why people dont beleve so much to dating... (10)

hello to everybodies. Im here looking for a partener about 1 mounth.but before here i've been on several siteS.always my experience is the same: people who contact me,seem really interestede,follow 2-3 mails and than deseappear..This is common in intenet: very easy to have contact more easy to loose it!! I think that real reason are: afraid to accross line from virtual to real,not really interested to find a partner,here just to loose time and other reason..i dont know why this happen but i think that the solutions are:a site where there is somebody(maby psicolog) u really decover by iterwiev,the person here(of course we have to pay this service),THE POSSIBILITY TO CHAT AND TO WIEW THE CONTACT REAL TIME, this increase too many the possibilities to continue the approach)..but all at the end is the people: people dont belive! or this way not yet is usual and we have to wait several years because it really works..or maybe it are me not able to show me as i really am,so people dont belive to me,or too many scams in the past and now its hard to belive..
THE QUETIONS IS THIS: I LOOK FOR PEOPLE THAT HERE OR IN ANOTHER SITE,REALLY HAVE VHAD A REAL STORY,THAT THIS STORI HAD SUCCESS AND THEY STILL TOGETHER,BECAUSE IM LOOSING TO TRUST THIS WAY..
CaN U HELP ME PLEASE..??? TANKS TO ALL
SALVALAMA-ITALY

cioa Salva .. I've just spent three nights in your wonderful city .. the place is full of beautiful women

I hope you're right Smoky because I am just about fed up with all the vanishing men.

Well… I’m not sure that talking is a waste of time. It’s actually good that people talk: it’s a way to discover whether there are interests in common and chemistry between them. Often it’s the only way to show that you are interested in the person. Lack of communication will kill a relationship very quick.

But of course, talking is just the first step…

As to vanishing people… yes, the survival rate among CS participants is very low, growing lower the closer to the date it comes. I myself have been hit by train a couple of times right before a rendezvous.

Hi,let me tell you a story. 1 year and a half ago i met on a dating site a guy. he was cute from his first words. i didnt trust him first bcos he told me he is from nigeria. before him i met a nigerian scammer and you can guess what was on my mind. But i didnt refuse to talk to him bcos i though he could be also a scammer and i was thinking might be the revenge time.But surprise... after not a too long time he convinced me by his words he is a caring and decent guy. I falled inlove with him and was same for him. After a while(will sound crazy)i bought a plane ticket and i was gone to meet him. was really crazy what i did. I let home my daughter and i flight to him in malaysia.he waited for me on the airport, was amaizing...... we spend 2 dream weeks there. he is the cutest and caring man i ever met. i wont give you more details, bcos is not the right place, but the conclusion is that now we are married and we have a great little boy. i am the happiest woman on this earth.i wont give you more details bcos the story is sooo long and i dont want to be boring here. I wish you same, but beware of scammers, even if a scammer made me to meet my happiness.

what a cool story .. glad things worked out so well for you, George ..

I hear you hun, women in my case of course! Scammers I guess I don't know, but it's annoying.