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Jul 11, 2010 8:03 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
is it really possible to feel sooooooooooo comfortable with someone you just met 23 days ago... someone who has been in contact with me on and off line almost daily and who has been on half a dozen dates with approx an hour and a half travel involved each way??? Not applying any pressure for more than I'm prepared to give right now is refreshing to say the least lol...

I'm enjoying getting know this man so I ain't complaining but would just like to hear from others who have experienced this quick pace when getting to know someone... I've had men go fast pace before but it was usually done in a frantic and desperate way, which I don't feel I'm getting from this one so what's goin' on???... is this the real deal?? hahaha!! ... I'm just goin' with my gut feeling and enjoying it... it's feeling quite natural and so just pacing myself at the moment... any advise is welcome and thank you in advance for your input lol xx
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Jul 11, 2010 8:04 PM CST is this the real deal ??
Cowhand
CowhandCowhandAssens, South Denmark Denmark2 Threads 369 Posts
In response to: is it really possible to feel sooooooooooo comfortable with someone you just met 23 days ago... someone who has been in contact with me on and off line almost daily and who has been on half a dozen dates with approx an hour and a half travel involved each way??? Not applying any pressure for more than I'm prepared to give right now is refreshing to say the least lol...

I'm enjoying getting know this man so I ain't complaining but would just like to hear from others who have experienced this quick pace when getting to know someone... I've had men go fast pace before but it was usually done in a frantic and desperate way, which I don't feel I'm getting from this one so what's goin' on???... is this the real deal?? hahaha!! ... I'm just goin' with my gut feeling and enjoying it... it's feeling quite natural and so just pacing myself at the moment... any advise is welcome and thank you in advance for your input lol xx


Just wish you the best of luck ..... hope you feel happy teddybear
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Jul 11, 2010 8:05 PM CST is this the real deal ??
bournemouthalpha
bournemouthalphabournemouthalphaPoole, Dorset, England UK6 Threads 106 Posts
mariespoodles: is it really possible to feel sooooooooooo comfortable with someone you just met 23 days ago... someone who has been in contact with me on and off line almost daily and who has been on half a dozen dates with approx an hour and a half travel involved each way??? Not applying any pressure for more than I'm prepared to give right now is refreshing to say the least lol...

I'm enjoying getting know this man so I ain't complaining but would just like to hear from others who have experienced this quick pace when getting to know someone... I've had men go fast pace before but it was usually done in a frantic and desperate way, which I don't feel I'm getting from this one so what's goin' on???... is this the real deal?? hahaha!! ... I'm just goin' with my gut feeling and enjoying it... it's feeling quite natural and so just pacing myself at the moment... any advise is welcome and thank you in advance for your input lol xx


just follow your instinct.
good luck to you.
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Jul 11, 2010 8:08 PM CST is this the real deal ??
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
im happy for you,just relax,enjoy it,take it one day at a time..hug bouquet
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Jul 11, 2010 8:10 PM CST is this the real deal ??
best wishes and yes its possible I believe that sometimes your soul just knows hug hug
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Jul 11, 2010 8:11 PM CST is this the real deal ??
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
Just can say best good luck for you and just listen the way of your true heart,handshake

heart wings
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Jul 11, 2010 8:12 PM CST is this the real deal ??
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
mariespoodles: is it really possible to feel sooooooooooo comfortable with someone you just met 23 days ago... someone who has been in contact with me on and off line almost daily and who has been on half a dozen dates with approx an hour and a half travel involved each way??? Not applying any pressure for more than I'm prepared to give right now is refreshing to say the least lol...

I'm enjoying getting know this man so I ain't complaining but would just like to hear from others who have experienced this quick pace when getting to know someone... I've had men go fast pace before but it was usually done in a frantic and desperate way, which I don't feel I'm getting from this one so what's goin' on???... is this the real deal?? hahaha!! ... I'm just goin' with my gut feeling and enjoying it... it's feeling quite natural and so just pacing myself at the moment... any advise is welcome and thank you in advance for your input lol xx


Just go with it Marie...you will know what to do hug
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Jul 11, 2010 8:22 PM CST is this the real deal ??
In response to: is it really possible to feel sooooooooooo comfortable with someone you just met 23 days ago... someone who has been in contact with me on and off line almost daily and who has been on half a dozen dates with approx an hour and a half travel involved each way??? Not applying any pressure for more than I'm prepared to give right now is refreshing to say the least lol...

I'm enjoying getting know this man so I ain't complaining but would just like to hear from others who have experienced this quick pace when getting to know someone... I've had men go fast pace before but it was usually done in a frantic and desperate way, which I don't feel I'm getting from this one so what's goin' on???... is this the real deal?? hahaha!! ... I'm just goin' with my gut feeling and enjoying it... it's feeling quite natural and so just pacing myself at the moment... any advise is welcome and thank you in advance for your input lol xx
Don't over think it..just go with it...so happy for you...applause applause
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Jul 11, 2010 8:28 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Cowhand: Just wish you the best of luck ..... hope you feel happy thumbs up

bournemouthalpha: just follow your instinct.
good luck to you thumbs up

demonfairy: im happy for you,just relax,enjoy it,take it one day at a time.. thumbs up

gemeh22: best wishes and yes its possible I believe that sometimes your soul just knows thumbs up

lavina: Just can say best good luck for you and just listen the way of your true heart, thumbs up

venusenvy : Just go with it Marie...you will know what to do thumbs up

yes and thank you ... am doing exactly as you have all suggested so far and am very chilled out about it... any personal experiences though?? just curious if you care to share!! teddybear teddybear
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Jul 11, 2010 8:34 PM CST is this the real deal ??
Is the travel time mutual?
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Jul 11, 2010 8:40 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
nanners2863: Don't over think it..just go with it...so happy for you...


hey nanners wave hope ur doin' gr8 hun!! teddybear

I agree whole heartedly and would never over think it... just curious if you have a similar experience to share wine
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Jul 11, 2010 8:42 PM CST is this the real deal ??
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
I think you may have a keeper. What is wrong with taking things slow ??? dunno

Sounds like a true gentleman. wave
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Jul 11, 2010 8:45 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Is the travel time mutual?


do u mean if I travelled to where he lives to see him yet?? and if so, not yet but feel this should be my next step so thanx for pointing it out NMP as the thought had crossed my mind just recently thumbs up wine
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Jul 11, 2010 8:49 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles: hey nanners hope ur doin' gr8 hun!!

I agree whole heartedly and would never over think it... just curious if you have a similar experience to share
As of yet...no...but I keep hoping. Just promise me one thing love..if you do fall madly in love..let us know..but Plllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeaaaaaaassssse don't start a "Do you feel love?" or "Love makes me sooo Happy" thresd..hate having it rubbed in lol
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 11, 2010 8:50 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
jeepers: I think you may have a keeper. What is wrong with taking things slow ???

Sounds like a true gentleman.


hey jeeps wave you're lookin' fine today!!

sooooooooo true hun!! wine it's like this man has good old fashion gettin' to know ya decency yay

nothin' wrong with taking things slow in my book grin hug
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Jul 11, 2010 8:50 PM CST is this the real deal ??
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
nanners2863: As of yet...no...but I keep hoping. Just promise me one thing love..if you do fall madly in love..let us know..but Plllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeaaaaaaassssse don't start a "Do you feel love?" or "Love makes me sooo Happy" thresd..hate having it rubbed in lol
dancing

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Jul 11, 2010 8:51 PM CST is this the real deal ??
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
mariespoodles: hey jeeps you're lookin' fine today!!

sooooooooo true hun!! it's like this man has good old fashion gettin' to know ya decency

nothin' wrong with taking things slow in my book
dancing Right on !
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Jul 11, 2010 8:53 PM CST is this the real deal ??
jeepers: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnrKAGmAvv4
I'm beginning to think not..moping
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Jul 11, 2010 8:53 PM CST is this the real deal ??
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
nanners2863: I'm beginning to think not..
comfort Well, maybe you are thinking too much. tongue
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Jul 11, 2010 8:56 PM CST is this the real deal ??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
nanners2863: As of yet...no...but I keep hoping. Just promise me one thing love..if you do fall madly in love..let us know..but Plllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeaaaaaaassssse don't start a "Do you feel love?" or "Love makes me sooo Happy" thresd..hate having it rubbed in lol


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing yes nanners... I will keep u posted but noooooooooooo... would neeeeeeever do that to ya hun ... eeeewwwwwww how tacky!! comfort hug teddybear teddybear
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