hey guys, well im just wondering what others might think on the situation, cause im sitting here kinda frustrated.. as usual! ok, i met a girl from a dating site, not this one... (but you still rock!), but anyways, i picked her up in my car, we went to the seaside, had a bit of a walk and just sat down and chatted, it got cold so i suggested we go get a drink in the pub. so we spent the rest of the night there watchin a band and chatting more, she told me some very personal things about her chidhood experiences, showed me all her tattoo sketches.. she was in total an awesome chick! so i drove her home, and we hugged goodbye but she made the first move for a kiss. all was great! i went home happy as larry and couldnt wait to speak to her again the next day..
and this is where i feel frustrated, sent her a text the following day and got a very brief text back. the next day i decided to not annoy her by bugging with a text. she never decided to send me one either.. the day after, today!! i sent a text, she briefly replied. and we have both been on msn the last 3 hours, but he hasnt sent anything... so whats up with that??
K..will be the first to say it..I think she may not be interested. At first glance I thought perhaps playing hard to get..but..sorry love..think she may be too aloof.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
she might not be that into you,was just being polite giving you a good night kiss,only the lady in question can tell you how she really feels,just ask her,instead of wondering about it
it was different than your peck on the cheek kind of kiss.. she put her hands in my face, and pulled my lips to hers. and nobody was drunk or stoned or anything. i dont want to have to ask her becuase iv heard before that i wear my heart on my sleeve too much, and have no confidence.. that appareantly has been my downfall all these years?! i know the worse she could say is no.. but, theres only so many no's i can hear in one day!
I did ask her if everything was ok. I asked her what was wrong, but never got another reply. I still get emails from her, but those are just more like funny ones that she mass emails out to everyone on her buddy list. Oh well as I always say, I was her loss. She missed out on a great guy.
Tamarory: it was different than your peck on the cheek kind of kiss.. she put her hands in my face, and pulled my lips to hers. and nobody was drunk or stoned or anything. i dont want to have to ask her becuase iv heard before that i wear my heart on my sleeve too much, and have no confidence.. that appareantly has been my downfall all these years?! i know the worse she could say is no.. but, theres only so many no's i can hear in one day!
She was test driving you ( at the risk of revealing chick secrets)
she kissed you that way but maybe she told herself before she went out with you that she wanted to stay single for awhile and is now freaked out that she likes you or that she kissed you like that and you may want to hurry to bed now
i am a girl
believe me it could be a dozen things that have to do with her trying to take care of herself AND that she likes you!!!
but we do not know!!! we are creative people, we can imagine tons of stuff and when we have our own pain inside every scenario we imagine is always about how we are not good enuf. dont let your head get the better of you man, take care of you, handle the business side of things keep it simple- call or IM "hey i had a nice time how about another outing with me?"
yes thats right put her on the spot- you will be helping her because she is in a quandry as well, so step up and give you both a break- get it handled.
Tamarory: it was different than your peck on the cheek kind of kiss.. she put her hands in my face, and pulled my lips to hers. and nobody was drunk or stoned or anything. i dont want to have to ask her becuase iv heard before that i wear my heart on my sleeve too much, and have no confidence.. that appareantly has been my downfall all these years?! i know the worse she could say is no.. but, theres only so many no's i can hear in one day!
Well, you need to decide what's best for yourself-play games so that you won't get hurt or talk openly and clear the air. Me personally I love men that wear their hearts on their sleeves
As a poster above said, ask her out again and see how it goes. Some women like to be courted and pursued and like to see the man putting effort into it. Who knows?
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
lostx2: I did ask her if everything was ok. I asked her what was wrong, but never got another reply. I still get emails from her, but those are just more like funny ones that she mass emails out to everyone on her buddy list. Oh well as I always say, I was her loss. She missed out on a great guy.
well, i've never had that experience before, tbh. i usually tell a man straight away that it's not working for me. although i'm having problems with one stalker of late.won't take no for an answer. but that should be in another thread altogether. sorry rory
she kissed you that way but maybe she told herself before she went out with you that she wanted to stay single for awhile and is now freaked out that she likes you or that she kissed you like that and you may want to hurry to bed now
i am a girl
believe me it could be a dozen things that have to do with her trying to take care of herself AND that she likes you!!!but we do not know!!! we are creative people, we can imagine tons of stuff and when we have our own pain inside every scenario we imagine is always about how we are not good enuf. dont let your head get the better of you man, take care of you, handle the business side of things keep it simple- call or IM "hey i had a nice time how about another outing with me?"
yes thats right put her on the spot- you will be helping her because she is in a quandry as well, so step up and give you both a break- get it handled.
so awesome to see you
hey mind, been a while!! :) good to see you too!
em, well, that night we saw a poser for another band thats playing this weekend, and we said we were gonna meet up again and see it.. but i cant go if we barely spoke a word in over a week?!!
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ok, i met a girl from a dating site, not this one... (but you still rock!), but anyways, i picked her up in my car, we went to the seaside, had a bit of a walk and just sat down and chatted, it got cold so i suggested we go get a drink in the pub. so we spent the rest of the night there watchin a band and chatting more, she told me some very personal things about her chidhood experiences, showed me all her tattoo sketches.. she was in total an awesome chick!
so i drove her home, and we hugged goodbye but she made the first move for a kiss. all was great! i went home happy as larry and couldnt wait to speak to her again the next day..
and this is where i feel frustrated, sent her a text the following day and got a very brief text back. the next day i decided to not annoy her by bugging with a text. she never decided to send me one either.. the day after, today!! i sent a text, she briefly replied. and we have both been on msn the last 3 hours, but he hasnt sent anything... so whats up with that??