Ralphy2407OPVeliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria142 posts
I have never hit a woman and don't intend to ever do it but my ex used to push me so far that it drove me crazy and would even ask me to hit her...she used to be hit by her ex and was obviously screwed up by it but also other women have acted the same pushing and pushing wanting a violent erruption from me and if they had been a man I would have punched them out but why do some women do this to men????:dunno
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Ralphy2407: I have never hit a woman and don't intend to ever do it but my ex used to push me so far that it drove me crazy and would even ask me to hit her...she used to be hit by her ex and was obviously screwed up by it but also other women have acted the same pushing and pushing wanting a violent erruption from me and if they had been a man I would have punched them out but why do some women do this to men????:dunno
You're not a puppet, you're suppose to be in control your actions. Best to leave the scene before doing something you'll regret.
I know this probably isnt logical thinking but, i say the only reason to hit a woman is if she acts like a man and hits him first. I think that except for that reason, men hit women to give themselves power and control over them.
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
Yep yep yep realy cant understand it ,,
Got a left and a right off one live in partner once ,, just explained that iff i didnt do it to her then she wasnt allowed to do it to me ,,she did agree ,,but she come from violent relationships ..
Ralphy2407OPVeliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria142 posts
tainogirl: You're not a puppet, you're suppose to be in control your actions. Best to leave the scene before doing something you'll regret.
Believe me I did...I would just leave the room and go walk around the garden for a while to cool off and let her stumble around till she fell over and went to sleep....such a nice relationship, lol
Ralphy2407OPVeliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria142 posts
jonnt: Yep yep yep realy cant understand it ,,
Got a left and a right off one live in partner once ,, just explained that iff i didnt do it to her then she wasnt allowed to do it to me ,,she did agree ,,but she come from violent relationships ..
know where your coming from Bro and also made same agreement but she still pushed me to breaking every time she had a little too much to drink...women!!!!!!
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
Ralphy2407: Believe me I did...I would just leave the room and go walk around the garden for a while to cool off and let her stumble around till she fell over and went to sleep....such a nice relationship, lol
Ralphy2407: I guess I just picked the crazy ones in the past and they were also very insecure so after they had a couple of glasses of wine all hell broke loose...live and learn huh?
Lie and learn is right. I've always believed the idea behind relationships is to enhance each other's lives, not ruin them.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Ralphy2407: Believe me I did...I would just leave the room and go walk around the garden for a while to cool off and let her stumble around till she fell over and went to sleep....such a nice relationship, lol
Ralphy2407OPVeliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria142 posts
spunkey272: I know this probably isnt logical thinking but, i say the only reason to hit a woman is if she acts like a man and hits him first. I think that except for that reason, men hit women to give themselves power and control over them.
Yeah, your talking about self defense so I tend to agree but even when this is the case I would find it very strange and abnormal to hit a female as it is just not in my personality
Ralphy2407: I have never hit a woman and don't intend to ever do it but my ex used to push me so far that it drove me crazy and would even ask me to hit her...she used to be hit by her ex and was obviously screwed up by it but also other women have acted the same pushing and pushing wanting a violent erruption from me and if they had been a man I would have punched them out but why do some women do this to men????:dunno
That's how one of my ex-girlfriends got rid of her hubby, yep sent him to jail. Got him drinking and she started in on him and all he did was push her aside to get past her and she played it. She jumped on to the coffee table acted like he shoved her, called police gave them some cocka-mammy story. OFF HE WENT!!
Ralphy2407OPVeliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria142 posts
Just another experience I had was when I came out of a club one night and came across a guy beating the crap out of his woman and so jumped in and pulled him off her and he took a swing at me and I hit him back and knocked him out....agfter this his 'beaten' woman jumped up and started attacking me asking what the hell I had done to her boyfriend...never again
Ralphy2407: I have never hit a woman and don't intend to ever do it but my ex used to push me so far that it drove me crazy and would even ask me to hit her...she used to be hit by her ex and was obviously screwed up by it but also other women have acted the same pushing and pushing wanting a violent erruption from me and if they had been a man I would have punched them out but why do some women do this to men????:dunno
Mmmmm I think you need to meet some different women
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