10 steps to Learning to Date all over again! (81)
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts1.Keep things slow and easy.....2.Use your instincts....3.keep it realistic.....4.don't be desperately looking for someone to hold onto because you don't want to be alone.....5.don't let your actual wants and needs overwhelm reality......6.be honest with yourself....7.don't let your fears scare you.....8.understand the consequences that come with dating again.....9.most importantly be yourself again....10.bring out your highest qualities like you once did..............First we need to adjust mentally along with emotionally with what has happened to us in the past.A person has to adjust to the right mind frame from the after math,before dating again.it's difficult since people tend to compare their dates to there ex's...That can be a difficult burden in a relationship,even if you don't truly mean to do so.also you reflect on things that went wrong,so you have the fears about the same things possibly going wrong all over again.Before you date again,its about being in the right mindset again.when you're truly at peace with yourself,over the bitterness,you are ready to date again..........What do you think....
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My 10 steps: Count up to 9 and then call her number 
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your thread really hits home just got out of a 8 year realtionship so its about 2 months so i just barley getting over the anger and the bitterness so i finally healing hopefully .
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deadbutwhy: My 10 steps: Count up to 9 and then call her number
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lovely post DF 
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mugsup1980: your thread really hits home just got out of a 8 year realtionship so its about 2 months so i just barley getting over the anger and the bitterness so i finally healing hopefully .
:comfort It takes a while before anyone is ready again,theres a lot a person needs to work out in there mind before they can begain again... ------ This thread is Archived ------
plainlyjune: lovely post DF
Thanks i needed to put it in the top 10 list area,i didn't..
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I think that if love and war there are no rules.
Sounds familiar ...
Sounds familiar ...
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jeepers: I think that if love and war there are no rules.
Sounds familiar ...
We are just talking about dating....falling in love again is a whole different story...Sounds familiar ...
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demonfairy: We are just talking about dating....falling in love again is a whole different story...
You have to remember...every lady who's dated me is in love....
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I think bachelorhood works.
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demonfairy: Thanks i needed to put it in the top 10 list area,i didn't..
no worries, still a good reminder for everyone ------ This thread is Archived ------
demonfairy: yea,yea i have heard men say that before,next thing i know they had fell in love and got married,so never say never..
I didnt' mean I'd marry the dog. (just a point of clarification)
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demonfairy: i can't win with you
I got ya beat...I can't win w/me.
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Thanks dear D
I do not quite follow rules but be yourself is good to me.
I do not quite follow rules but be yourself is good to me.
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Very good post DF.
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i think that they are all 10 common sense statements....paradossaly when it comes to dating i guess that the common sense is inversely proportional to the interest that another person can inspire in us...
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Just this week was thinking of becoming a Buddhist nun but then.... Have to admit dating terrifies me. So will take your advice on board.
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demonfairy: 1.Keep things slow and easy.....2.Use your instincts....3.keep it realistic.....4.don't be desperately looking for someone to hold onto because you don't want to be alone.....5.don't let your actual wants and needs overwhelm reality......6.be honest with yourself....7.don't let your fears scare you.....8.understand the consequences that come with dating again.....9.most importantly be yourself again....10.bring out your highest qualities like you once did..............First we need to adjust mentally along with emotionally with what has happened to us in the past.A person has to adjust to the right mind frame from the after math,before dating again.it's difficult since people tend to compare their dates to there ex's...That can be a difficult burden in a relationship,even if you don't truly mean to do so.also you reflect on things that went wrong,so you have the fears about the same things possibly going wrong all over again.Before you date again,its about being in the right mindset again.when you're truly at peace with yourself,over the bitterness,you are ready to date again..........What do you think....
Hi fairy, thanks, is wonderful notes.
Have a sweet day ahead.
God bless u.
Kitty
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yes, pretty much
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