STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON .. (33)

Sep 12, 2010 2:38 PM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
JAN_is: I don´t think there is any stigma at all these days. More and more people are single, young and older for various reasons. My daughter is 30, and many of her friends a little older are still single and I have no worries about that, it seems to be more the norm nowadays.

Sometimes well-meaning friends who are in relationships, usually long marriages in my experience, may try to fix you up with someone or want you to be in a relationship, but that´s their failure to understand the concept of being single in middle-age fully. I know, I felt the same way when I was married and wanted all my single friends to hook up and be as happy as I was.

Even my mum, who for a few years after my divorce was absurdly keen for me to meet somebody, now thinks I´m best alone, or at least until someone really worthy of me comes along.

Fortunately I have a good mix of friends, married, in relationships, and single, so I rarely feel any pressure to jump into something just because....know what I mean?


yes .. I know exactly .. it's gotta be perfect thumbs up
Sep 13, 2010 2:38 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
Mazza1970
Mazza1970Mazza1970Lemesos, Limassol Cyprus1 Threads 626 Posts
tomboygirl: Did hanging out with your mummy this weekend make you suicidal??!

cheer up honeybuns!


nope it was the fact that i was so close to u, and yet so far that made me suicidal doh
Sep 13, 2010 2:54 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
tomboygirl: Did hanging out with your mummy this weekend make you suicidal??!

cheer up honeybuns!


it must be monday morning laugh
Sep 13, 2010 2:59 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
Mazza1970
Mazza1970Mazza1970Lemesos, Limassol Cyprus1 Threads 626 Posts
rytcharlie: it must be monday morning


totally frustrated
Sep 13, 2010 7:36 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Mazza1970: nope it was the fact that i was so close to u, and yet so far that made me suicidal


comfort
Sep 13, 2010 8:02 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
Mazza1970
Mazza1970Mazza1970Lemesos, Limassol Cyprus1 Threads 626 Posts
thats it caress me some more madam blushing
Sep 13, 2010 8:22 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Mazza1970: thats it caress me some more madam


naa...uh oh I think you like it a bit too much..uh oh
Sep 13, 2010 8:23 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
Mazza1970
Mazza1970Mazza1970Lemesos, Limassol Cyprus1 Threads 626 Posts
tomboygirl: naa... I think you like it a bit too much..


blame charlie for reminding me about ur pretty ankle dunno
Sep 13, 2010 8:29 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Mazza1970: blame charlie for reminding me about ur pretty ankle


you needed reminding??!

doh I'm losing my touch!crying
Sep 13, 2010 8:33 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
Mazza1970
Mazza1970Mazza1970Lemesos, Limassol Cyprus1 Threads 626 Posts
tomboygirl: you needed reminding??!

I'm losing my touch!


u should of done like KFC and included some thigh, then we defo wouldnt need reminding yay
Sep 13, 2010 10:54 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
I dunno if you can call it a "stigma", as such.......?

I do know, in the BBD (Before Boyfriend Days) ...... I would get the remark ..."You are always alone" .......confused

So, now I have my revenge ...... Now I got the smug look ...hahahaaaaa.....

Nothing nicer than to have someone come looking for me when I`m cleaning up the kitchen during a party ......or doing other necessary things, that I used to do in the BBD times....grin ...without anyone even noticing my absence!
Sep 17, 2010 11:47 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
freedom's just another word for nothin left to lose .. and nothin aint worth notin but it's free heee heee - nothin is all that she left me heee heee dancing

Sep 18, 2010 3:54 AM CST STIGMA AND THE SINGLETON ..
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
smoky: Ja Elley ...... that is also what is nice huh?!

I look forward to my Private time, all alone ... when I can just make myself a most unhealthy snack, laze on my bed, read and eat like a pig, and have absolutely no-body commenting on my lifestyle!

And if I feel like going out for a beer .... I can go out for a beer .... I can even get drunk if I feel like it!

Nice to have a BF in the background ..... but I dunno so much about having anyone around Full-Time!!




Yep ..... sounds good to me.. thumbs up grin
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