Advice needed .. wedding photos... (50)

Aug 28, 2010 12:30 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
aenglishman
aenglishmanaenglishmanmilano, Lombardy Italy7 Posts
Ok, first, he's probebly telling the truth but not the whole truth. He wants the kids to see it and tell their mother so she knows he still loves her.

"Does he still have that picture of me in his living room?"

"He does, huh"

"Oh, there was no reason, just curious"

Second, it's her problem not his. She might like to concider where she stands in all this.

Next, Offering the photo to his children is a great idea. If there's confict go back to; second.

PS i liked the astology thing yesterday.bouquet
Aug 28, 2010 4:21 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Don't have pictures of my ex on my walls,and with the gift from my new G/F, the threat "see what happen" means, lets go out ,have dinner to celebrate.-wave
Phoenix: This has to intresting...What would you do???? keep it in perspective..Your divorced..and have a new GF-partener. And she objects to the pic of you happy harried hanging on your living room wall and she (your good lady friend) replaced it..

What would you do chris...? Whats the threat..beef it out..
Aug 28, 2010 4:30 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
I think nobody understood my sense of humor.-don't have pictures of my ex on my walls,and as i posted to "Phoenix",with a picture as a nice gift,the same night out to dinner to celebratewave
josingleinspain: So will you get mad at your g/f that lives with you if she got you a nice gift?????????????/
Aug 28, 2010 4:37 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
You know,when you place a rope around someones neck.rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Conrad73: what you mean by "HANG"?
Aug 29, 2010 12:38 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
u2Kitty: Hi Smoky

Good idea: Get an invitation to the house!! And when entering the diningroom, you should show particular interest for that photo!!

1) Who is that on the photo? (Oh.. Isn`t that xxx)
2) But I thought you were divorced??
3) Then why do you still keep this photo??? hahaha
4) My thoughts are: the past belong in the past..
5) (And then to your GF) It must be hard for you being watched by her everytime you are here??? hahaha

Would probably give him something to think about??
cheering Hello Kitty! Nice to see you back here!cheers

And you know what? I could not wait to get here to tell you what ACTUALLY happened!!!!

I DID get an invitation ..... and I DID SHOW PARTICULAR INTEREST FOR THAT PHOTO! .... hahahaha...... I walked up to it and asked if that was "you and ex" (to the boyfriend) ......

....And said "But I thought you were divorced?"

.....and then I said "But why you still got THIS on your wall? .. If I was your girlfriend I would have drawn a nice moustache and horns on her ..... it will improve her appearance" .....

.... and he said "Ja, you are right .... I just left it here cause all the walls are so bare ... but I dont really like or want it anymore ... I`ll give it to my daughter " ...... and he removed it and chucked it into a draw...

Soooo .... I was saved a LOT of trouble! ... AND the problem just sort-of solved itself!! .. without any drama!

Funny how something trivial can assume giant proportions ... and then just fizzle itself out?!!!!

And thank you everyone for your wonderful suggestions.

I wonder what the next problem is gonna be? ...hahahahaaaaaaa

teddybear
Aug 29, 2010 2:06 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
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Way to go Smoky - right after (my) the book!! I wish I had been a fly on the wall there. Was your girlfriend around when you were there??

This makes me feel a bit like an oracle but I guess thats OK cool

Come up with next prob peace

hug
Aug 29, 2010 4:47 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
I have photos of me and my ex all over the flat. It doesn´t mean I still think of him, rather that I spent most of my adult life with him therefore most of the photos from 18 tears of age upwards I have he is there, along with our two kids in some.

I do understand how a prospective lover might get a bit upset by it though.
Aug 30, 2010 9:01 AM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
JAN_is: I have photos of me and my ex all over the flat. It doesn´t mean I still think of him, rather that I spent most of my adult life with him therefore most of the photos from 18 tears of age upwards I have he is there, along with our two kids in some.

I do understand how a prospective lover might get a bit upset by it though.
Ja, with the children is sort-of normal.

But this was a room, with nails sticking out where she`d removed all the photos, leaving just this one wedding picture. All the childrens photos had been taken. So it pretty much stood out - like a dog turd on the wall......hahahaaa..... And I realised he was just a guy with too much other stuff to do and not into re-decorating, as such.

He does have one other, propped up on a side table .... a huge big family gathering one, grandparents, parents, brothers, sisters ..... and the wife is in that ... but its not an "offensive" photo ... like the wedding one of just him and her.

Anyway, ats OFF the wall now ... and on its way out ......
Aug 31, 2010 1:08 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
smoky:



...all stuff a guy would NEVER buy for his house!



I think there s a reason for that, Smoky laugh
Aug 31, 2010 1:51 PM CST Advice needed .. wedding photos...
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
rytcharlie: I think there s a reason for that, Smoky
And what is that reason?........grin

Ja, I just cannot imagine a manly man buying kissy red lips candle holder ...... or kitty sleeping under dog ear door mat ...... and buying himself a "I love you" cigarette lighter .....?

You mean stuff like that?

Nah ... a man would just throw down an old Tshirt to wipe his feet on ... and use an old family heirloom cast-iron candle holder dripping wax all over the table thing ......... and he`d have an assortment of old plastic lighters he filched from his pals at the pub .......rolling on the floor laughing
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