mdamon20: You make a good point. people with good hearts are stronger
Always able to pick up whatever pieces are left, still rebuild, and move on. While some may call it loved, and lost, I never lost anything that I did not freely give of my love, and I can live with that. It's hard telling if those that left can live with themselves, but its for certain I couldn't live with them.
mdamon20: Why is it everytime the people with the good hearts are always the ones that get there hearts broken?
Young Man , it's an evolutionary process which starts with your skin thickening, then some protective scales - and finally an armored plated shell system that only has an opening for your special purpose ...!
jvaski: Young Man , it's an evolutionary process which starts with your skin thickening, then some protective scales - and finally an armored plated shell system that only has an opening for your special purpose ...!
mdamon20: I haven't broken anyones heart that i know of. every relationship i been in i been used and cheated on.
Then you need to choose better; if everyone you choose cheats then why are you blaming the women and not yourself? No one put a gun to your head and said date them?
It's easy being the victim and saying "I have such a good heart; I'm such a great guy; why do I always get hurt?"
Most guys I know that have this problem are pushovers that arent' respected by women. They try so hard being a great guy that they don't make anyone respect them.
Men like this also are terrible at choosing a good woman.
Go by actions and not by words and pick better people, and you will get a better outcome. good luck
mjames: Then you need to choose better; if everyone you choose cheats then why are you blaming the women and not yourself? No one put a gun to your head and said date them?
It's easy being the victim and saying "I have such a good heart; I'm such a great guy; why do I always get hurt?"
Most guys I know that have this problem are pushovers that arent' respected by women. They try so hard being a great guy that they don't make anyone respect them.
Men like this also are terrible at choosing a good woman.
Go by actions and not by words and pick better people, and you will get a better outcome. good luck
First off, im not a pushover, im not playing some victim that sits at home crying my eyes out over something like that, i move on with my life, so most guys you know, are nothing like me. I am who I am, no one has to like me, I could really care less what other people think about me. All im doing is getting other peoples opinions on things like that and yes it has happened to me before but i didn't choose them.
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