Revenge (15)

Aug 14, 2010 4:51 PM CST Revenge
Madmum
MadmumMadmumNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 195 Posts
Hi peeps,

Split with my long term partner a few weeks ago and now loads of stuff is coming out and although I was hurting before, now I'm furious too and think a bit of revenge is in order.devil

Now we have children together so need something that will hit him where it hurts without affecting them as their happiness is important to me and after all they still love daddy sigh

Any ideas confused
Aug 14, 2010 4:53 PM CST Revenge
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Hey hun..
i think the best revenge for twats is getting on with your life and not looking back.
It hurts more than trying to get back at someone...
Revenge is...being happy and letting them rot.
hug hug
Aug 14, 2010 4:58 PM CST Revenge
Madmum
MadmumMadmumNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 195 Posts
Amity: Hey hun..
i think the best revenge for twats is getting on with your life and not looking back.
It hurts more than trying to get back at someone...
Revenge is...being happy and letting them rot.




Hmmm want him to suffer before he rots rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 15, 2010 3:19 AM CST Revenge
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Madmum: Hi peeps,

Split with my long term partner a few weeks ago and now loads of stuff is coming out and although I was hurting before, now I'm furious too and think a bit of revenge is in order.

Now we have children together so need something that will hit him where it hurts without affecting them as their happiness is important to me and after all they still love daddy

Any ideas
Try and get more more money out of him somehow.

Hit him where it hurts, in his wallet cheering
Aug 15, 2010 3:28 AM CST Revenge
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
I would say the best revenge is to get a new boyfriend & make him really jealous hug
Aug 15, 2010 3:52 AM CST Revenge
TartanK
TartanKTartanKGlasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 333 Posts
You run the risk of hurting your kids too. Whatever the reasons for the problem, they will still see him as their dad.

Stiff upper lip and all that. Get on with your life. Get the new lippy on and get a younger, fitter model! Let him know what he's lost!
Aug 15, 2010 4:13 AM CST Revenge
haunebu2
haunebu2haunebu2Broadstairs, Kent, England UK4 Threads 1,910 Posts
darren9030: I would say the best revenge is to get a new boyfriend & make him really jealous


Yeah - Especially if HE has a younger model.
Aug 15, 2010 4:18 AM CST Revenge
evokes memories of fatal attraction lock up your bunnies
Aug 15, 2010 6:19 AM CST Revenge
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
In response to: Hi peeps,

Split with my long term partner a few weeks ago and now loads of stuff is coming out and although I was hurting before, now I'm furious too and think a bit of revenge is in order.

Now we have children together so need something that will hit him where it hurts without affecting them as their happiness is important to me and after all they still love daddy

Any ideas


Pick yourself up,dust yourself down and move on,revenge isnt sweet and remember kids love their dad and for that reason you should rise above revenge,good luck to you and roses will grow again..comfort
Aug 15, 2010 6:32 AM CST Revenge
EssJay
EssJayEssJayDevon, England UK63 Threads 3,340 Posts
Madmum: Hi peeps,

Split with my long term partner a few weeks ago and now loads of stuff is coming out and although I was hurting before, now I'm furious too and think a bit of revenge is in order.

Now we have children together so need something that will hit him where it hurts without affecting them as their happiness is important to me and after all they still love daddy

Any ideas



Hiyawave

Revenge isn't sweet, whatever way you choose to dress it up. Your split up is very recent and you are understandably upset and angry.
Put you and your children first, move on with your life, rise above anything that he throws at you.

The old saying of "a still tongue holds a wise head"
Trust me,it works.....the hurt and anger will ease in time, don't let it control your life....



teddybear
Aug 15, 2010 6:54 AM CST Revenge
Madmum
MadmumMadmumNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 195 Posts
leisure07: evokes memories of fatal attraction lock up your bunnies


It's not the bunnies that need to be worried

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Thankyou all for your comments and I know what you're all saying and I wish it was that easy. This man who unfortunately I still love a great deal has turned into a different person and is now not only causing me a lot of heartache but my children too.
I'm confident in time I will find it doesn't hurt so much but right now it does.

I've tried to be dignified but he seems to think that he can still control my life because of our kids and it raises a terrific anger in me. He doesn't deserve me which I'm coming to realise but I hope at some point he suffers the same measure of pain that he has caused our family.

Thanks again teddybear
Aug 15, 2010 6:58 AM CST Revenge
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Madmum: It's not the bunnies that need to be worried



Thankyou all for your comments and I know what you're all saying and I wish it was that easy. This man who unfortunately I still love a great deal has turned into a different person and is now not only causing me a lot of heartache but my children too.
I'm confident in time I will find it doesn't hurt so much but right now it does.

I've tried to be dignified but he seems to think that he can still control my life because of our kids and it raises a terrific anger in me. He doesn't deserve me which I'm coming to realise but I hope at some point he suffers the same measure of pain that he has caused our family.

Thanks again


what goes around comes around

head banger wave
Aug 15, 2010 9:58 AM CST Revenge
Crystal29
Crystal29Crystal29Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK35 Threads 8,448 Posts
Madmum, please keep all thoughts of revenge confined to your head....dont play them out in real life cos you'll only end up hurting yourself and possibly your kids too....concentrate on them cos they will need extra attention at this time...try and forget about him and the pain he has caused you..not easy I know.......move on show him you dont need him...be happy and show him you can cope without him....it will take time....but that hurts them more than anything else...believe me. As for jumping into a new 'relationship' just to make him jealous...Id be very wary, put yourself first and treat yourself with kindness, the last thing you need is added pressure and pain...jmo...good luck anyhow!! bouquet
Aug 15, 2010 10:33 AM CST Revenge
wispa
wispawispaNear Derbyshire, Derbyshire, England UK22 Threads 1,400 Posts
Crystal29: Madmum, please keep all thoughts of revenge confined to your head....dont play them out in real life cos you'll only end up hurting yourself and possibly your kids too....concentrate on them cos they will need extra attention at this time...try and forget about him and the pain he has caused you..not easy I know.......move on show him you dont need him...be happy and show him you can cope without him....it will take time....but that hurts them more than anything else...believe me. As for jumping into a new 'relationship' just to make him jealous...Id be very wary, put yourself first and treat yourself with kindness, the last thing you need is added pressure and pain...jmo...good luck anyhow!!



I fully agree with you Crystal wave
Aug 21, 2010 7:17 AM CST Revenge
Empress01
Empress01Empress01London, Greater London, England UK1 Posts
Madmum: Hi peeps,

Split with my long term partner a few weeks ago and now loads of stuff is coming out and although I was hurting before, now I'm furious too and think a bit of revenge is in order.

Now we have children together so need something that will hit him where it hurts without affecting them as their happiness is important to me and after all they still love daddy

Any ideas


I found the best way to get to my x was to revamp my look, revamp my life & start to live again, making sure he saw how good I was now looking and what fun I was having (even if I wasn't having fun). He then decided that he wanted me back, it was the best feeling telling him I wouldn't get back with him if he was the last man on the planet. If you are happier the children will be too. One thing I did make sure of is that I never bad mouthed him to the children, they are now older and making their own minds up regarding him, the general consensus is that he's an idiot, and the kids made their own minds up about that without prompting. Hope you find happiness in your new freedom. Go out & have a ball.
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