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Jul 31, 2010 10:39 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
why is it that dating isn't as easy the older you get.I am still young but its so much harder to connect with someone in reality.
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Jul 31, 2010 10:43 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
kande84: why is it that dating isn't as easy the older you get.I am still young but its so much harder to connect with someone in reality.



Be patient, try to post a picture & i'm sure you will get messages. Welcome to cs cswelcome bouquet
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Jul 31, 2010 10:44 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
carobnjak3
carobnjak3carobnjak3melbourne, Victoria Australia2 Threads 95 Posts
kande84: why is it that dating isn't as easy the older you get.I am still young but its so much harder to connect with someone in reality.


A photo might improve things...;-)
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Jul 31, 2010 10:46 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
kande84: why is it that dating isn't as easy the older you get.I am still young but its so much harder to connect with someone in reality.


The simple answer is that "people are no damned good " dunno doh
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Jul 31, 2010 10:55 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
i can only have so much patience and although i realize a pic would help i would rather people talk and get to know me for me rather than what i look like.
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Jul 31, 2010 10:57 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
TheStillOfNight
TheStillOfNightTheStillOfNightEastern NL, Newfoundland Canada48 Threads 1 Polls 530 Posts
Usually when we get a little older, we have a better idea of who we want to meet. That in turn will limit the potential connections we can create, however when a connection is created, it should be a good one.
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Jul 31, 2010 11:01 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
annie_nsw
annie_nswannie_nswCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 528 Posts
kande84: i can only have so much patience and although i realize a pic would help i would rather people talk and get to know me for me rather than what i look like.
thumbs up
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Jul 31, 2010 11:02 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
kande84: i can only have so much patience and although i realize a pic would help i would rather people talk and get to know me for me rather than what i look like.


You will find more will talk to you if you have a pic up. You don't have to talk to anyone you don't want to.
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Jul 31, 2010 11:07 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
okay so thats one reason for online but what about in real life when there is face to face inter- action? there is no excuse then for why it's so hard.
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Jul 31, 2010 11:08 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
kande84: why is it that dating isn't as easy the older you get.I am still young but its so much harder to connect with someone in reality.


dating is MUCH MUCH easier. Finding someone that isn't arrogant or selfish or doesn't screw anything that walks is.
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Jul 31, 2010 11:10 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
i would have to agree with that laugh
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Jul 31, 2010 11:18 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
i just don't understand when or why it became so difficult to talk to someone
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Jul 31, 2010 11:24 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
carobnjak3
carobnjak3carobnjak3melbourne, Victoria Australia2 Threads 95 Posts
kande84: okay so thats one reason for online but what about in real life when there is face to face inter- action? there is no excuse then for why it's so hard.


Good point...

Do you smile at people...????;-)))))))))
A smile brakes the ice...????;-)))))))))
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Jul 31, 2010 11:27 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
i can honestly say when i am out i almost always have a smile, i am a happy person
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Jul 31, 2010 11:29 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
could be we are just too dam old .
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Jul 31, 2010 11:29 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
magsx
magsxmagsxLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland6 Threads 431 Posts
kande84: i can honestly say when i am out i almost always have a smile, i am a happy person


You can sing it!!!! I personally think people have so many choices now that they think grass is always greener ..... afraid to even give someone a chance in case they (think) they are missing something better dunno
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Jul 31, 2010 11:31 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
carobnjak3
carobnjak3carobnjak3melbourne, Victoria Australia2 Threads 95 Posts
kande84: i can honestly say when i am out i almost always have a smile, i am a happy person


Than just relax,and let nature take its coarse...;-)
It will happen when you least expect it...;-)
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Jul 31, 2010 11:38 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Why beeing afraid?? you don't give others a chance,you give a chance to youself,and when you meet the person and you realise,it was not what you were expecting, the grass is most certainly greener in the next pasture.
magsx: You can sing it!!!! I personally think people have so many choices now that they think grass is always greener ..... afraid to even give someone a chance in case they (think) they are missing something better
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Jul 31, 2010 11:42 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
magsx
magsxmagsxLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland6 Threads 431 Posts
chris27292729: Why beeing afraid?? you don't give others a chance,you give a chance to youself,and when you meet the person and you realise,it was not what you were expecting, the grass is most certainly greener in the next pasture.


I am not afraid am just giving my opinion on what I see happening. Not talking about personal behaviourhandshake
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Jul 31, 2010 11:42 PM CST dating not as easy anymore
kande84
kande84kande84frisco, Texas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
confused
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