?? mostly for girls; E-Mail Protocol or "should I give up?" (30)
TheDoktorreading, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 26 PostsHere it is- If I am exchanging E-mails with someone I like and who seems to like me, and then they stop returning the messages, Should I give up? Should I ask why? I usually send 1 or 2 "how have you been" messages over 3 -4 days and if they don't respond I quit, any suggestions?
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Not alot you can do about it. If I really like someone then I will return their messages within a reasonable time line. If I take 3-4 days..then I'm just not that interested. Keep trying and one may stick. 
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I don't know if you and she were carrying on more interesting conversation at some point. You say she seemed to like you. 
If someone has been interesting to talk to but not pushy, I'll generally keep talking to him.
But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
If someone has been interesting to talk to but not pushy, I'll generally keep talking to him. But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
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come on...get real here, if somone is interested they wait for ur messages and reply straight away...no game playing needed!
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opentuit: I don't know if you and she were carrying on more interesting conversation at some point. You say she seemed to like you. If someone has been interesting to talk to but not pushy, I'll generally keep talking to him.
But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
hey how are you???????
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solsticemoon: hey how are you???????
all's well.
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No these are usually good conversations with good rapport. I can usually tell when they're not going anywhere
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Even my How are you messages usually include something like "how was your weekend" or "how do you feel about capital punishment" or "do you like puppies"?
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TheDoktor: Even my How are you messages usually include something like "how was your weekend" or "how do you feel about capital punishment" or "do you like puppies"?
well hun guess if youve covered the basics...........shes just not that into you!
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opentuit: I don't know if you and she were carrying on more interesting conversation at some point. You say she seemed to like you. If someone has been interesting to talk to but not pushy, I'll generally keep talking to him.
But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
What's up?But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
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TheDoktor: Here it is- If I am exchanging E-mails with someone I like and who seems to like me, and then they stop returning the messages, Should I give up? Should I ask why? I usually send 1 or 2 "how have you been" messages over 3 -4 days and if they don't respond I quit, any suggestions?
Happens a lot, friend. Keep moving on and don't give it another thought, as long as you're sure you didn't say anything wrong. Many people find chatting over Y! or MSN tedious and one already has to have a high interest factor on you to keep chatting where they left off the day or few days before.
Not the first one and certainy not the last one I'm sure
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You feel the vibes in the first emails,if she realy wants to know you better,her emails will be arriving, more or less, within 24 hours.
TheDoktor: Here it is- If I am exchanging E-mails with someone I like and who seems to like me, and then they stop returning the messages, Should I give up? Should I ask why? I usually send 1 or 2 "how have you been" messages over 3 -4 days and if they don't respond I quit, any suggestions?
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Do they understand with this sort of answers, that you are not interested?.-
opentuit: I don't know if you and she were carrying on more interesting conversation at some point. You say she seemed to like you. If someone has been interesting to talk to but not pushy, I'll generally keep talking to him.
But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
But without a good rapport already established, I generally reply to tedious questions with about as much effort as the question demonstrates:
What's up? --->>>> not much
How are you? --->>> OK
Hey --->>> hey
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bob1959: What's up?
nothing
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solsticemoon: come on...get real here, if somone is interested they wait for ur messages and reply straight away...no game playing needed!
EXACTLY! DITTO THAT!
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snowbunnie4U: EXACTLY! DITTO THAT!
That is usually how it goes.
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Exchanging too many emails is getting boring, for some, after a while, you have tried talking on the phone?.-
TheDoktor: No these are usually good conversations with good rapport. I can usually tell when they're not going anywhere
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TheDoktor: this is usually how it goes, 4-5 back and forth the first day then... nothin'
bloody hell mate ur 49!!..have u learnt nothjin in the past 30 years!??
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