What if you arent a "stick" woman? (21)

Are there men out there that arent after a "stick" or model type woman? Where does a short overweight, but otherwise great single woman look for such a man?

I wonder about that myself....

Don't give up gr33n 3y3s. There are men that will appreciate a woman like us. If they gave you a chance, they'd never know what hit them.

Do we want a stick boy... or a man that has lots of muscles but not much else?

I love teddy bears ... I'd rather have soft and cuddly. (JMO)

A real woman has stretch marks, softness, sags and wags. We earned them and they are a badge of honor proving we are real women. If a man wants a stick woman... how about just getting a broom and sticking a dress on it....

If you think about and talk about short and over weight all the time I don't have an answer. If you are confident, engaging and know you are much more than weight and smile at life and try and grasp all it offers then people would be foolish to pass you by without taking a chance.

Any type of woman can light up a room when she walks in and most of that is energy and personality.

Obviously not at the same place that those stick women go to no???

Different strokes for different folks.... you'll find THE BEST man...just a matter of time....

I've been a full figured woman for most of my life and slim, or skinny model type women (as you put it) don't influence me or the men I want to get to know....

hey, who's to say that those slimmer women are having the same problem??? you neeeeeeeeeeever know

JMO

Cheers

Curvy

Thats what makes a woman attractive.
Living life as what it is and not wasting time lamenting about what ifs or if only s. I think the only limits are those we place on ourselves.
When I wrap my arms around a lady and squeeze her close It makes me smile to see her smile and it's just us in the moment. If she says something about weight when that happens it's not the same and in a way sad that she can not even allow herself to enjoy the company holding her and thinking she is special because of an image her mind will not let go

gr33n_3y3s: Are there men out there that arent after a "stick" or model type woman? Where does a short overweight, but otherwise great single woman look for such a man?


Don't give up gr33n 3y3s. There are men that will appreciate a woman like us. If they gave you a chance, they'd never know what hit them.

Do we want a stick boy... or a man that has lots of muscles but not much else?

I love teddy bears ... I'd rather have soft and cuddly. (JMO)

A real woman has stretch marks, softness, sags and wags. We earned them and they are a badge of honor proving we are real women. If a man wants a stick woman... how about just getting a broom and sticking a dress on it....



Try and read a neat little book entitled "Fat, Broke& Lonely NO MORE!" (You're Personal Solution to Overeating,Overspending and Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places)
It's written by Victoria Moran 2007, published by Harper One, a division of Harper Collins Publisher. Victoria Moran is a very well known author.
As far as putting dresses on brooms....sure it's practical as you then at least have a broom to sweep up, but then one has various models of the ol' blow-up doll and some solid foam models. Many now come with a vocabulary of somewhat questionable stock phrases, mostly cursing which some males like; some have push button menus and can even play music, yell and scream though for what type of scenario, I shutter to think. Most also come with a somewhat limited wardrobe, the ubiquitous black garter belt and mesh stockings and various coloured wigs are stock. Males would have to go shopping for anything else, even remotely considered 'normal attire'...and no, not at Victoria's secret but some store, rather mundane such as a Wall mart or Zeller's...and perhaps a bottle or 2 of some cheap wine like Thunderbird, Big Apple or Chateau Chevrolet...2007 vintage