If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much...... ( Archived) (74)

Jul 6, 2010 6:12 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????

confused laugh

Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??

wine
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Jul 6, 2010 6:26 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
morgan5: Does it show ?????

Just makes me think that if people really think its down to gender, whats the point?????


I know hun.

Cant stand the "All men" "All women" thing.

Some PEOPLE lie,cheat, lead you on, say no when they mean yes or maybe lol etc....








hug
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Jul 6, 2010 6:28 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
bjk68
bjk68bjk68Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 890 Posts
bjk68: So many people carry the baggage of past relationships forward to new ones, it's scary.

Does nobody take time out anymore, Are people too afraid to spend some time alone, by choice... to reflect on the mistakes made in the past..

If more did this, less, no far less baggage would carry forward.

Have people become so defensive and untrusting, that these threads/thoughts are the norm....

There can be so much hope and positivityinpositivity in our lives if only people stopped wanting everything NOW NOW NOW, and just took a little time out
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Jul 6, 2010 6:28 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
vonney: I know hun.

Cant stand the "All men" "All women" thing.

Some PEOPLE lie,cheat, lead you on, say no when they mean yes or maybe lol etc....


I just get the feeling there's an awful lot of folk carrying baggage around in here and that they may just not be quite ready for a relationship just yet!scold
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Jul 6, 2010 6:29 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
bjk68
bjk68bjk68Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 890 Posts
vonney: I know hun.

Cant stand the "All men" "All women" thing.

Some PEOPLE lie,cheat, lead you on, say no when they mean yes or maybe lol etc....


The Always and never statements/arguements are the same too
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Jul 6, 2010 6:29 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
morgan5: Does it show ?????

Just makes me think that if people really think its down to gender, whats the point?????


I think it has nothing to do with gender at all. It has to do with angry people, and their inability to cope in social situations.

If they were able to cope and deal with a situation, then they would have no need to be on here complaining and ranting about people of the opposite gender lying, cheating, wife beating, drinking, being abusive etc.

If they have a problem then THEY have the problem, and should get it seen to, in councelling etc., before they inflict those prejudices on some unsuspecting future partner. hug

Hi Movgan and Vonney. wave
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Jul 6, 2010 6:30 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??


I'm here because I believe not all women are liars. Pretty simple really.

coffee2
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Jul 6, 2010 6:38 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
GingerBe: I think it has nothing to do with gender at all. It has to do with angry people, and their inability to cope in social situations.

If they were able to cope and deal with a situation, then they would have no need to be on here complaining and ranting about people of the opposite gender lying, cheating, wife beating, drinking, being abusive etc.

If they have a problem then THEY have the problem, and should get it seen to, in councelling etc., before they inflict those prejudices on some unsuspecting future partner.

Hi Movgan and Vonney.
Hiya Ginger wave kinda agree if people really believe this to me there are just not ready to be considering another relationship, a lesson I have had to learn myself hug bouquet
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Jul 6, 2010 6:39 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Dagosto: I'm here because I believe not all women are liars. Pretty simple really.
wave thumbs up
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Jul 6, 2010 6:40 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Godsgift: I just get the feeling there's an awful lot of folk carrying baggage around in here and that they may just not be quite ready for a relationship just yet!
laugh Great minds hug
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Jul 6, 2010 6:40 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
trust nobody..uh oh uh oh
really,its been sort of epidemic..laugh
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Jul 6, 2010 6:47 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
I try to get at least 6 hours of lieing every night ....if not I am a bit grumpy the next day....grin
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Jul 6, 2010 6:49 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
morgan5: Hiya Ginger kinda agree if people really believe this to me there are just not ready to be considering another relationship, a lesson I have had to learn myself


I dated quite a few who were no more ready than the man in the moon, to even date, never mind get in a relationship. Same goes for female friends, who don't deal with their hurt.

Fear, and not dealing with past issues, seem to paralyse them, and leave them sitting like a rabbit stunned in the headlights, for years.

The scenario usually is that they put so many restrictions and conditions on what they will allow into their lives, that they end up with no one.hug
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Jul 6, 2010 6:52 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
GingerBe: I dated quite a few who were no more ready than the man in the moon, to even date, never mind get in a relationship. Same goes for female friends, who don't deal with their hurt.

Fear, and not dealing with past issues, seem to paralyse them, and leave them sitting like a rabbit stunned in the headlights, for years.

The scenario usually is that they put so many restrictions and conditions on what they will allow into their lives, that they end up with no one.
Don't think I can add anything to that have done it, and seen it .

So easy to put the responsiblilty on others bouquet
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Jul 6, 2010 6:53 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
bjk68: So many people carry the baggage of past relationships forward to new ones, it's scary.

Does nobody take time out anymore, Are people too afraid to spend some time alone, by choice... to reflect on the mistakes made in the past..

If more did this, less, no far less baggage would carry forward.

Have people become so defensive and untrusting, that these threads/thoughts are the norm....

There can be so much hope and positivityin our lives if only people stopped wanting everything NOW NOW NOW, and just took a little time out


I had a lot of baggage, I've spent a lot of time out. I think it was the right thing to do.

Jac xxx
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Jul 6, 2010 6:59 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
GingerBe: I think it has nothing to do with gender at all. It has to do with angry people, and their inability to cope in social situations.

If they were able to cope and deal with a situation, then they would have no need to be on here complaining and ranting about people of the opposite gender lying, cheating, wife beating, drinking, being abusive etc.

If they have a problem then THEY have the problem, and should get it seen to, in councelling etc., before they inflict those prejudices on some unsuspecting future partner.

Hi Movgan and Vonney.


But you could also argue that these forums are a good place for people to explore issues and move on emotionally.

I've learned a helluva lot in the short time that I've been on CS on all sorts of levels, including stuff from you, tee hee hee.

Jac xxx
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Jul 6, 2010 7:00 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Perhaps it is a seasonal thing, in spring time the libido is on the rise, the hunt for a mate is on and manners are instinctively checked and tidied up.

Spring is now over and failure brings out the frustration and grumpiness and the insults begin to ooze again .... dunno
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Jul 6, 2010 7:01 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
estate
estateestatePERTH, Tayside, Scotland UK2 Threads 1,664 Posts
In response to: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??


I'm here in the hope that I can find, or be found, by a lovely caring woman who would like to get to know me and hopefully build a loving caring relationship!!

Not asking much........or am I?

dunno grin
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Jul 6, 2010 7:04 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
jac379: But you could also argue that these forums are a good place for people to explore issues and move on emotionally.

I've learned a helluva lot in the short time that I've been on CS on all sorts of levels, including stuff from you, tee hee hee.

Jac xxx
I agree with you to a point if sharing a personal experience, but when threads are started 'Why do men/women lie'

its hardly helpful if seriously looking for a relationship. jmo wine
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Jul 6, 2010 7:04 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??


Given the fact that we are all perfect here on CS, never lie, never cheat, never judge, never do anything remotely less than perfect and any past relationship was ALWAYS the other person's fault, then it does kind of make you wonder why there are any single people left on CS at all, really..dunno


roll eyes doh

laugh
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