Sumbody I known for 30 years couldnt get a job anywhere. So he deceiced a few days ago to aply for a job in the hospitail I am working in. Years ago he started to train as a nurse twice but always walked out. So never trained as a nurse. And used me as a way in without me knowing. He got a job there as a helper on the ward I am working at now. In the process of getting the job he told them that I told him to apply there and that I think he was the one for the job.
I never ever would have said that as he is unrealiable. Never turns up for work after a while. Never told him there was a job going.
Sumbody I known for 30 years couldnt get a job anywhere. So he deceiced a few days ago to aply for a job in the hospitail I am working in. Years ago he started to train as a nurse twice but always walked out. So never trained as a nurse. And used me as a way in without me knowing. He got a job there as a helper on the ward I am working at now. In the process of getting the job he told them that I told him to apply there and that I think he was the one for the job.
I never ever would have said that as he is unrealiable. Never turns up for work after a while. Never told him there was a job going.
Sumbody I known for 30 years couldnt get a job anywhere. So he deceiced a few days ago to aply for a job in the hospitail I am working in. Years ago he started to train as a nurse twice but always walked out. So never trained as a nurse. And used me as a way in without me knowing. He got a job there as a helper on the ward I am working at now. In the process of getting the job he told them that I told him to apply there and that I think he was the one for the job. I never ever would have said that as he is unrealiable. Never turns up for work after a while. Never told him there was a job going.
What am I am going to do????????????
Fairydream
Maybe set your workplace straight as to what you did not tell him and let them see for themselves as you did not tell him this...
ain't your problem....if the issue is brought to your attention and asked about it....you just the truth...he lied....
...has he got a written and signed recommendation from you?...so why worry??
Hallo Gozoman2
A written recomendation no,not even a verbal one. Why worry ???? I started there two years ago and got a very good reputation and worked my way up. Thats all I need now. Can you kill people who do things like that to you.
Sumbody I known for 30 years couldnt get a job anywhere. So he deceiced a few days ago to aply for a job in the hospitail I am working in. Years ago he started to train as a nurse twice but always walked out. So never trained as a nurse. And used me as a way in without me knowing. He got a job there as a helper on the ward I am working at now. In the process of getting the job he told them that I told him to apply there and that I think he was the one for the job.
I never ever would have said that as he is unrealiable. Never turns up for work after a while. Never told him there was a job going.
What am I am going to do????????????
Fairydream
spill the beans before it comes and bites u in the (_|_)
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
fairydream666: Hi Jac
I am off at the mo. Not in work till Monday. He has got the job today and allready been to the ward. Told a nurse there that he knows me well and we are friends. Far from it. I know him thats all. The nurse a friend called me to tell me . Me in total schock. I think you are right I have to safe my own a...
But do I call my boss, go there, wait till Monday. To put things straight??????
If you wait till Monday, you'll spoil your days off fretting about it.
If you go there, you're making a drama out of it and giving it more importance than it deserves.
Call her, say you were shocked, but now you've had a chance to think about it, you feel its important to clear things up. Don't forget to ask for her confidentiality, if you don't want it to get back to him. I'm sure she can find a way of dealing with things diplomatically, if that's the case.
I sincerely think you are getting worked over nothing....
....there is a very simple solution to get it out of your system...
...phone up your superior...and very calmly and with a smile...no panic....just talk of the situation as it evolved...
...an acquaintance of yours has applied and gotten a job in the ward.....and he gave the impression that he knows you...
...you do know the person...but have no idea of his capibilites nor of his efficiency....and even if he did say you recommended him....he lied about that...and you are not vouching for his performance....
jac379: If you wait till Monday, you'll spoil your days off fretting about it.
If you go there, you're making a drama out of it and giving it more importance than it deserves.
Call her, say you were shocked, but now you've had a chance to think about it, you feel its important to clear things up. Don't forget to ask for her confidentiality, if you don't want it to get back to him. I'm sure she can find a way of dealing with things diplomatically, if that's the case.
Jac xxx
Hallo Jac
Well I think you right I am going to call and I do it now as my boss goes home soon.And get it out of the way. To be honest I dont really care if he finds out. He lied and used me fullstop. And I am not having that. After that I call a friend who most likely got his number and asked him what he was playing at.
Thanks for the advive. I am just so schocked . How can people do something like that.
If your superiors never confirmed his story with you, you can not be responsable for his lies.
You mentioned that you knew this person for 30 years but never mentuioned that he was your friend. If i was in your position I would make it clear to this person that he had no right to use you as a referance without your knowlege or permision. I would also make it clear that under no circmstances are you going to cover the truth, if ever you are asked for it by your superiors.
potter1stafford, Staffordshire, England UK178 posts
fairydream666: Ups I might have said we always need staff as we so short staffed.
Hunny make it clear to your ward sister or admin that you had nothing to do with him getting the job,and warn them of his work record. That will put your bosses in the picture and what ever he does at work will not fall back on you. Good luck.
mazzd03: If your superiors never confirmed his story with you, you can not be responsable for his lies.
You mentioned that you knew this person for 30 years but never mentuioned that he was your friend. If i was in your position I would make it clear to this person that he had no right to use you as a referance without your knowlege or permision. I would also make it clear that under no circmstances are you going to cover the truth, if ever you are asked for it by your superiors.
Keep up the good work.
He isn´t a friend. He is a friend of a friend. I haven`t even got his number to get hold of him to tell him what I think....
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
fairydream666: Hallo Jac
Well I think you right I am going to call and I do it now as my boss goes home soon.And get it out of the way. To be honest I dont really care if he finds out. He lied and used me fullstop. And I am not having that. After that I call a friend who most likely got his number and asked him what he was playing at.
Thanks for the advive. I am just so schocked . How can people do something like that.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
gozoman2: I sincerely think you are getting worked over nothing....
....there is a very simple solution to get it out of your system...
...phone up your superior...and very calmly and with a smile...no panic....just talk of the situation as it evolved...
...an acquaintance of yours has applied and gotten a job in the ward.....and he gave the impression that he knows you...
...you do know the person...but have no idea of his capibilites nor of his efficiency....and even if he did say you recommended him....he lied about that...and you are not vouching for his performance....
ballerina9: deny EVERYTHING............LIE like a demon.............and most important of all......BLAME everything on EVERYBODY else
so you take your leasd from the Irish lads on the AGE THREAD...lol......I would wait 'til Monday and and show surprise that he is there and in clear earshot of your boss and others congratulate him on getting a job all on his own.....This way you clearly state you had nothing to do with him getting the job and do not look like someone who had anything to do with his appointment....And in addition if he does falter you are clearly not at fault...He then has no comeback on you if he gets the sack...And by acknowledging him this way you can confirm he is only a casual mate As always JMO......
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Sumbody I known for 30 years couldnt get a job anywhere. So he deceiced a few days ago to aply for a job in the hospitail I am working in. Years ago he started to train as a nurse twice but always walked out. So never trained as a nurse. And used me as a way in without me knowing. He got a job there as a helper on the ward I am working at now.
In the process of getting the job he told them that I told him to apply there and that I think he was the one for the job.
I never ever would have said that as he is unrealiable. Never turns up for work after a while.
Never told him there was a job going.
What am I am going to do????????????
Fairydream