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CeCIEcopenhagen, Capital Region Denmark4 Threads 26 Postswho is suppose to pay for transport ,when you live in different countries,its a 40mins journey by train,do i have to keep on deep in my pocket every weekend,im going to see him,or we have to share
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I drive 45 minutes each way every day to ANYWHERE that I go work, school, date, etc. Soooo I guess that's up to you to decide, how much do you want to see him?
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bittersweet28467: I drive 45 minutes each way every day to ANYWHERE that I go work, school, date, etc. Soooo I guess that's up to you to decide, how much do you want to see him?
the diffence is you go to school ,inthe same country that you,stay.as for me i have to cross a boarder,so its a little bit expensive,i think he also needs to contribute------ This thread is Archived ------
CeCIE: who is suppose to pay for transport ,when you live in different countries,its a 40mins journey by train,do i have to keep on deep in my pocket every weekend,im going to see him,or we have to share
if u r Going to see him ,you should pay 
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CeCIE: who is suppose to pay for transport ,when you live in different countries,its a 40mins journey by train,do i have to keep on deep in my pocket every weekend,im going to see him,or we have to share
You want to see him? Yep - keep on dippin'...
He'll share/pay if he wants to see you.
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ali110: if u r Going to see him ,you should pay
Mt thoughts exactly
When he travels to you... he pays.
But, if he's not willing to put in that effort and travel to you, you should think about whether he's worth it
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uote=ali110]if u r Going to see him ,you should pay ahhhhh ,until when,its very unfare.
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Laura25: You want to see him? Yep - keep on dippin'...
He'll share/pay if he wants to see you.
its okay,i have found a solution.i will see him once every month,He'll share/pay if he wants to see you.
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CeCIE: uote=ali110]if u r Going to see him ,you should pay ahhhhh ,until when,its very unfare.
it is not fair to ask for money to travel ,friendship/relationship should be free of greed ------ This thread is Archived ------
LusciousLibra: Mt thoughts exactly
When he travels to you... he pays.
But, if he's not willing to put in that effort and travel to you, you should think about whether he's worth it
he won,t travel to me, becouse of his kid,so im the one who is always travelling,When he travels to you... he pays.
But, if he's not willing to put in that effort and travel to you, you should think about whether he's worth it
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CeCIE: he won,t travel to me, becouse of his kid,so im the one who is always travelling,
Is he a full time dad?
How old is the 'kid'?
Does he not lke to take his 'kid' on trips?
Sounds very much like you're getting cheesed off with him not willing to do his bit for the relationship.
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ali110: it is not fair to ask for money to travel ,friendship/relationship should be free of greed
its also not fair not give your girlfriend some pocket money,or a flower,to appreciate all the effort she is putting to come and see you,yourself you cannt travel becouse you are babysitting your kid.------ This thread is Archived ------
LusciousLibra: Is he a full time dad?
How old is the 'kid'?
Does he not lke to take his 'kid' on trips?Sounds very much like you're getting cheesed off with him not willing to do his bit for the relationship.
the kid is 5yers,she also come on friday to ssunday,the same with me.and he has trouble in trying to balance the 2 of us,we both needs his attention.yes we go to trips with the kid.that is where i said im always onthe back seat.How old is the 'kid'?
Does he not lke to take his 'kid' on trips?Sounds very much like you're getting cheesed off with him not willing to do his bit for the relationship.
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CeCIE: the kid is 5yers,she also come on friday to ssunday,the same with me.and he has trouble in trying to balance the 2 of us,we both needs his attention.yes we go to trips with the kid.that is where i said im always onthe back seat.
Well.. it's only right that you would be not as important to him as his own flesh and blood. It's pointless you being jealous of his child and demanding that he choose... you wont win. She's part of his life forever, you're just the current girlfriend.
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CeCIE: its also not fair not give your girlfriend some pocket money,or a flower,to appreciate all the effort she is putting to come and see you,yourself you cannt travel becouse you are babysitting your kid.
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CeCIE: its also not fair not give your girlfriend some pocket money,or a flower,to appreciate all the effort she is putting to come and see you,yourself you cannt travel becouse you are babysitting your kid.
Doesn't sound nice if he hasn't offered to at least split the travel expenses... unless he thinks he contributes his part in other ways (food, entertainment expenses etc.)
There should be a way to bring it up in a non-confrontational way, no?
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LusciousLibra: Well.. it's only right that you would be not as important to him as his own flesh and blood. It's pointless you being jealous of his child and demanding that he choose... you wont win. She's part of his life forever, you're just the current girlfriend.
Wow... *Just* current g/f??? Isn't is possible that she is the one who'll make his life worth living?
But I agree about demands to choose,
that is not just pointless - it's ridicules, imo.
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CeCIE: who is suppose to pay for transport ,when you live in different countries,its a 40mins journey by train,do i have to keep on deep in my pocket every weekend,im going to see him,or we have to share
Why not let him to come and see you every so often?That way you could save on some of the Transportation-costs.
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CeCIE: who is suppose to pay for transport ,when you live in different countries,its a 40mins journey by train,do i have to keep on deep in my pocket every weekend,im going to see him,or we have to share
YOU MUST COMPROMISE
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Laura25: Wow... *Just* current g/f??? Isn't is possible that she is the one who'll make his life worth living?
But I agree about demands to choose,
that is not just pointless - it's ridicules, imo.
But I agree about demands to choose,
that is not just pointless - it's ridicules, imo.
Sorry, I'm trying to put myself in her shoes but I suppose I'm still using my own reasoning rather than hers. I never see myself as 'the one', but rather the 'current'... am not so bigheaded to assume I'm special. Also, he has his daughter, kids make life worth living.
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