As an afterthought of the Cork meet (94)
SereneGreen: Was thinking (as you do ... well I do intermittently)I know how I perceive people to be in my own head from the forums and I like to think I'm a fairly good judge. But how did/does everyone else find it when they met others for the first time?
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
SereneGreen: Was thinking (as you do ... well I do intermittently)I know how I perceive people to be in my own head from the forums and I like to think I'm a fairly good judge. But how did/does everyone else find it when they met others for the first time?
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
Wow brilliant thread idea........but I cant comment as I havent met you .....yet
JustLittleMe: Wow brilliant thread idea........but I cant comment as I havent met you .....yet
One day...maybe not today..maybe not tomorrow but soon 
I didn't really mean what people thought of me...jaysus wouldn't really think i'd like to know tbh but of everyone there in general..
I've only been to a couple of meets. The people I met were more or less as I expected them to be.
wexlady41: I've only been to a couple of meets. The people I met were more or less as I expected them to be.
Well the met I went, I found everyone to be a lot more fun in real life.
I've had one thing said to me a couple of times at the meets but it was not about my personality. People are surprised at my height!!!
70Libra: I've had one thing said to me a couple of times at the meets but it was not about my personality. People are surprised at my height!!!
People are astonished by my boyish good looks, magnetic personality and total lack of self honesty!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
SereneGreen: Was thinking (as you do ... well I do intermittently)I know how I perceive people to be in my own head from the forums and I like to think I'm a fairly good judge. But how did/does everyone else find it when they met others for the first time?
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
Well that a very good question from my point of view becaue I have watched the forums and have built up an impression of people in my own head but up until today declined to comment until I met some of ye and I had that pleasure for the first time last night, you do get to form some perception of a personality and sence of humour reading the posts, how ever i think meeting anyone for the first time is daunting for anyone and that works both ways whether it is your first meet or the first time meeting anyone. people can be a bit apprehensive on how to approach a person i know I was last night, but on my arrival i was made feel at ease straight away, i did'nt get arount to meeting every one last night but god willing the next time will be that bit easier. Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
BETTSY: Well that a very good question from my point of view becaue I have watched the forums and have built up an impression of people in my own head but up until today declined to comment until I met some of ye and I had that pleasure for the first time last night, you do get to form some perception of a personality and sence of humour reading the posts, how ever i think meeting anyone for the first time is daunting for anyone and that works both ways whether it is your first meet or the first time meeting anyone. people can be a bit apprehensive on how to approach a person i know I was last night, but on my arrival i was made feel at ease straight away, i did'nt get arount to meeting every one last night but god willing the next time will be that bit easier.
it gets easier the more meets you go to
Godsgift: People are astonished by my boyish good looks, magnetic personality and total lack of self honesty!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
Astonished you say huh The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
sweetvelvet: it gets easier the more meets you go to
Indeed I agree with SV Cork was my third meet, popped into another meet a few months ago just to say Hi coz I couldnt stay...but after those three I would have no issue walking into a meet on my own 
SereneGreen: Was thinking (as you do ... well I do intermittently)I know how I perceive people to be in my own head from the forums and I like to think I'm a fairly good judge. But how did/does everyone else find it when they met others for the first time?
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
Did the people match your expectations...physically and in personality
Just me being nosey again
I was nervous as it was my first meet, but everyone made me feel welcome and it was good to put a real face to the names. Looking forward to the next one!
Godsgift: People are astonished by my boyish good looks, magnetic personality and total lack of self honesty!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
theres also your great sense of humour
Godsgift: People are astonished by my boyish good looks, magnetic personality and total lack of self honesty!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
legend in his own mindThe meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
Godsgift: People are astonished by my boyish good looks, magnetic personality and total lack of self honesty!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
The meets make people more human to me so if I can tell if someone is just having a laugh with me or having a dig at me! You know how the forums often don't transmit the humour!
I was astonished at how modest you are
DUBLINGUY1973: I was astonished at how modest you are
It is an astonishing thing!
leisure07: legend in his own mind
gods lengendyeah i would be the same.. my first meet was a small one in the vat house and everyone that attended that looked the way imagined and personality wise pretty much the same.. other bigger meets ive been to there was one or two that shocked me be it they weren't as outspoken or mouthy as they were online.. or others who looked far better than their pics but in general i wouldn't have anything bad to say plus i try not to perceive people by the way they act online as what you see in people especially online is what they chose to show you... 
Modern_Fairy: yeah i would be the same.. my first meet was a small one in the vat house and everyone that attended that looked the way imagined and personality wise pretty much the same.. other bigger meets ive been to there was one or two that shocked me be it they weren't as outspoken or mouthy as they were online.. or others who looked far better than their pics but in general i wouldn't have anything bad to say plus i try not to perceive people by the way they act online as what you see in people especially online is what they chose to show you...
Very wise words
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