Does your level of education affects your relationship? (22)

Jun 11, 2010 6:54 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
Do you feel that your level of education has hinder you from prospectives dates? For example, some people may feel that their educational standards are below that of the other person, thus getting in the way of constructive arguments.
Jun 12, 2010 12:48 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
Brew01
Brew01Brew01Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan Canada58 Threads 1,613 Posts
mychelle: Do you feel that your level of education has hinder you from prospectives dates? For example, some people may feel that their educational standards are below that of the other person, thus getting in the way of constructive arguments.


It depends.. are we talking about beyond the levels of 1 potatoe, 2 potatoe ?
Jun 12, 2010 1:51 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
mychelle: Do you feel that your level of education has hinder you from prospectives dates? For example, some people may feel that their educational standards are below that of the other person, thus getting in the way of constructive arguments.




Why would anyone wish to date someone...anyone, just to argue, be it 'constructive' or not?????????????????? Bizarre question...
Jun 12, 2010 6:28 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
mychelle: Do you feel that your level of education has hinder you from prospectives dates? For example, some people may feel that their educational standards are below that of the other person, thus getting in the way of constructive arguments.



This can work both ways and I’m sure it does affect more than one but I think education should never hinder you from prospective dates. No matter what you discuss if you don't know the subject don’t make a fool of yourself by trying to look like someone who does and there’s nothing wrong with saying you’re not too familiar or not familiar at all with the subject; just listen and you'll learn about it.
Jun 12, 2010 11:38 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
easer to make a buck if yer edumicated, if yer dum like me but highly skilled ,you can always get a job if there is one to be had becose you can do da job ,.if yer a whole lot smarter than me ,and an academic you will please not to burn my burger an hold the pickle an i want fries with that. when yer close to me and you wrinkle yer nose ,,,that smell is oil and sweat ,its a very good immitation of the smell of money professor
gordy the oldsillyfosifer
Jun 12, 2010 4:54 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
murny
murnymurnycranbrook, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 159 Posts
gordy - love your sense of humour
head banger


I have only a grade twelve education,and I don't think it matters at all. What matters is if two people are intellectually compatible.
Personally, I like to discuss many different subjects, and would really like it if my partner could stimulate me intellectually. Actually, that is pretty important in keeping me interested. I have interacted with numerous people holding one degree or another and was a little bored. On the other hand, I have had a blast with people who are open-minded and still learning, some with degrees, some without.

That is only one aspect of a relationship of course, especially a romantic one...

People who think that a degree in one area automatically makes them smarter all around than a person who has no degree at all are wrong, in my opinion. What matters is if a person is well-read, open-minded and aware.
Jun 12, 2010 10:29 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
i am definatley not over educated .i got a clear gr 8 in 64 and a lot of reading and some industrial training ,,i got a g r d cause i had to work for the gooberment equal to gr 10 ,but you kno my family has never suffered cause i couldnt or wouldnt work.i did draw s a two times when things were real bad but only for a cpl months.it takes a good mind/brain that can lose me in conversation an not for long either.a friend has a grade three and he has been a millionair three times and still is.i do like being funny and that has done me wellprofessor
Jun 13, 2010 4:13 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
mychelle: Do you feel that your level of education has hinder you from prospective dates? For example, some people may feel that their educational standards are below that of the other person, thus getting in the way of constructive arguments.
yes ... you don't have to have the same education, but intellectually you should be comfortable with each other. Does not mean you have to have share the same interests.

I love to read books, been to college, and don't share the exact type of music Brian likes. He loves sports, did not do the college thing, nor does he share the same interest in books. His taste in foods are not always the same. We share a common back ground, goals, and family values.

JMO if I was with someone that was a brainiac I might not feel comfortable with them, Example: a person with PHD's up the yin yang,... but on the other hand, I might also be bored with someone who had a very low IQ ( not due to a disability) or simpler way of thinking. Keeping my brain stimulated is important so the person I am with has to be able to keep my interested with the types of conversations we have. Not sure I explained it very well.
Jun 15, 2010 10:28 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
eyesthatknowwhy
eyesthatknowwhyeyesthatknowwhyWhitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada88 Threads 1,405 Posts
I agree with alot of what you said Kim..so no need to be a "repeat pete".
I do believe that it is not so much "education, especially formal education: that defines someone's store of knowledge. I have university, Glen does not; but there are many things that he knows that I don't. Some of the knowledge we share we gained in different "schools" and perhaps I know the formal terminology to a higher degree, but it's really all the same.
We learn from each other, we compliment each other, where one lacks the other tends to compensate...
I think that this harmony is what makes all of life's relationships enduring and fulfilling. Those who are too much alike will combust; those too different will grow apart. Those who seek out people to intellectually dominate and belittle, will probably grow old lonely (or should)
Like most of life it's a balancing act....
...not sure of I explained it very well either...
Jul 4, 2010 5:55 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
deesigner
deesignerdeesignerwhitby, Ontario Canada4 Threads 61 Posts
I say absolutely NO... my previous b/f (who became ill)...did not finished high school, I have a degree... He was self taught had a very high IQ everything he learned from politics to science and in btwn was not only from reading books but using the net for knowledge also. He would build or create (where applicable) along the way all that interested him, and that was many subjects. etc

ok moral of this story is; I don't make any judgment calls till i have spoken to the man I may date, or read some chats.
Jul 4, 2010 6:07 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
itsallme112
itsallme112itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada78 Threads 11 Polls 441 Posts
some people feel insecure if they know you have more education than they do.
Jul 4, 2010 9:40 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Knowledge is aquired, Intelligence is something you are born with. wine
Jul 5, 2010 2:48 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
muchachito
muchachitomuchachitoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada10 Threads 165 Posts
venusenvy: Knowledge is aquired, Intelligence is something you are born with.


Knowledge"
A man's judgment cannot be better than the information on which he has based it.

Intelligence"
the capacity for understanding and the ability to perceive and comprehend meaning
a. The capacity to acquire and apply knowledge.
b. The faculty of thought and reason.
c. Superior powers of mind
Jul 13, 2010 12:49 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
JaneStar
JaneStarJaneStarToronto, Ontario Canada1 Threads 32 Posts
muchachito: Knowledge"
A man's judgment cannot be better than the information on which he has based it.

Intelligence"
the capacity for understanding and the ability to perceive and comprehend meaning
a. The capacity to acquire and apply knowledge.
b. The faculty of thought and reason.
c. Superior powers of mind

------------------------- * ------------------------------
Sorry, venusenvy, but I'd have to agree with muchachito:
we're all born naked and screeming, without a shred of knowledge or intelligence, with only biological instincts, i.e. breath, eat, drink, and expell waste. (and all of that can hardly be called "intelligence"!) scold
As we mature and acquire awareness of the surrounding world, our brains get flooded with knowledge -- still no intelligence!
Only by the end of high school, some of us may develope basic intellectual capabilities. Therefore, intelligence tends to stem from knowledge -- the more knowledge one has, the more capacity for being intelligent one has, i.e. the more capable one is perceiving and comprehending the meaning of the surrounding world! And that, in turn, results in one's ability of affecting the latter (i.e. the surrounding world) to her/his advantage. (cuz knowledge without intelligence is just a dead weight!)
Another way of putting it:
a girl might possess all the knowledge of how to catch a man, but without the intelligent application of that knowledge, she might end up an old and lonely mate!!! (unless she meets a knowledgeable man who also lacks intelligence). Though, some men tend to disregard the girl's lack of intelligence, if she's pretty enough!!!
Jul 13, 2010 1:23 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
JaneStar
JaneStarJaneStarToronto, Ontario Canada1 Threads 32 Posts
Christmas1: In his conversation he said "i.e."
Well, right you are, dear: your Ph.D friend IS a real idiot because "i.e." isn't a part of the spoken language, but a grammatical short-hand, for Pete's sake! doh He shold've known that! And even if you didn't, he should've been less condescending! frustrated
Jul 13, 2010 5:42 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
DottieDoodles
DottieDoodlesDottieDoodlesToronto, Ontario Canada9 Posts
murny: gordy - love your sense of humour
I have only a grade twelve education,and I don't think it matters at all. What matters is if two people are intellectually compatible.
Personally, I like to discuss many different subjects, and would really like it if my partner could stimulate me intellectually. Actually, that is pretty important in keeping me interested. I have interacted with numerous people holding one degree or another and was a little bored. On the other hand, I have had a blast with people who are open-minded and still learning, some with degrees, some without.

That is only one aspect of a relationship of course, especially a romantic one...

People who think that a degree in one area automatically makes them smarter all around than a person who has no degree at all are wrong, in my opinion. What matters is if a person is well-read, open-minded and aware.


Was going to write a reply then saw this one pretty much imitating exactly what I would have written , so am just saying "YAY" to this one instead!!! Couldn't agree more! Very well put! :)

A formal education isn't necessarily a mark of intelligence, much less of being remotely interesting, any more than a lack of one necessarily produces a boring simpleton! I have met many people who could have easily sailed through a degree, but who simply didn't get the opportunity to do so for instance, and yet then of course went on become richly "educated" and thoroughly fascinating in my opinion, by virtue of a personal desire to furnish an inquiring mind by whatever means at their disposal - be it traveling, reading, life experiences etc.

In short. A "Formal" education is just that, and there are a plethora of other means with which we can educate our minds.
Jul 19, 2010 10:25 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
gemery
gemerygemeryWilliams Lake, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 509 Posts
I agree dottiedoodles. (Love that handle by the way.)laugh

geo
Jan 29, 2011 8:05 AM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
zianeammar
zianeammarzianeammarFredrikstad, Ostfold Norway4 Threads 48 Posts
YES THERE IS A BIG PROBLEM AND IF SOME 1 SAY NO HE/SHE LEI .
Jan 29, 2011 2:40 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
bdrmeyes
bdrmeyesbdrmeyesHalifax, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 44 Posts
muchachito: Knowledge"
A man's judgment cannot be better than the information on which he has based it.

Intelligence"
the capacity for understanding and the ability to perceive and comprehend meaning
a. The capacity to acquire and apply knowledge.
b. The faculty of thought and reason.
c. Superior powers of mind



Agree thumbs up
Jan 30, 2011 2:16 PM CST Does your level of education affects your relationship?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
KHD100: A person can have all the education in the world... but it does not make them any smarter than anyone else.
Bingo! I have a grade school education of grade 9, wrote G.E.D. for grade 12 without knowing there was a book to study and went on to Business College and took it from there.

I have an IQ of between 132 and 136 and I am as dumb as a stump sometimes (I believe eveyone), however, at the other end of the spectrum--I commented to a boyfriend one morning that he seemed to be quite jovial and he got pissed off and told me that anyone could make up a word like that.dunno

He made one uprolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing and called it 'coldervil' and said it could mean anything.laugh

BRW, I love Gordy's sense of humor also.thumbs up peace
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