Are You Ready To Date??? (54)

Sep 7, 2006 6:00 AM CST Are You Ready To Date???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
How ready are you really to date??

I know once we are "free" of our former relationship...we get out there and think we are ready to get back into the dating scene...and we are excited about it...

But how ready are you really?...

Are you prepared to invest that time again really getting to know someone's likes and dislikes?...are you prepared to "share" yourself again...to learn what makes that other person tick???

And if you are ready....How do you know???
Sep 7, 2006 4:20 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
smalltowngirlON
smalltowngirlONsmalltowngirlONMidland, Ontario Canada28 Threads 401 Posts
To be honest, I am not sure if I am ready to date or not. I do know although that if I do not atleast put myself out there and give it a chance, I may be missing out on a wonderful person.
Sep 7, 2006 5:47 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I am definatly ready to date. I am actualy ready to just settle down with someone and have a life with them. Its just the matter of finding that person now. It does get frustrating at times but I know its for the best to take it one day at a time. Who knows what the future will hold right?
Sep 7, 2006 6:50 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Hiyah et bon soir,
Starting from the point, that all old baggage has been released off. Since i have been single for quite some time, i don´t have any grin
I would date any time, cause i prefer to see the person physicly and the gesture when we talk or go out for a dinner. For me it´s a more getting to know someone.wave
Sep 7, 2006 7:18 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
ontarioman
ontariomanontariomanKawartha lakes, Canada13 Threads 561 Posts
I have heard you should wait one full year before dating, after a serious relationship...professor
Sep 7, 2006 7:46 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
I think that it all depends how the relationship ended.
Sep 7, 2006 7:48 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
confused confused confused says who confused , though when ever i´m readypeace
Sep 7, 2006 7:51 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
I think that when you have reached the point where you have "neutral" feelings for the past .... then you have put it behind you and are ready to move on. I don't think that there is a magic timeframe or timeline because each one of us is different in how we deal and/or don't deal with our lives.
Sep 7, 2006 7:53 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
My personal opinion is that you're ready to date when you don't feel the need to date.

If you arent happy with your life as is why toss someone else into the mess.
Sep 7, 2006 8:08 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Well Gibson there is a definite difference between feeling the "need" to have a partner and just wanting to spend time and share experiences with another. I agree - fix your life and be happy first on your own and generally then its amazing how attractive people find you to be. Those that think there life only starts when they have a partner are taking the wrong approach I believe, and placing their happiness in the hands of another.
Sep 7, 2006 8:10 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
I'd disagree but I think we would just be quibbling over semantics lol

I think you're just restating what I didn't get across properly in my lazily typed out post lol
Sep 7, 2006 8:14 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
You would DARE to disagree with me????????????? OMG - rolling on the floor laughing

But you cover your butt but agreeing with me in the second sentence ..... so are you sure you agree or disagree????
Sep 7, 2006 8:16 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
Me thinks you're just trying to get a rise out of me lol
Sep 7, 2006 8:17 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Well that could be a "loaded" statement!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 7, 2006 8:18 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Under these circumstances, i would say this case hasn´t released the memories or baggage.
My 2 cents, I´m ready to date if i´m willing to get to know someone i´m interested in, in my experience i had the best friendships and relationships if on my forehead wasn´t written: I´m desperate.

Lutz
Sep 7, 2006 8:20 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
I'm just gonna surrender at this point .. learned my lesson about women and plays on words a long time ago lol
Sep 7, 2006 8:21 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
OHHHHHH so disappointing ........ that's most of the fun of being here .... but surrendering could be interesting too!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 7, 2006 8:27 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
I'm trying to recall if this is flirting or not .... bear with me ... will probably take me a day or two to figure it out angel
Sep 7, 2006 8:36 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Ohhhhhhhhhh Janice see what u have done againrolling on the floor laughing
Sep 7, 2006 8:37 PM CST Are You Ready To Date???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I would date you Lutz...whether i was ready or not!!grin
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