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Sep 16, 2010 10:58 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
just_wondering
just_wonderingjust_wonderingSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 37 Posts
Are any of these sites real?
Is there really women from Eastern or Western European or other countries that want to come to North America?
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Sep 16, 2010 11:04 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
just_wondering: Are any of these sites real?
Is there really women from Eastern or Western European or other countries that want to come to North America?


It's funny...your post has a Russian Love site over it and an African Queen site under it. Think they're trying to tell you something?

There are many sites with women who would do almost anything to escape their country of origin and live in the US or Canada.
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Sep 16, 2010 11:08 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
just_wondering
just_wonderingjust_wonderingSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 37 Posts
but are these site just wanting you to pay and pay and is there really women at the other ends of these sites?
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Sep 16, 2010 11:15 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
just_wondering: but are these site just wanting you to pay and pay and is there really women at the other ends of these sites?


I would suggest one of the Russian sites like Russian Marriage. There are literally thousands of women in Russia that are tired of the alcoholic men in their countries (with a collapsed economy from the fall of communism many turned to heavy drinking). Join one of the sites and find out. I am not sure of the costs but you would probably be directed to fly over there and meet some of the women you choose to meet. No one in their right mind buys a pig in a poke (an unknown quantity and quality) and you would see the women in their native background. Some men have been disappointed in their choices as they felt they were just used to get into the states or Canada but you will have to judge for yourself. handshake

Good luck
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Sep 16, 2010 11:18 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
Im wondering how they fit them through that little slot in the mailbox...

and if you get something other than what you ordered is there a return address or at least a 0900 number you can call?grin
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Sep 16, 2010 11:26 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
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Sep 16, 2010 11:35 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
just_wondering: Are any of these sites real?
Is there really women from Eastern or Western European or other countries that want to come to North America?
I think u should have enough offers, u r in a free country dunno
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Sep 16, 2010 11:39 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
just_wondering
just_wonderingjust_wonderingSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 37 Posts
gininitaly: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOi44zp97yI&feature=fvw


that was good
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Sep 16, 2010 11:44 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
You've got no guarantee that she'll stay with you once she gets her papers, also not to mention the possible heartbreak , you'll also suffer monetary loss, I'd look elsewhere if I were you. JMO
Good Luck cheers
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Sep 16, 2010 11:51 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Desertguy49: You've got no guarantee that she'll stay with you once she gets her papers, also not to mention the possible heartbreak , you'll also suffer monetary loss, I'd look elsewhere if I were you. JMO
Good Luck



Agree wine

There are agencies here, and no doubt in many other places, to assist women who have come to this country under those circumstances to achieve divorce and property settlement efficiently and quickly.

Not to say that they are set up expressly as a means to an end, but there would have to be many instances of this for agencies to exist and continue operating.
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Sep 16, 2010 11:52 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
DjWabbet: Im wondering how they fit them through that little slot in the mailbox...

and if you get something other than what you ordered is there a return address or at least a 0900 number you can call?


doh

idea

I actually manufacture woman shaped slots for your front door. For €10,000 I shall send you one plus fitting instructions!

Please forward payment to:

Oneborneveryminute
National Bank of Nigeria

grin
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Sep 16, 2010 11:53 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
Aside from the levity that most western women feel about this whole situation... and why is that you wonder? Because we know that women are women... wherever they come from, something that so many men hope isn't so innocent .

Do I believe that these sites are real and that there are real women looking for a better life... or something of benefit to them?

Absolutely... but it's no fantasy Stepford wife who will be walking through that door. But a woman like those all around you, no better, no worse... just a bit quieter at the start and probably a bit less spoiled. Some are greedy and some are nice... and some will be much more than you bargained for doh . And YOU my dear, may not be what they bargained for either... just because they come from a foreign country does not make them stupid... if they are taking this risk at all, it would be to improve what they've had up to now... so you could also ask, are you worth it?



Why don't you simply google "expose' on mail order brides" to get out of dreamland and into the real world.

Personally I see you as an attractive young man... what in the world makes you want to consider this?

sad flower
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Sep 16, 2010 11:54 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
gininitaly: Aside from the levity that most western women feel about this whole situation... and why is that you wonder? Because we know that women are women... wherever they come from, something that so many men hope isn't so .

Do I believe that these sites are real and that there are real women looking for a better life... or something of benefit to them?

Absolutely... but it's no fantasy Stepford wife who will be walking through that door. But a woman like those all around you, no better, no worse... just a bit quieter at the start and probably a bit less spoiled. Some are greedy and some are nice... and some will be much more than you bargained for . And YOU my dear, may not be what they bargained for either... just because they come from a foreign country does not make them stupid... if they are taking this risk at all, it would be to improve what they've had up to now... so you could also ask, are you worth it?



Why don't you simply google "expose' on mail order brides" to get out of dreamland and into the real world.

Personally I see you as an attractive young man... what in the world makes you want to consider this?


Well said thumbs up thumbs up
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Sep 16, 2010 11:58 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
gininitaly: Aside from the levity that most western women feel about this whole situation... and why is that you wonder? Because we know that women are women... wherever they come from, something that so many men hope isn't so .

Do I believe that these sites are real and that there are real women looking for a better life... or something of benefit to them?

Absolutely... but it's no fantasy Stepford wife who will be walking through that door. But a woman like those all around you, no better, no worse... just a bit quieter at the start and probably a bit less spoiled. Some are greedy and some are nice... and some will be much more than you bargained for . And YOU my dear, may not be what they bargained for either... just because they come from a foreign country does not make them stupid... if they are taking this risk at all, it would be to improve what they've had up to now... so you could also ask, are you worth it?



Why don't you simply google "expose' on mail order brides" to get out of dreamland and into the real world.

Personally I see you as an attractive young man... what in the world makes you want to consider this?
thumbs up thumbs up what she says is all true lads.....btw loved ur video gini....soo funnycheers hug laugh
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Sep 16, 2010 11:58 PM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
just_wondering
just_wonderingjust_wonderingSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 37 Posts
Desertguy49: You've got no guarantee that she'll stay with you once she gets her papers, also not to mention the possible heartbreak , you'll also suffer monetary loss, I'd look elsewhere if I were you. JMO
Good Luck


Monetary lose have you ever been divorced rolling on the floor laughing
Heartbreak well lets be honest would it really be any different than meeting some one off a site like this one who know

If you treat her good and she leaves that all you can do right.
Divorce rates are through the roof so what guarantee do you have anything will be any better with a girl from your own country at least you both know what you’re getting into in this type of relationship.
cheers
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Sep 17, 2010 12:05 AM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
just_wondering
just_wonderingjust_wonderingSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Threads 1 Polls 37 Posts
gininitaly: Aside from the levity that most western women feel about this whole situation... and why is that you wonder? Because we know that women are women... wherever they come from, something that so many men hope isn't so .

Do I believe that these sites are real and that there are real women looking for a better life... or something of benefit to them?

Absolutely... but it's no fantasy Stepford wife who will be walking through that door. But a woman like those all around you, no better, no worse... just a bit quieter at the start and probably a bit less spoiled. Some are greedy and some are nice... and some will be much more than you bargained for . And YOU my dear, may not be what they bargained for either... just because they come from a foreign country does not make them stupid... if they are taking this risk at all, it would be to improve what they've had up to now... so you could also ask, are you worth it?



Why don't you simply google "expose' on mail order brides" to get out of dreamland and into the real world.

Personally I see you as an attractive young man... what in the world makes you want to consider this?






I am not disagreeing with anything you said I just want to know why these women would want to come to North america.
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Sep 17, 2010 12:16 AM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
But that's the point darlin'.... here on these sites at least there a lot less headaches... and paperwork. I do hear your want of a mate, but you have to do your homework just like the rest of us... you have to know yourself, know what are willing to give to get what you want, then you have to maintain it. It can never be the attitude "Hey I married you, so be happy with what I dish out". scold

I wouldn't call the mail order option a 'relationship' or a cure for divorce... divorce starts with US. Relationships require mutual commitment and compromise, respect and consideration, if one or the other isn't willing to do the work, unions crumble.

Wouldn't this be far easier to figure out close to home?
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Sep 17, 2010 12:19 AM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
In response to: Do I believe that these sites are real and that there are real women looking for a better life... or something of benefit to them?


Obviously because they want MORE than they've had. Can you offer that? A better life, more options, financial security?
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Sep 17, 2010 12:20 AM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
just_wondering: I am not disagreeing with anything you said I just want to know why these women would want to come to North america.


Because some of these women are living in utter poverty.. why wouldnt they want a better life? This is one way to have a better life, with more opportunities, a chance to feel safe, raise a family, maybe support their own families back home, get an education if they have been denied that.
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Sep 17, 2010 12:23 AM CST MAIL ORDER BRIDES
rizlared
rizlaredrizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
just_wondering: I am not disagreeing with anything you said I just want to know why these women would want to come to North america.

Because, since the opening up of the west to countries such as Russia, Ukraine, China etc, they see the west as a land full of wealthy successful people, a land of milk and honey, this is generated by western movies, Tv and media in general.
My students, all intelligent, truly believe that American families all live in 5 bedroomed houses with 3 cars, a pool and staff to run the home, even the English text books we use perpetuate this belief, when I explain the reality they are disappointed.
However, that said, even a lowly factory worker in the west has on average a better lifestyle than many from the eastern block.
If you are honest when communicating with ladies from Russia etc, explain the true way of life, that will sort the wheat from the chaff, there are hundreds if not thousands of successful marriages produced from these sites, honesty and communication are the key factors. IMO
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