Honesty vs Courtsey (Why Honesty Loses ?) ( Archived) (5)

Hi All,

I have been in a serious relationship, which broke from her side after 7 years, reasons not mentioned, neither by her, neither her parents, only vague contradictory statements made, when asked.

I also liked one girl here, I proposed her, telling her all my background.She stopped talking to me.I had her phone number, deleted it.

Ok !!!!!!

The question goes, WHY ARE GIRLS MOST TALKATIVE, WHEN THEY WANT TO KNOW A GUY DEEPLY ? AND ONCE THEY KNOW A GUY, WHY DO THEY EXIT WITHOUT HAVING COURTSEY EVEN TO SAY BYE ?

IMPORTANTLY THESE ARE THE SAME GIRLS WHO WILL WRITE THE WORD "HONESTY" MANY TIMES IN THEIR PROFILES OR THEIR COMMUNICATIONS.

CAN EXPERTS EXPLAIN HERE, ON THE ANSWER I AM SEARCHING ?

Thanks !

I'm sorry she didn't say goodbye. That is hurtful but isn't it better to be honest and know if you can't handle something in a person before marriage than to find out after? I personally think you were better off.IMO

Seriously I'm concerned for you, if you saying you proposed to her after how long? Its no wonder she deleted you

Woman like being pursued, and they like feeling that they make a difference in your life. As a norm we generally try to come across as not desperate, and in most cases we not, we just lonely souls looking for Mr Right. You dont say much as to how soon you proposed, but if it was without meeting her, and merely by chatting on this website, she in all probably thinks u a nut case has taken her things and did and Donald and Ducked.

So reflect on your actions, as desperation makes us do crazy insane things. The questions you asking, is like me say, Why do man promise to call, and never do. The answer is simple, They Simply not that into you!

And besides, you better off without her if she didnt have a decency to say Goodbye. You sure to find that someone special out there.... given time, just dont rush into anything