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Sep 3, 2006 8:46 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
I have strong feelings for someone i met on here. We have talked on the phone several times and chatted on here. He seems a really nice guy, but im wondering is it too early to feel all loved up so early?
When do you know that something special is about to happen?
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Sep 3, 2006 8:47 PM CST help me
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
You just know, it's a gut feeling you won't be able to shake. Go with the gut, follow your heart, and above all else.. rationalize using previous experiences with your built-in common sense. The rest will work itself out in time.
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Sep 3, 2006 8:48 PM CST help me
go with the flow. just like the proffesor said too.
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Sep 3, 2006 8:51 PM CST help me
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
Walk softly but carry a big stick!
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Sep 3, 2006 8:51 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
yeah but in the past i always went with my gut feeling and ended up in bad relationships. He is nothing like my previous partners. He is more sensitive and caring and most of all makes me laugh. Maybe im scared of being hurt again.
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Sep 3, 2006 8:53 PM CST help me
28will
28will28willspringfield, Missouri USA11 Threads 403 Posts
everybody is scared of being hurt. you just have to keep your gaurd up. But don't make your gaurd a ten foot wall eitherprofessor good luckcheers
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Sep 3, 2006 8:55 PM CST help me
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Holding anything in your past against him won't help either of you any if you feel that there's any chance he could be the one. Let the past go, and take it on an individual basis but don't let anything cloud your judgement. If you see a red flag, don't overlook it.
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Sep 3, 2006 8:55 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
yeah maybe i should. how about a 5 foot wall?sigh
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Sep 3, 2006 8:55 PM CST help me
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
Ok, coming from someone who has had MANY bad relationships and the battle scars to prove it...just be careful. You may think that you have these feelings of love and you very well may. It can also be our desire as women to WANT to feel that love. Not saying you are desperate. I'm saying you have a wonderful heart. Nothing says you can't meet, date, and build a relationship. If he makes you have butterflies in your stomach...he's worth getting to know. Don't give up on him, just be careful. Guard your heart as if it were your soul. They are closely connected. One without the other, is useless.
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Sep 3, 2006 8:57 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
THANK YOU
You are very wise..........
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Sep 3, 2006 8:58 PM CST help me
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Quite welcome, and thank you for the compliment :)
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Sep 3, 2006 8:59 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
you just hit the spot..... yeah its like butterflies
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Sep 3, 2006 9:05 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
i do agree with you 100%. I suppose because i was in a violent marriage for 4 years im afraid to go through it all again. I suppose its about re-educating myself.
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Sep 3, 2006 9:07 PM CST help me
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Just take it one day at a time. Take the time to get to know one another more and more. Starting off as good close friends is always a great start to any relationship.

Also be careful and try not to get too involved with your feelings right now. Although I do have a feeling it is too late already. I just don't want you to get set up for a disappointment. Keep yourself busy and try not to focus everything on this one guy. Just keep on with your everyday life and let things happen on their own.

The best of luck to you!
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Sep 3, 2006 9:10 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
oh yeah i do. i dont think about him like 24/7. Wow if i did i wouldnt get any study donelaugh

And i dont sit by the phone like a love struck teenager lol
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Sep 3, 2006 9:10 PM CST help me
28will
28will28willspringfield, Missouri USA11 Threads 403 Posts
only if the wall is flexiblehug
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Sep 3, 2006 9:11 PM CST help me
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
I agree wholeheartedly with you. Just be careful but remember nothing good in life comes without taking a chance. Nothing.
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Sep 3, 2006 9:11 PM CST help me
meiowcats
meiowcatsmeiowcatskent, Kent, England UK15 Threads 323 Posts
yeah rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 4, 2006 7:15 AM CST help me
katjor813
katjor813katjor813Valrico, Florida USA3 Threads 141 Posts
I think you just know. Yes we have all made mistakes with feelings, but when that special someone comes along you just know. It might be too early to take the next step (meeting) but those feelings swirl around you both and phone conversations and emails become extra special. You just have to let the relationship flow naturally and if it is ment to be things will happen in positive ways.
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Sep 4, 2006 7:18 AM CST help me
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
You only live once....So just go for it!

What will be...will be.grin
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