator, if you can talk, that's half the battle..I think people don't talk when they have issues are lost right then. I haven't reached my aftermath yet, but it'll come...
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Boban1: what...what...what...my point was....every time ,someone breaks our heart ,a part of us dies .... at least,thats how I feel
It ain`t so easy to heal it with a new relationship
It ain`t so easy to heal it with a new relationship
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laura139: Yes, I guess it has to be..I will learn to find someone who is a good communicator, if you can talk, that's half the battle..I think people don't talk when they have issues are lost right then. I haven't reached my aftermath yet, but it'll come...
You hit the nail on the head, communication is the essential ingredient, the rest falls into place much easier then.
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Boban1: what...what...what...my point was....every time ,someone breaks our heart ,a part of us dies .... at least,thats how I feel
It ain`t so easy to heal it with a new relationship
It ain`t so easy to heal it with a new relationship
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I don't think it is a good thing to be hurt, as I feel someone looses confidence.
We are only human and a human being can only get hurt so much, before you break.
Some people are more sensitive then others as well, and not as strong to hold up against heartache.
I know of a young woman who developed mental illness when left by her partner with 2 kids.
She later suicided.
We are only human and a human being can only get hurt so much, before you break.
Some people are more sensitive then others as well, and not as strong to hold up against heartache.
I know of a young woman who developed mental illness when left by her partner with 2 kids.
She later suicided.
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cazalet: I don't think it is a good thing to be hurt, as I feel someone looses confidence.
We are only human and a human being can only get hurt so much, before you break.
Some people are more sensitive then others as well, and not as strong to hold up against heartache.
I know of a young woman who developed mental illness when left by her partner with 2 kids.
She later suicided.
We are only human and a human being can only get hurt so much, before you break.
Some people are more sensitive then others as well, and not as strong to hold up against heartache.
I know of a young woman who developed mental illness when left by her partner with 2 kids.
She later suicided.
Oh, that's so sad...her poor kids too...oh my heart goes out to all the lonely people left behind, feeling lost and worthless, just for the record, none of us are worthless....alot of us are
just diamonds in the rough...
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