ending a relationship ( Archived) (27)

Jul 20, 2010 11:11 PM CST ending a relationship
katie1333
katie1333katie1333mooloolaba, Queensland Australia2 Threads 5 Posts
i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on
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Jul 20, 2010 11:42 PM CST ending a relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
katie1333: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on


sorry to hear that Katie, but it sounds like you made a good decision for yourself. Perhaps you should call up some good friends who know you personally and shed some tears, share some laughs and realize and celebrate that life is still wonderful because of the people that do love and care for you
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Jul 20, 2010 11:50 PM CST ending a relationship
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
she is right,you need to call and talk to a friend or family member,somebody that can really be there for you,that loves you.Love is a beautiful thing,but it can be very painful to.It takes time,friends,loved ones..good people around you,keeping busy,to get your mind off of it.Plus a good cry always helps...sending you a angel to keep you safe..angel2 angel comfort hug sad flower
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Jul 20, 2010 11:58 PM CST ending a relationship
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
In response to: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on


Sorry to hear that, kinda down myself today, try to keep on smiling
comfort hug



grin
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Jul 21, 2010 12:14 AM CST ending a relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Desertguy49: Sorry to hear that, kinda down myself today, try to keep on smiling




hug hug
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Jul 21, 2010 12:32 AM CST ending a relationship
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Desertguy49: Sorry to hear that, kinda down myself today, try to keep on smiling


awww sweety wish i could help..comfort hug teddybear
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Jul 21, 2010 12:34 AM CST ending a relationship
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
In response to: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on
wish u are a free bird now
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Jul 21, 2010 12:34 AM CST ending a relationship
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
demonfairy: awww sweety wish i could help..


Just being a friend is enough. hug thanks
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Jul 21, 2010 3:06 AM CST ending a relationship
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
katie1333: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on


My two shoulders here...for you....though not that strong....but they are ....hmmmmm....warm.....laugh





comfort hug cheering
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Jul 21, 2010 4:07 AM CST ending a relationship
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
In response to: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on


I'm really sorry. I know it's hard - have been through it myself. I think keeping busy is the best thing you can do... Can't you throw a celebratory supper for the gals? conversing crying comfort wine hug
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Jul 21, 2010 4:12 AM CST ending a relationship
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
katie1333: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on


dont cry katie...that only gives you wrinkles..think positive,be proud of yourself for getting away from the "horrible" creature..keep yourself busy so you dont have time to dwell ...good luck...wine
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Jul 21, 2010 5:24 AM CST ending a relationship
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
Katie...sweetheart...don't cry...you make me cry...you'll better sometime soon..all your pain...I am so sorry for you. Please keep your chin up. Oh gosh...I better go.teddybear
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Jul 21, 2010 6:48 AM CST ending a relationship
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
katie1333: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on
hug awwww darlin, well Im sure once your over the shock, you will be happy its OVER sounds like it wasnt very nice.

Hugs to you sweetie

teddybear
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Jul 21, 2010 7:24 AM CST ending a relationship
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
Don't worry too much. You had the strength to end the relationship, you will have the strength to move forward in your life. hug
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Jul 21, 2010 8:35 AM CST ending a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
If she still feels something for him, i don't see how, she could have this celebratory supper for the gals. If it is final in her mind, yes why not.-
leostartingover: I'm really sorry. I know it's hard - have been through it myself. I think keeping busy is the best thing you can do... Can't you throw a celebratory supper for the gals?
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Jul 21, 2010 8:52 AM CST ending a relationship
Loves_2_dance
Loves_2_danceLoves_2_danceLa Verne, California USA79 Posts
I wanted to say something, but being a single and irresponsible man I didn't know what to say. But all's well because everyone else did a great job!

However, I will pray for you!
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Jul 21, 2010 8:55 AM CST ending a relationship
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
hug hug
you're in good hands on here, i hope. Well, stay clear of Boban until you're ready to take him on, just to be sure grin

Peace Bo! teddybear
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Jul 21, 2010 9:45 AM CST ending a relationship
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
as others have said, if you had the strength to end it, you will definitely have the strength to move forward... but before you do, ask yourself, did I listen to my head, my heart or my gut??... I'm guessing you listened to your gut to end it... so listen to your gut when you start the next relationship and trust yourself to go with it as it never lies to you sweetie if only you will take the time to trust it totally and good luck in the future wine teddybear
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Jul 21, 2010 10:26 AM CST ending a relationship
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
katie1333: i am so lonely. have just ended an 8 year relationship with a horrible creature and need some company, and a shoulder to cry on


Good riddance! Welcome to the forums Katie, you'll find a lot of shoulders-to-cry-on here.

And with a little luck you might find more that just shoulders! thumbs up

teddybear
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Jul 21, 2010 10:54 AM CST ending a relationship
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
chris27292729: If she still feels something for him, i don't see how, she could have this celebratory supper for the gals. If it is final in her mind, yes why not.-


We should have gone to the celeb supper bro and got some sanwiches
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