Does it work with your Ex? (27)
devonboydevon, Devon, England UK8 Threads 12 PostsI have just started talking to my ex again and we seem to be getting on well but i am unsure if i want it to become anything more than friendship. it has been over a year and i think she wants to be together again. Help 
sorry to be cynical but... has she given you the line "I realise i amde the biggest mistake of my life" yet? if not it will come......she sees you as safe and may not want you back but dosent want to let you go either...I hope you prove me wrong as there are cases of this working out fine... actually I am going to a wedding in the 23rd of a couple who are marrying each other for the 2nd time.but this is very rare.
and above all dont forget SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON...if you are unhappy alone please dont settle for second best just to be with someone...it can lonlier in being part of an unhappy couple than being alone.
kepp us informed and good luck no matter what you decide
and above all dont forget SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON...if you are unhappy alone please dont settle for second best just to be with someone...it can lonlier in being part of an unhappy couple than being alone.
kepp us informed and good luck no matter what you decide
Hi Devon , I just had to look at your age .. 21 ? In order that you get back together , both of you must consider
1 - Have you changed ?
2 - Has she changed ?
3 - I am not sure if you have any children . If you have not and you are not sure , then things will get a lot more complicated if she get pregnant . If you have children , then they will get hurt again .
Take a long long time considering the issue . You need a frank , sober and unromantic get-together discussing it all .
There are councillors out there who are good at their job .. Find them and take advice .
Good luck
1 - Have you changed ?
2 - Has she changed ?
3 - I am not sure if you have any children . If you have not and you are not sure , then things will get a lot more complicated if she get pregnant . If you have children , then they will get hurt again .
Take a long long time considering the issue . You need a frank , sober and unromantic get-together discussing it all .
There are councillors out there who are good at their job .. Find them and take advice .
Good luck
im exactly the same position mate, except my ex tells whose she seeing and whats shes doing. it grates because im not with anyone. mostly because im pursueing my dream. I left her and this is prpbably her way of getting back at me. i would n't go back to her because she seeing somebody else allegedly, and ex's always play games. don't go back mate, move on and make her realise that ure not as trapped in the past as she mmy be.
I can not post on this thread because its fricking daft(not the thread my ex)
Hi, i found personally that being friends with the ex nearly always ends up crossing the line, but then it depends how long you were together i guess. If you were with your partner for a long period of time, you fall into a "comfortable" situation all to easy. As they say better the devil you know !!
Hi, i found personally that being friends with the ex nearly always ends up crossing the line, but then it depends how long you were together i guess. If you were with your partner for a long period of time, you fall into a "comfortable" situation all to easy. As they say better the devil you know !!
I think in all honesty, if you (or the ex) finished the relationship, then it was for a good reason, Has that situation changed? or will you be facing the same problems again?
I think in all honesty, if you (or the ex) finished the relationship, then it was for a good reason, Has that situation changed? or will you be facing the same problems again?
id like to communicate with my ex...through a medium preferably 
If you want to keep it just friends then make this clear to your ex
imo ex's trying to get back together doesn't work.
imo ex's trying to get back together doesn't work.
lol 
hi chriss, 
i have no contact with my ex...just threw his parents mediators....it is better that way for us. often times you have to look at the situation like this. they are EX's for a reason.....I would not date an ex over again, but my one ex boyfriend from many moons ago and I are just friends....He remained close with my family and some mutual friends. (but everytime he sees me he still makes some sort of reference to when we were together..or if hes drinking he'll say "you know you miss me" . Drives me nuts I laugh and walk away!
hello froggy fancy meeting you here lol
I think u need 2 follow ur heart no1 can give u an answer but urself. It could work out but then again it could not and u need 2 deceide how ur gonna feel if it doesnt. If u still wanna b with her u only live once and the worst thing in life is to hav regrets. Good luck
xxx
xxx
Well put Scarlet...welcome to the forum...enjoy and make friends 
hello scarlet welcome to the forums hun,, hope that you enjoy it, :)nice to meet you
Hi scarlet and welcome, we dont bite, but some of us like to nibble.
i thort u was in to biting ramon? hahahaha
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