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Aug 21, 2010 11:24 AM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
What are your views on home schooling for our children?

Anyone here home school their kids?

Do you think that its more worthwhile for them to be taught by their parents in a "safe", monitored environment?

Do you think that they are better to go into main stream education in order to experience all the facilities it has to offer?

Do you think that home schooling can provide a more dedicated, direct education than in large class rooms?

Or do you think it denies the child the ability to grasp the social skills necessary to survive in life?

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Aug 21, 2010 11:32 AM CST Home Schooling
Proudamerican100
Proudamerican100Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 570 Posts
Since I have no children yet I am unsure if I will home school, private or public school. I have friends who have been to every kind of school imaginable. And I think it still all centers on the child. Private schools have much smaller classes (at least ones I have been in) so you can have quality time with a teacher if you are having a difficult time in a subject. Public school I learned how to hook kotex together and put them up underneath a car where when one drives off they will not notice them right away trailing behind themdunno The only home schooling I ever received was in the school of life. And actually it has been what was the most usefullwine
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Aug 21, 2010 11:33 AM CST Home Schooling
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
my daughter has two children,boy 14,girl 12...They went to public school,till last year..The boy is now going to college at age 14 with 49 other kids in a goverment program for smart kids.One of the rules to get in this program was that neither parent had attended college.It gives a child a change to get a college degree that other wise might not get one due to lack of funds.When he gets out in 4 years,he will have grad. from high school and college at the same time.Only 50 kids a year are chosen,i think its a good program.She decided to home school the girl till she could file to get in the program to.It has worked out well for both.there are a lot of parents who home school around here and its very sucessful.Good topic ophug wave
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Aug 21, 2010 11:35 AM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
Proudamerican100: Since I have no children yet I am unsure if I will home school, private or public school. I have friends who have been to every kind of school imaginable. And I think it still all centers on the child. Private schools have much smaller classes (at least ones I have been in) so you can have quality time with a teacher if you are having a difficult time in a subject. Public school I learned how to hook kotex together and put them up underneath a car where when one drives off they will not notice them right away trailing behind them The only home schooling I ever received was in the school of life. And actually it has been what was the most usefull


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Excellent!laugh

Thanks, PA. Good post.

I would tend to agree with you.

I believe that children are much better off to attend mainstream schools, because they are more likely to develop the skills needed to deal with life.

Home schooling to me, from what I have learnt is too closeted, and can do more harm than good.

Depends on the choice of schools available though, I guess.

wine
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Aug 21, 2010 11:36 AM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
demonfairy: my daughter has two children,boy 14,girl 12...They went to public school,till last year..The boy is now going to college at age 14 with 49 other kids in a goverment program for smart kids.One of the rules to get in this program was that neither parent had attended college.It gives a child a change to get a college degree that other wise might not get one due to lack of funds.When he gets out in 4 years,he will have grad. from high school and college at the same time.Only 50 kids a year are chosen,i think its a good program.She decided to home school the girl till she could file to get in the program to.It has worked out well for both.there are a lot of parents who home school around here and its very sucessful.Good topic op


Oh, that sounds good, my friend.thumbs up

A good example of both methods working well.

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Aug 21, 2010 11:47 AM CST Home Schooling
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
If you have dedicated parents, go for it. Government schools (note I said government) spend more time indoctrinating children than teaching. (JMO)

The only drawback I could see would be the lack of social interaction.
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Aug 21, 2010 11:54 AM CST Home Schooling
Proudamerican100
Proudamerican100Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 570 Posts
demonfairy: my daughter has two children,boy 14,girl 12...They went to public school,till last year..The boy is now going to college at age 14 with 49 other kids in a goverment program for smart kids.One of the rules to get in this program was that neither parent had attended college.It gives a child a change to get a college degree that other wise might not get one due to lack of funds.When he gets out in 4 years,he will have grad. from high school and college at the same time.Only 50 kids a year are chosen,i think its a good program.She decided to home school the girl till she could file to get in the program to.It has worked out well for both.there are a lot of parents who home school around here and its very sucessful.Good topic op
I love a happy story. I think all children deserve an education if they so choose onebouquet
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Aug 21, 2010 11:55 AM CST Home Schooling
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
I think it truly depends on the parents and also the child. I have children who did okay in public school, and who did great in charter schools.

I personally would not have the patience required to home-school my children. My daughter did home school my grand-daughter for a bit and while my grand-daughter did great academically, she wanted the social interaction of the children and so she went back to public schooling.
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Aug 21, 2010 11:59 AM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
amahlala: I think it truly depends on the parents and also the child. I have children who did okay in public school, and who did great in charter schools.

I personally would not have the patience required to home-school my children. My daughter did home school my grand-daughter for a bit and while my grand-daughter did great academically, she wanted the social interaction of the children and so she went back to public schooling.


Me neither. And although I am pretty well educated, I wouldnt have the confidence to be able to teach my child a wide enough, and up-to-date enough curriculum for them to be well enough equipped for life.

That's really where I'm at; I personally feel that I benefitted greatly from the interaction I had at public school. Some of it wasnt nice, but I think I learnt from it.

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Aug 21, 2010 12:00 PM CST Home Schooling
Proudamerican100
Proudamerican100Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 570 Posts
DodgeBabe: Excellent!

Thanks, PA. Good post.

I would tend to agree with you.

I believe that children are much better off to attend mainstream schools, because they are more likely to develop the skills needed to deal with life.Home schooling to me, from what I have learnt is too closeted, and can do more harm than good.

Depends on the choice of schools available though, I guess.
In sixth grade my cousin got put in public school. She had been to the very exclusive private schools in our area all her life and her Mom thought she needed to experiance public school. The first day she was there I found her in tears. She had laid her purse down on the ledge outside because she did not want to bring it in the stall with her and the poor little thing expected it to be there when she exited. To see the hurt and bewilderment the innocense just snatched from her angered me. I explained people to her and tried to help her adjust to public school. Not saying all public schools are that way. But I will take my purse into the restroom with me. dunno
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Aug 21, 2010 12:03 PM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
Proudamerican100: In sixth grade my cousin got put in public school. She had been to the very exclusive private schools in our area all her life and her Mom thought she needed to experiance public school. The first day she was there I found her in tears. She had laid her purse down on the ledge outside because she did not want to bring it in the stall with her and the poor little thing expected it to be there when she exited. To see the hurt and bewilderment the innocense just snatched from her angered me. I explained people to her and tried to help her adjust to public school. Not saying all public schools are that way. But I will take my purse into the restroom with me.


I am sure the move from home schooling to public schooling is very hard, and kids can loose their way and learn the hard way - like your cousin. Must have been difficult for her.

I feel maybe its best to stick with one method or the other, then. To throw a kid into the hussle and bussle of a public school after being at home would be very confusing, I would imagine.

wine
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Aug 21, 2010 12:06 PM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
My sister in Florida home schools her young son.

She has a teaching degree which she took in England, so ACADEMICALLY she is qualified.

However, she is a strict Born Again Christian, does not socialise with any other group apart from like-minded Christian Groups, has no TV and only watches religious videos, and is one of the most narrow-minded people I have ever met, sadly..sigh

Her son is already a handful; very spoilt and has no peers to put him in his place. I do fear for his ability to cope in the outside world, I have to say..

doh
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Aug 21, 2010 12:09 PM CST Home Schooling
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
DodgeBabe: I am sure the move from home schooling to public schooling is very hard, and kids can loose their way and learn the hard way - like your cousin. Must have been difficult for her.

I feel maybe its best to stick with one method or the other, then. To throw a kid into the hussle and bussle of a public school after being at home would be very confusing, I would imagine.
The state here sends cds to the home on there classes which they do on a computer every day,almost like being in a class room,just no other kids in the room.They get tests and are graded just like if they were in public school,if they need help or don't understand there is a help line to contact at all times.
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Aug 21, 2010 12:10 PM CST Home Schooling
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
DodgeBabe: Excellent!

Thanks, PA. Good post.

I would tend to agree with you.

I believe that children are much better off to attend mainstream schools, because they are more likely to develop the skills needed to deal with life.

Home schooling to me, from what I have learnt is too closeted, and can do more harm than good.

Depends on the choice of schools available though, I guess.


I used to agree with you about mainstream schools, but I have now changed my mind.

I withdrew my daughter from school soon after she turned 15. She has a package of specific learning issues, including dyslexia. After 11 years of trying to get these needs addressed it got to the point where she had been shouted at and punished so frequently that she could not take anymore.

I considered home schooling, but think it would have been a negative experience for both of us. Luckily, I managed to get her into college a year early and she is now flying, both with her education and her personal development.

Jac xxx
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Aug 21, 2010 12:12 PM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
demonfairy: The state here sends cds to the home on there classes which they do on a computer every day,almost like being in a class room,just no other kids in the room.They get tests and are graded just like if they were in public school,if they need help or don't understand there is a help line to contact at all times.


That kind of home schooling I think is fine, DF.thumbs up At least then they are being kept up to date with what is in the mainstream curriculum.

I know of lots of children in Australia who are homeschooled through necessity due to distance, and go to school via radio link ups to professional teaching schools.

wine
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Aug 21, 2010 12:12 PM CST Home Schooling
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
I am neither for nor against. However, I will say that some of the parents who home school don't seem capable of it.

A good example was the family who lived next door to me.
Mom worked. Dad stayed home and home schooled. The children were out playing all day so I don't know how they ever received any lessons.

One good thing about homeschooling in this town is that the kids are allowed to be in activities in the school such as sports so they aren't entirely alienated from kids their own age.
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Aug 21, 2010 12:15 PM CST Home Schooling
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
ladyfingers: I am neither for nor against. However, I will say that some of the parents who home school don't seem capable of it.

A good example was the family who lived next door to me.
Mom worked. Dad stayed home and home schooled. The children were out playing all day so I don't know how they ever received any lessons.

One good thing about homeschooling in this town is that the kids are allowed to be in activities in the school such as sports so they aren't entirely alienated from kids their own age.


What a great idea, LF!thumbs up

Best of both worlds.

I do think thats important.

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Aug 21, 2010 12:19 PM CST Home Schooling
Proudamerican100
Proudamerican100Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 570 Posts
ladyfingers: I am neither for nor against. However, I will say that some of the parents who home school don't seem capable of it.

A good example was the family who lived next door to me.
Mom worked. Dad stayed home and home schooled. The children were out playing all day so I don't know how they ever received any lessons.

One good thing about homeschooling in this town is that the kids are allowed to be in activities in the school such as sports so they aren't entirely alienated from kids their own age.
That is great. I do not know of any towns that do that. But I am sure they are out there I just did not have the knowledge to ask about something like that. I like that idea and would love to see more towns put it into place.
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Aug 21, 2010 12:20 PM CST Home Schooling
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
My father "Home Schooled" me with a strap a few times growing up....professor laugh
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Aug 21, 2010 12:21 PM CST Home Schooling
K_rational
K_rationalK_rationalTaipei, Taiwan10 Threads 257 Posts
DodgeBabe: What are your views on home schooling for our children?


Most of those calling for home schooling aren't trying to educate children. They're trying to prevent them from being educated and inflicting a narrow (minded) dogma on children. Their view is, to paraphrase George Bu**sh**, "I'll never educate my children. I don't care what the facts are."

Just this week, the idiot who runs conservapedia said that Einstein's theory of relativity should not be taught in schools because it conflicts with the buybull. Conservapedia calls relativity a "liberal conspiracy"; 70 years ago, it was called "jewish science". The accusations sound exactly the same to me.

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