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Jun 29, 2010 6:04 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Ladies what do you do if a relationship with a man you love comes to an end. If the guy ends it what do you do? Do you call up a couple supportive girlfriends for comfort, try to find another relationship as soon as possible to try and forget the one you've lost, turn to a comforting tub of ice-cream? How do you cope during this difficult time?
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Jun 29, 2010 6:05 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
tainogirl: Ladies what do you do if a relationship with a man you love comes to an end. If the guy ends it what do you do? Do you call up a couple supportive girlfriends for comfort, try to find another relationship as soon as possible to try and forget the one you've lost, turn to a comforting tub of ice-cream? How do you cope during this difficult time?


now what do guys do is another question beer
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Jun 29, 2010 6:07 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
lushguy4you: now what do guys do is another question


Taino being the smart lady is put up a thread for the men.wink
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Jun 29, 2010 6:15 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
umm, seems quiet over here. You must mean AFTER they punch me in the head!
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Jun 29, 2010 6:21 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Get pissed!
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Jun 29, 2010 6:21 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
bob1959: umm, seems quiet over here. You must mean AFTER they punch me in the head!


Strange - usually its the men who don't like to spill their guts.popcorn
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Jun 29, 2010 6:25 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Veritaas: Get pissed!
That's what I'm talking about, Have we met?
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Jun 29, 2010 6:33 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
tainogirl: Strange - usually its the men who don't like to spill their guts.


...my reaction would be more like how you might expect a guy to react... which may also be why I hesitate to "spill" on the subject...dunno

I would detach emotionally... go to the gym more... laugh a lot... talk to people absolutely everywhere (but never about the hurt)... seek out parties, event-tickets.

When some time has passed and I am able, I would let myself feel again... then I do a lot of writing and start to actually move through it and past it.
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Jun 29, 2010 6:36 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
bob1959: That's what I'm talking about, Have we met?


Pissed as in getting rat faced drunk!wink
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Jun 29, 2010 6:40 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
Veritaas: Pissed as in getting rat faced drunk!


that can't be a pretty sight. laugh cheers
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Jun 29, 2010 6:40 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Probley cry and sleep and eat for a couple days then get off my butte and start to live againhug wave
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Jun 29, 2010 6:40 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Veritaas: Pissed as in getting rat faced drunk!
oh, See, I told you I don't speak English!
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Jun 29, 2010 6:43 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
Hmmm..first..cry..then get angry..then go out with the girls and get drunk..then sleep with random guy..then flirt with many men to boost self-esteem..then talk to gfs who remind me how fabulous I am..then realize.....IT'S HIS LOSS!!! applause grin
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Jun 29, 2010 6:44 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
I'm trying to remember a relationship that I cried over and pretty much coming up blank. It all depends on the person and HOW things ended. Mostly I just like to get on with life -not that I don't think about it but that's just my way, sometimes I find it might take me a year or two after to really sit and analyze all that went down. Of course a little gabfest with my girlfriends about it never hurt.wine
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Jun 29, 2010 6:51 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
cry a bit..lose a bit of weight(from the crying)...then go out and dance the night away wi the next hot guy on ur list and rub it up that dumba**'s oversized nose rolling on the floor laughing applause tongue devil grin
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Jun 29, 2010 9:12 PM CST The breakup(the woman's side)
DarkAngel_4Life
DarkAngel_4LifeDarkAngel_4Lifegoldsboro, North Carolina USA3 Threads 1 Polls 154 Posts
cry, lose weight, gain weight, start the healing process, have funeral for dead relationship, burn my mourning curtains, begin a new weight loss program, and start a new chapter...cheering
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