tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Ladies what do you do if a relationship with a man you love comes to an end. If the guy ends it what do you do? Do you call up a couple supportive girlfriends for comfort, try to find another relationship as soon as possible to try and forget the one you've lost, turn to a comforting tub of ice-cream? How do you cope during this difficult time?
tainogirl: Ladies what do you do if a relationship with a man you love comes to an end. If the guy ends it what do you do? Do you call up a couple supportive girlfriends for comfort, try to find another relationship as soon as possible to try and forget the one you've lost, turn to a comforting tub of ice-cream? How do you cope during this difficult time?
tainogirl: Strange - usually its the men who don't like to spill their guts.
...my reaction would be more like how you might expect a guy to react... which may also be why I hesitate to "spill" on the subject...
I would detach emotionally... go to the gym more... laugh a lot... talk to people absolutely everywhere (but never about the hurt)... seek out parties, event-tickets.
When some time has passed and I am able, I would let myself feel again... then I do a lot of writing and start to actually move through it and past it.
Hmmm..first..cry..then get angry..then go out with the girls and get drunk..then sleep with random guy..then flirt with many men to boost self-esteem..then talk to gfs who remind me how fabulous I am..then realize.....IT'S HIS LOSS!!!
tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
I'm trying to remember a relationship that I cried over and pretty much coming up blank. It all depends on the person and HOW things ended. Mostly I just like to get on with life -not that I don't think about it but that's just my way, sometimes I find it might take me a year or two after to really sit and analyze all that went down. Of course a little gabfest with my girlfriends about it never hurt.
cry a bit..lose a bit of weight(from the crying)...then go out and dance the night away wi the next hot guy on ur list and rub it up that dumba**'s oversized nose
DarkAngel_4Lifegoldsboro, North Carolina USA154 posts
cry, lose weight, gain weight, start the healing process, have funeral for dead relationship, burn my mourning curtains, begin a new weight loss program, and start a new chapter...
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