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Jun 30, 2010 10:10 PM CST photos
whitetiger77
whitetiger77whitetiger77dubois, Idaho USA3 Threads 36 Posts
well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?confused
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Jun 30, 2010 10:17 PM CST photos
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
I like to see who i am talking to,if i am just looking for a friend a photo wouldn't matter.But im looking for the man i plan to spend the rest of my life with.You need chemistry,attraction,same values,like to do the same things,you can learn some of this by a profile,but with out a photo how will you no if you are attracted to him,if that spark is there,but it boils down to meeting in person before you know if its there,but a photo helps.wave my opinionhandshake
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Jun 30, 2010 10:34 PM CST photos
whitetiger77
whitetiger77whitetiger77dubois, Idaho USA3 Threads 36 Posts
demonfairy: I like to see who i am talking to,if i am just looking for a friend a photo wouldn't matter.But im looking for the man i plan to spend the rest of my life with.You need chemistry,attraction,same values,like to do the same things,you can learn some of this by a profile,but with out a photo how will you no if you are attracted to him,if that spark is there,but it boils down to meeting in person before you know if its there,but a photo helps. my opinion


like I have said if you like the profile then he could send pics over the e-mail. myself I like to read about the person then try to contact them if they respond and seem interested I will send a few pics with my next letter. I don't just look at the photos and pic and choose who I like the look of. thats me though. thanks for the advice.
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Jun 30, 2010 10:44 PM CST photos
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
whitetiger77: like I have said if you like the profile then he could send pics over the e-mail. myself I like to read about the person then try to contact them if they respond and seem interested I will send a few pics with my next letter. I don't just look at the photos and pic and choose who I like the look of. thats me though. thanks for the advice.
That makes sense,but alot of people on here will not give there e-mail address out till they have talked a while,because of the scammers here...Good luck sweet,you seem like a great guy,hope you fine the one hug wine
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Jun 30, 2010 10:47 PM CST photos
femjkw
femjkwfemjkwCedar Hills, Utah USA5 Threads 561 Posts
whitetiger77: well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?



That's totally how I feel. thumbs up
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Jun 30, 2010 11:53 PM CST photos
To me...it's like going "window shopping"!!

You go down town, look in all the windows for something that might catch your eye.

Less people would buy anything, if they couldn't at least see if it's what they are looking for, then and only then would they look at the descriptions of the said item (or person) to see if it would meet their requirements!

It's part of the "selling yourself" process. That's life.

JMO
TMF




cheers
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Jul 1, 2010 1:03 AM CST photos
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
u say right, but it will depend on specific case, as sometimes talking by email, yahoo,... both profiles hv many common interests, but when seeing the man in webcam or photo, then sometimes u like to stop talking forever and regret why we talked with them for manytimes,... that why need to see the profile photo the soonest to decide the relation can go further or end here.
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Jul 1, 2010 1:50 AM CST photos
spunkey272
spunkey272spunkey272Grangeville, Idaho USA53 Posts
I've met guys that only have one photo and
when i asked for more photos and a webcam
as i believe if they want to see me on cam
then its only fair i see them also and its a
good way to bond and laugh ect. So a photo on
a profile isnt alwasy the real one unless you
see them on cam.confused
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Jul 1, 2010 1:58 AM CST photos
cgedvr
cgedvrcgedvrSo. Cal, California USA40 Threads 2,088 Posts
whitetiger77: well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?
Photo gives a fairly good idea but.....until we meet....don't mean dootaly squatgrin
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Jul 1, 2010 2:33 AM CST photos
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
whitetiger77: well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?


It's the same feeling, when you talk to someone and he turns his back on you.!!!
Or when you are talking to someone, and he/she is not looking you in the eyes.!!!
Generaly, I believe that people who don't put photos in their profile, have no confidence about themselfs, or because they try to hide something.

Sorry my Non-faced friends.
No intention to insult you.
Just posted my opinion.!!!

wine handshake
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Jul 1, 2010 2:51 AM CST photos
marymakki
marymakkimarymakkiBettystown.Co.Meath, Meath Ireland40 Posts
whitetiger77: well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?


So I go clothes shopping and in the clothes shop window....no clothes..mmmmhead banger
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Jul 1, 2010 3:15 AM CST photos
ridinsoloOMG
ridinsoloOMGridinsoloOMGGeelong, Victoria Australia3 Threads 56 Posts
marymakki: So I go clothes shopping and in the clothes shop window....no clothes..mmmm


OK, so your hire a movie with no cover...it's like a blank plastic case - how u gonna know what kind of film your gettin'? confused
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Jul 1, 2010 5:02 AM CST photos
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
ridinsoloOMG: OK, so your hire a movie with no cover...it's like a blank plastic case - how u gonna know what kind of film your gettin'?


Because they know what they want to watch before hiring it...they have seen excerpts or read reviews or whatever.
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Jul 1, 2010 5:04 AM CST photos
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
whitetiger77: well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?


Because humans are visual creatures.
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Jul 1, 2010 5:16 AM CST photos
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
whitetiger77: well, call me old fashioned but I still belive that a person should judge others by who they are not what they look like. in a recent poll mainly for women the biggest turn off is no photo in their profile. is that right? I mean if you get to know someone then that person could e-mail some photos. so why do a person have to have a photo to get any responses. what do you think?


If im looking for friends then I would never judge there looks,

but for a partner, then yes looks are important to me..I dont want to be putting a bag on their head when we make out becuase their looks repulse me, and visa versa..uh oh I would hate to be with someone and know they did not find me attractive..

I want the whole thing, looks AND personality, I would not date a good looking guy if he was as dull as dish water, or if he was not a nice person...

And the problem when you start to get chatting with a guy, and yes, say you do get on, then he emails you a photo... what do you do if you dont fancy him...Ive had this happen, and they always say...''so what do you think?'' Its difficult, do you say 'sorry mate, your not my type'

So for me, I only reply to guys with photos, well unless he said he was a Robbie look-a-like...grin
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Jul 1, 2010 5:17 AM CST photos
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Ladybee42: so you are always hungry then...? for what are hungry?.


for flesh ....grin
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Jul 1, 2010 5:20 AM CST photos
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Pictures are important. If ppl don't want to post then that is there prerogative, however I rarely respond to pictureless emails etc.
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Jul 1, 2010 5:21 AM CST photos
Ladybee42
Ladybee42Ladybee42East Liverpool, Ohio USA4 Threads 1,316 Posts
Boban1: for flesh ....


back beastie! back i say!..hole where is help when you most need it?.. laugh
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Jul 1, 2010 5:22 AM CST photos
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Ok, I guess I'm toast. popcorn

Goddess4u: Pictures are important. If ppl don't want to post then that is there prerogative, however I rarely respond to pictureless emails etc.
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Jul 1, 2010 5:22 AM CST photos
ridinsoloOMG
ridinsoloOMGridinsoloOMGGeelong, Victoria Australia3 Threads 56 Posts
Steve5721: Because they know what they want to watch before hiring it...they have seen excerpts or read reviews or whatever.


BUT if it's a blank case and nobodies told them what it is...how would they know?
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