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Oct 12, 2010 6:21 AM CST Too Much Information
Zpaset
ZpasetZpasetLismore, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 6 Posts
Hi there, I’m new to internet dating and being very open and honest is just who I am.
I was just wondering, apart from the obvious what is too much info? When do you move past weather and onto more important stuff after all isn’t that why we are here?
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Oct 12, 2010 6:23 AM CST Too Much Information
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Zpaset: Hi there, I’m new to internet dating and being very open and honest is just who I am.
I was just wondering, apart from the obvious what is too much info? When do you move past weather and onto more important stuff after all isn’t that why we are here?


if your out on a first date are you going to bore the person with every detail of your life or are you going to listen to what they have to say as well and leave something for the second or third date?
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Oct 12, 2010 6:25 AM CST Too Much Information
Vetri32
Vetri32Vetri32Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore229 Posts
welocme virign, get reADY TO BE BE DEFLOWERED SOON- NOW
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Oct 12, 2010 6:27 AM CST Too Much Information
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
Zpaset: Hi there, I’m new to internet dating and being very open and honest is just who I am.
I was just wondering, apart from the obvious what is too much info? When do you move past weather and onto more important stuff after all isn’t that why we are here?


welcome to the Adam's Familygrin

danceline cswelcome
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Oct 12, 2010 6:28 AM CST Too Much Information
altina
altinaaltinabelgrade, Central Serbia Serbia746 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 12, 2010 6:29 AM CST Too Much Information
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
Vetri32: welocme virign, get reADY TO BE BE DEFLOWERED SOON- NOW
so gay roll eyes


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 12, 2010 6:30 AM CST Too Much Information
Vetri32
Vetri32Vetri32Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore229 Posts
all the better to hunp you later honey buns
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Oct 12, 2010 6:32 AM CST Too Much Information
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Well, your profile isn't overly verbose. How can we give you feedback without knowing what you are saying?

You can look at it two ways, maybe. If you are aware that your intensity in conversation has put people off, try to tone it down a bit, evolve your social skills.

On the other hand, if you are an intense person by nature, maybe you just need to be patient and wait for the right person who fits in with that.

Maybe a little of both.

Jac xxx wave
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Oct 12, 2010 6:36 AM CST Too Much Information
Zpaset
ZpasetZpasetLismore, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 6 Posts
that doesn’t help much, I’m an aspie so not very good at social interaction I prefer logical discourse on life the universe and everything but that just seems to scare people offconfused
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Oct 12, 2010 6:40 AM CST Too Much Information
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Yes as some have pointed out already ,,iff you have got skills talk about them first

But iff yoor skills include being a Witch Doctor or something similar ,,best to hold back on that till maybe the 3rd date ...

grin
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Oct 12, 2010 6:47 AM CST Too Much Information
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Zpaset: that doesn’t help much, I’m an aspie so not very good at social interaction I prefer logical discourse on life the universe and everything but that just seems to scare people off


Ok, I know enough about the Aspie thing, to know that everybody's traits are different. If you prefer logical discourse, can I assume you have an analytical mind?

What aspects of social interaction do you find difficult? Small talk? Chit chat? Jokes? Facial expressions?

Jac xxx

PS. Have you tried getting involved with, or making your own thread in the Religion, Spirituality and Philosophy section of the forums? They get pretty intense at times!

Jac xxx
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Oct 12, 2010 6:49 AM CST Too Much Information
SHERRY50
SHERRY50SHERRY50PORT MACQUARIE, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 185 Posts
Just try to be yourself!handshake
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Oct 12, 2010 6:49 AM CST Too Much Information
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
OMG.... someone has a new mouse....grin
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Oct 12, 2010 6:52 AM CST Too Much Information
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Boban1: OMG.... someone has a new mouse....


No, its just behaving itself for a minute, you cheeky git.

Jac xxx
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Oct 12, 2010 6:52 AM CST Too Much Information
SHERRY50: Just try to be yourself!


thumbs up

...you also got the possibility of shooting blogs on here....found out they do have some following too...but stop highlighting the problems before you have even started my friend....

...just talk the way you like to....those interested will give feedback....

...good luck....

wine
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Oct 12, 2010 6:52 AM CST Too Much Information
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Better toughen up for this lot....they don't take any prisoners....me included....grin


wave
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Oct 12, 2010 6:54 AM CST Too Much Information
SHERRY50
SHERRY50SHERRY50PORT MACQUARIE, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 185 Posts
Boban1: OMG.... someone has a new mouse....


cats meow
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Oct 12, 2010 6:56 AM CST Too Much Information
stefonline: Better toughen up for this lot....they don't take any prisoners....me included....


...hey Stef...nice to see you again....

wine

...yeah but don't scare the man off either...I mean...he must take the plunge no?


laugh
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Oct 12, 2010 7:05 AM CST Too Much Information
...you will be amazed how normal you will feel....

...after meeting some of the weirdos doing the rounds on here mate.....

laugh
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Oct 12, 2010 7:06 AM CST Too Much Information
Zpaset
ZpasetZpasetLismore, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 6 Posts
that’s comforting laugh
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